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What Really Happens When Men Beat Women

Hits: 6732 | Rating: (2.2) | Category: Community & Lifestyle | Added by: Smoothjc1
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MsJJAdeL
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
 55 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 12:55:47 PM
Can we please get past which gender is to blame (her for staying, him for being a douchebag) and get on the the real issue at hand: In the last 90 years, the relationship of marriage has evolved (both legally and socially) from one of Patriarch and ward/wife to one of equals and partners. However, despite this supposed equalization, 1/4 of women in the UK are beaten and brutalized by their husbands/partners. This is a problem that must be addressed and rectified. I'm sorry if the topic makes you uncomfortable...

chalket
Male, 50-59, Southern US
 2481 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 12:36:11 PM
@Dover78
"microcosmic problem"? Really?

* Every 9 seconds in the US a woman is assaulted or beaten (source).

* Domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women - more than car accidents, muggings, and rapes combined.

* Around the world, at least one in every three women has been beaten, or abused during her lifetime. Most often, the abuser is a member of her own family.

* Everyday in the US, more than three women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends.

* Domestic violence victims lose nearly 8 million days of paid work per year in the US alone - the equivalent of 32,000 full-time jobs.

* The costs of intimate partner violence in the US alone exceed $5.8 billion per year: $4.1 billion are for direct medical and health care services, while productivity losses a

Atrayu4u
Female, 18-29, Western US
 1479 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 12:32:27 PM
Yikes. I'm also disturbed that this came from a site called bestgore dot com.

I've been hit on two separate occasions. Once by my boyfriend at the time. Went to court and such, but he played the I-have-a-daughter-to-take-care-of and I-just-enrolled-in-community-college good boy crap cards. They didn't even listen to my side.

The other happened a couple days before this past Christmas. I actually laughed at the guy at the first punch because I was so shocked he actually punched me. The second was worse. Yay for strong teeth.

Dover78
Male, 18-29, Eastern US
 224 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 11:31:59 AM
I'd like to hear more on some other demographic on demographic violence. Say Black on Midget violence, or maybe Women on Old Person. Old Woman on Quadriplegic Man would be interesting. Just something to get me good and fired up about a microcosmic problem, take my mind off the real world-wide problems.

LordJim
Male, 50-59, Europe
 4165 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 11:26:10 AM
'(see what I did there?)'

Yes.

chalket
Male, 50-59, Southern US
 2481 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 10:43:34 AM
I'd hit it.

(see what I did there?) :P

LordJim
Male, 50-59, Europe
 4165 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 10:13:28 AM
If only women were as rational and clear thinking as men, eh guys? Then there wouldn't be a problem. Simple solution right there, but do they listen? Of course not, they just bring it on themselves.

lt633c
Male, 50-59, Eastern US
 143 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 9:46:20 AM
Gerry - I agree. The very first time and it's over. Abusers don't change. That's what I would do if the roles were reversed. Some crazy bitch gets all enraged and starts beating on me ? See ya.

McGovern1981
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
 13145 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 9:42:46 AM
I met few women who dated a guy who was a douchebag from the start (mostly they start out nice) and stuck with them, but a lot of young teens in their rebelling phase of life who do.


And most of that said group wind up staying with them from fear, an I can change him view and other naivety. So in a round about way you've just agreed with me.

lt633c
Male, 50-59, Eastern US
 143 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 9:39:50 AM
Ending the cycle of violence takes an immediate arrest, and then get the victim away to safety. OR a few of her close male friends need to find the guy in the night and make him look the same as she does. I've investigated hundreds of domestic assaults, and just about every time I've said to the guy "why don't you take a swing at me and see what happens". Not one ever did. Wife beaters are cowards.

thubanstar
Female, 40-49, Southern US
 803 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 9:38:35 AM
My ex hit me sometimes.

I stayed because I had nowhere else to go. No emotional support from anyone, no way of supporting myself financially. Eventually, he wore me down to the point where he could scream at me all night, and my only response was "yes dear". Someone tells you you are worthless enough times, you start to believe it.

You men who don't get this truly are clueless. Bad self-esteem and helplessness are the reason women get into and stay with guys like this.

McGovern1981
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
 13145 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 9:35:05 AM
@peakingo

Yes, speaking what others don't have the balls to say is quite cowardly uh? Truth peakingo
is this is the internet you don't know a f**king damn thing about me.

peakingo
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
 687 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 9:26:12 AM
Also, am I the only one weirded out by the fact that this video was posted on a site called "Best Gore"?

peakingo
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
 687 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 9:24:47 AM
"yet girls still always go for the douchebag."

Spoken like a true coward. There are two types of douchebags:

1-Bro types who make it clear of who they are.

2-Cowardly types who act like a "nice guy" then make generalized comments about why girls don't like nice guys like him and only go out with level 1 douchebags.

Truth McGovern, girls like guys with confidence and sometimes some, especially at a naive age, confuse that with douchbaggery.

I'm guessing you're probably in the friend zone a lot and have some pent up resentment towards women.

ForSquirel
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
 1512 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 9:22:27 AM
You know, we should feel sorry, but it's been said time and time and time again. I've seen it time and time and time again myself, but comeon! I realize that society is gradually dumbing itself down I doubt this woman could say 'I really didn't think it would have gone this far. I mean, the first 30 times he beat me I said it was my fault and maybe it still is........'

Wake up already. You see it in the news, you see it on the webz, it's everywhere. There's no reason that this should still continue.

Smoothjc1
Male, 50-59, Midwest US
 211 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 9:20:51 AM
My own title FAIL should read (adult male).
Because NO man beats a woman.

Evil_Eye
Male, 18-29, Europe
 1440 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 9:12:05 AM
@insane_ai: My reality is I worked in a crown court for two years and I have seen too many cases of women not leaving to just go "Oh she likes him because he is a douchebag". There is obviously some more psychological reason then childish naivety in why 1/3 of women stay with abusers.

I met few women who dated a guy who was a douchebag from the start (mostly they start out nice) and stuck with them, but a lot of young teens in their rebelling phase of life who do. Unless McGovern hunts for girls in a school field, or women are very different in America, then it is not true.

@McGovern: Na, I just think that flat out statement to this is not what a 30 year old should still think. I thought that until I was out of school and being stuck in a office job with only women and the odd passing cop/judge/lawyer to talk to.

Gerry1of1
Male, 50-59, Western US
 33895 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 9:04:54 AM

I understand they don't start the relationship as beaters, but but the first time he hits her it's over. Why is that such a difficult concept? Is it wishful thinking overriding the rational brain? "I want him to change so I'll stay".

Wishful thinking doesn't make anything better. Taking action does.

McGovern1981
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
 13145 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 8:46:38 AM
@Evil_Eye

insane_ai
Male, 30-39, Midwest US
 686 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 8:35:15 AM
1. Guys that do this deserver a long slow painful death.

@McGovern1981: Go to yahoo and find the article investigating why the women keep going back.

@Evil_Eye: Please overdose on whatever drug you are on because you clearly have no sense of reality. McGovern made a statement that happens to be true although uncomfortable. F-u-c-k off

Reignblazer
Male, 18-29, Europe
 2125 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 8:27:22 AM
Chavs are gonna chav.

Evil_Eye
Male, 18-29, Europe
 1440 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 8:09:01 AM
@McGovern1981: You must get a lot then. You watch a video of a women who literally had her eyes punched out of her skull and say she is the one in fault.

I am in a long relationship and I just got it by asking. That is what the "nice guys" seem to forget to do most of the time.

carmium
Female, 50-59, Canada
 6290 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 8:06:48 AM
I feel very sorry for this woman, but I'd bet money on one thing: he beat her before they had two kids. She chose not to leave him. It's not her fault she was assaulted, just as it wouldn't be her fault if she was attacked walking thru a park in the seedy part of town at 2:00 AM. But she would have told you that doing the latter would be crazy.
Girls should be taught in school: beaters don't change.

McGovern1981
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
 13145 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 7:55:01 AM
Yet girls still always go for the douchebag.

Smoothjc1
Male, 50-59, Midwest US
 211 Posts
Friday, March 22, 2013 7:45:51 AM
Link: What Really Happens When Men Beat Women [Rate Link] - NO fake stuff here. Warning: Graphic

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