 PTPete
Female, 30-39, Western US
 1199 Posts
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Saturday, February 16, 2013 7:31:50 PM
When I was counseling for California I found the younger mothers to be sadly lacking in parenting skills. They needed TONS of assistance. The older moms tended to have their act together. There are always exceptions, of course--I know several. So the debate continues... |
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 patchgrabber
Male, 30-39, Canada
5252 Posts
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Friday, February 15, 2013 6:44:15 AM
I would also like to poinr out that a few years ago it was normal to starta famaily by 20 or so
And before that it was normal at 18, then 16, etc. until we're back to the time when we sold women's virginity as chattel trying to knock them up as soon as we could. Appeals to tradition are not valid. |
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 madduck
Female, 40-49, Europe
2822 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 11:24:51 PM
I would also like to poinr out that a few years ago it was normal to starta famaily by 20 or so, I had my first child at 22, I know quite a few girls who were mothers by 21 and damn fine mothers they are too. My own feeling is that if you squeeze 'em out at 40 or over you are probably too selfish and set to be a mother. but that is not my decision.... |
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 tatripp
Male, 18-29, Western US
1180 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 11:17:29 PM
that's just sad |
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 Twinklestein
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
130 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 10:22:15 PM
I'm waiting for the follow-up report that she was attacked by "unknown assailants" and miscarried due to repeated kicks to the stomach. |
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 zombunny
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
2524 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 2:47:42 PM
That's a meaningless statement. Very few teenagers get pregnant on purpose. I'd say probably less than 1%, and the teen pregnancy rate in the U.S. is actually declining, thankfully. |
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 lungcancerz
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
16 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 2:32:09 PM
kick garbage to the curb. The parent did a crappy job of raising her. she's broken and should go out with the other broken trash. choice 2. spontaneous trip to the grand canyon. opps she got to close to the edge. 2 well deserved abortions with one nudge, i mean tragic accident |
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 McGovern1981
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
10188 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 2:03:15 PM
LOL you seem to think some don't want to get knocked up. "I'm gonna get on MTV'z YALLZZ!!" |
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zombunny
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
2524 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 2:01:20 PM
There actually are clinics that do give out condoms for free. Planned Parenthood will give you a whole bag of them just for walking in the door. |
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 LordJim
Male, 50-59, Europe
2401 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 1:56:34 PM
' knocked up early cause thug wannabees have to "raw dog" it and bimbos wanna bimbo'
Cold shower. Seriously. |
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madduck
Female, 40-49, Europe
2822 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 1:47:47 PM
Sharp NAILS... |
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madduck
Female, 40-49, Europe
2822 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 1:47:21 PM
I agree Zombunny, lets face it- there is a huge double standard here, and as long as it is done responsibly sex is fun. so basically a teenage girl of, say 15 would need to ask her parents about either the pill or the jab? That seem quite intrusive and while condoms should be worn at all times younger girls tend to be ridiculously fertile and have sharp anils. If a girls parents have issues with her emerging sex life she is reliants on condoms which she would have to pay for? How daft- give them free- and allow girls to get jabbed or implanted for free- once over about 14-15 they should be able to make that decision for themselves. |
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zombunny
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
2524 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 1:39:18 PM
There are a number of reasons that teenagers get pregnant, and dismissing teen mothers as "sluts" (and I really hate that word) oversimplifies and contributes to the problem. |
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McGovern1981
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
10188 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 1:22:59 PM
What is the situation over there for contraceptives? Do kids have to pay, do their parents have to get involved, do schools sort it out?
They have sex ed in high school. Condoms you have to pay for but birth control can be covered by insurance. Stupid people still get knocked up early cause thug wannabees have to "raw dog" it and bimbos wanna bimbo. |
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madduck
Female, 40-49, Europe
2822 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 1:05:34 PM
What is the situation over there for contraceptives? Do kids have to pay, do their parents have to get involved, do schools sort it out? |
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McGovern1981
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
10188 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 1:04:59 PM
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McGovern1981
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
10188 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 12:55:11 PM
Nah I'm slamming her cause it sounds like everyone else in TX has! MWUAHAHAHAHA!! No really contraceptives FFS!! |
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LordJim
Male, 50-59, Europe
2401 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 12:28:13 PM
Gerry,
Oh no! You mean that when she is 17, 18, 23 whatever she might actually have sex again?(Clutches pearls) How vile.How utterly vile. Oh that the world has come to this. |
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zombunny
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
2524 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 12:24:58 PM
Thank you, madduck. My thoughts exactly. Shaming girls for having sex is part of the reason that they don't ask their parents to help them get contraceptives. |
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LordJim
Male, 50-59, Europe
2401 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 12:22:31 PM
McGovern.
You really don't like women, do you? Daddy's little cum dumpster? That's a damaged place to be coming from. Maybe sharing a little too much there. |
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madduck
Female, 40-49, Europe
2822 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 12:07:37 PM
Calling her a slut is quite disgusting. Teenagers have sex, sex is nice, it's fun, and when you are a teenager you want to do it for numerous reasons. Calling GIRLS names for doing what ( quite literally) comes naturally is something belonging to the Victorians. She is no more a slut than her boyfriend, just a shame she has such a pooty relationship with her parents. |
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zombunny
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
2524 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 11:52:42 AM
Who will take care of the baby is irrelevant. Parents do not have a legal right to force their daughter to abort a pregnancy. Period. It's not about fetus rights, it's not about parental rights, it's about her rights. |
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 Gerry1of1
Male, 50-59, Western US
25558 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 11:45:17 AM
Regardless of whether she has the abortion or not,
I'm sure she'll be up and on her back in no time. |
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McGovern1981
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
10188 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 11:43:01 AM
Essshhh relax guys from the sound of this daddys little cum dumpster will be back and on her back in no time popping out at least 5-7 kids for us to support!! |
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LordJim
Male, 50-59, Europe
2401 Posts
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Thursday, February 14, 2013 11:38:21 AM
Gerry,
Recently in my small town we had a case of a 16 year old girl who chose to decline cancer treatment. She'd been undergoing debilitating and painful treatment for years and understood that she had the choice of about a year of fairly normal life or three or four years of being treated and treatment being her life, with death being the outcome either way. She chose the former.
Horrible for everyone but why would she be unqualified to make that choice?
How far should you let this child pretend she's an adult? Well apparently her parents were talking about slipping her an abortifiicient without her knowledge. How adult is that? |
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