 astridhaze
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
 761 Posts
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Wednesday, January 28, 2009 6:49:15 AM
I thought this article made an excellent point. It's not about the mom or dad, but the kids. Too many people get wrapped up in their own crap that they forget the real victims, those two kids.I think the bio mom should be penalized for fraud- not her children. As for the father, he needs to get his head of his ass and continue to support those kids. Biology is not the sole determination of fatherhood. |
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 michaelcsr
Male, 30-39, Western US
392 Posts
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Wednesday, January 21, 2009 12:27:20 PM
This just pisses me off. He wouldn't have been so close to them, or even helped raise them if she hadn't liked and said they were his kids. If he loves the kids, and I am sure he does, then he should be given a choice to support them, and have as much visitation as he and the kids want. The lying bitch should have no say in it. I think if he loves the kids he can support them but his ex needs to pay him damages for fraud. And then face charges for filing a false claim of paternity to the province.
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 duffytoler
Male, 40-49, Midwest US
1013 Posts
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Wednesday, January 21, 2009 10:57:26 AM
Woman judge, figures.
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 vicious_liar
Male, 13-17, Europe
970 Posts
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Wednesday, January 21, 2009 9:38:31 AM
No I don't think so. You don't pay for you neighbours dog too, do you? This is bs, if I was that judge I'd charge HER with fraud. |
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 JimboH
Male, 30-39, Southern US
601 Posts
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009 8:03:20 PM
Well, I can honestly say that I'm stumped on this one. I just don't know the answer and could go either way on it.I'm sure that if I read through IAB comments, I'll find some nugget of truth that will lead me to the light, but my brain hurts right now and I'm going to choose to remain ignorant. |
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 opiebreath
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
14283 Posts
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009 7:16:05 PM
Man, the dad must feel kinda like a douche arguing for his right not to pay these kids. |
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 Mantistador
Male, 18-29, Western US
1374 Posts
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009 6:19:19 PM
she should either pay it all back with interest or he gets to bang her into an honest woman... |
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 BigBossDogg
Male, 18-29, Europe
102 Posts
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009 8:44:57 AM
This is a total wrong, not only should the Mother be ordered to pay him back 10 years worth of child support she should also have to face fruad charges.Laws concerning children are totally baised towards Mothers. |
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 freedan104
Male, 18-29, Midwest US
21 Posts
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009 6:58:36 AM
I really hope they appeal and get a reverse judgement. |
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 pmarren
Male, 30-39, Midwest US
1467 Posts
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009 5:30:11 AM
Not only should the guy not have to pay, but he should get a REFUND for any child support he'd paid in the past.If mommy continues her lying B.S. story about not "remembering", she can get a frickin' job and pay for the kids herself.
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 Devi3000
Female, 18-29, Western US
1527 Posts
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009 3:21:35 AM
Nope. He should not be made to pay. The mom needs to go after the biological father. |
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 BunnyNaku
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
2111 Posts
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009 2:52:31 AM
i think if he adopted the kids then yes.. BUT if he didnt.. and they werent his.. sorry mom but them checks aint yours NO MORE XD |
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 Tisjokar
Male, 18-29, Australia
429 Posts
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009 2:35:00 AM
Course not |
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 jdjd5883
Male, 18-29, Western US
887 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 10:32:37 PM
uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh NO! |
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 Loxen
Female, 30-39, Western US
622 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 10:15:42 PM
I gotta side with the guy, not his kids not his burden. Just because slutty mommy manipulated the situation in her favor to where he's the only daddy they know, dosn't mean he should have to pay for her Ill deeds till those kids are full grown.But then again, I also don't think guys should have to pay child support if they wish to terminate the pregnancy but have no say in the matter. I really think a guy should be able to get papers signed that state they wished to terminate but the mother refused. Thus waivering the child support requirement. |
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 sixclaws13
Male, 18-29, Midwest US
2308 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 8:52:40 PM
"Well, it's the same thing as adoption isn't it."No, not any more than my friends adopted me because I spend a lot of time with them. |
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 harrydick
Male, 18-29, Southern US
320 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 8:21:02 PM
Dad takes the kids in and makes the whore pay child support.How difficult is that? |
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 Pindragon
Male, 18-29, Midwest US
495 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 6:13:51 PM
That is bullpoo...What a bloody whore. |
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 fillemorte
Female, 18-29, Western US
657 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 5:29:32 PM
this should be on maury |
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 addler
Male, 13-17, Midwest US
480 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 5:10:25 PM
this is not like adoption at all, it is more like forced adoption if anything because the guy did not want to adopt kids at all. what should happen though, is he pays child support two more years and once the kids are 18 they can go and do whatever while the wife gets sued back to the stone age |
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 TalcumX
Male, 50-59, Eastern US
339 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 4:16:54 PM
Tell the kids that their mom is a slut who has been lying to them all of their lives and defrauding a man who has loved and supported them all of their lives. Let the kids decide, but do not give that bitch another dime. When the kids turn 18, sue the crap out of her until she is penniless.
Or he could take her out on a date. One bullet ought to do it. |
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thesandwich
Male, 18-29, Midwest US
105 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 3:54:14 PM
okay this is horrible, is it not bad enough that it is already to geared to give the woman nearly everything? But now she doesn't even have to be honest about it. She committed adultery, which in a few states is against the law, and then essentially charged him for it. I think that the children should be supported until the age of 18. They are already 16, and then she should pay back every cent with interest. It is sad the kids are caught in the middle of this, but the man needs to make a living too. And he should not be forced to pay for someone else's mistake. |
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 Kaizer250
Male, 18-29, Western US
764 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 3:50:51 PM
Well, it's the same thing as adoption isn't it. If they had adopted kids, who had then lived with them for 16 years, and then the parents separated, the father should still have to pay child support, despite their not being his, biologically.
Admittedly the wife is a b*tch, who should receive repercussions for what she did, but, whether the father likes it or not, the kids are still his, as much as they are anybody's, and he should have to pay child support. Ideally, the father should have received custody after this, and the wife should have to pay child support, but the judge didn't really side with the wife, she sided with the kids. |
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 PinkAndGreen
Female, 13-17, Southern US
796 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 3:41:33 PM
That's horrible.Just because he was lied to all these years and found out the truth means that he has to keep paying for it!? |
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 whipsmart
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
475 Posts
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Monday, January 19, 2009 3:11:35 PM
"Cornelio's wife claims she has no memory of having any affair and has no idea who the actual dad might be."TOTAL B.S. |
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