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Hits: 19137 | Rating: (1.9) | Category: Funny | Added by: lostinkorea
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Fojos
Male, 18-29, Europe
 152 Posts
Tuesday, May 29, 2012 2:43:17 PM
"People only treat you how you let them treat you. If she's up front and declares she wants to just be friends, what the hell is wrong with that? Put on your BIG BOY PANTS and either be friends or MOVE ON! I think some people just really need to grow up."

That's where you girls have it wrong. Being in the friend zone is when the woman doesn't say straight up what she wants from someone. It's when she doesn't say she only wants to be friends, falsely leading someone on. It's like you all believe women can't be bad.

Justin9235
Male, 18-29, Midwest US
 1582 Posts
Tuesday, May 29, 2012 4:54:25 AM
@Shinymetal

Lol, pretty much.

Squrlz4Sale
Male, 40-49, Eastern US
 6018 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 9:27:22 PM
@LIK: I definitely think you hit an IAB nerve with this post. LOL!

mqRed
Male, 18-29, Australia
 6 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 7:27:16 PM
Dear Men,
If you wanted to have a sexual relationship with a woman and it didn't happen in the first month of knowing her. Move on.

Don't bitch about the friendzone because you're the one responsible for getting in it. If you want a relationship with someone don't be a coward and tell them how you feel, that way you won't be doing more damage to yourself for months and year s to come.

Shinymetal
Male, 18-29, Midwest US
 168 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 4:48:01 PM
chances are if a male is actively seeking companionship from a female, he is usually seeking more than a platonic friendship that he could do better at with his male friends. girls need to not worry about hurting a mans feeling and be honest with him. to be dishonest with someone for fear of hurt feelings seldom leads to a good ending. this also goes for men who lead on women.

Shinymetal
Male, 18-29, Midwest US
 168 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 4:46:10 PM
so here is what i read.

Guys should stop complaining about being friend-zoned because I enjoy the special treatment I get from men who want to be with me. I obviously benefit from these relationships so i string the male along with just enough hope to keep him around but not so little that he stops helping me move my heavy property or fixing my car or computer/ loaning me money/ telling me how beautiful and worthwhile i am(though clearly not). in conclusion you should take this as a compliment and be grateful that I don't care enough about you to tell you to move on to another woman who will return your love properly.

unless he was told explicitly he has no chance, then whoever agrees with this is delusional.

DrProfessor
Male, 18-29, Midwest US
 3884 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 3:59:51 PM
I kiss your mommy with my vulgar mouth.

ChiefRocka
Male, 18-29, Canada
 65 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 3:58:24 PM
I wouldnt say bitchy men friend zone drating blows

maddux32
Male, 30-39, Western US
 900 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 1:44:39 PM
I'm with Leesah. And I respect that. Kind of weirded out by the guys trying to call her out.

leesah
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
 1577 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 12:09:12 PM
Do you kiss your mommy with that vulgar mouth, little boy?

NNoamfer
Male, 18-29, Europe
 1192 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 11:46:35 AM
Goddamn Leesah, you are a stupid bitch.

Crabes
Male, 30-39, Canada
 1049 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 11:34:30 AM
I hate these posts who is trying to teach man how to behave with woman, its plain stupid

leesah
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
 1577 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 11:31:29 AM
"Also that would make you Scarlett and she professed her love of Rhett"

Out of desperation when everything else was taken from her and she had nowhere left in the world to turn. Let's ignore the current conversation for a second here, don't tell me you believe for a second that Scarlett really changed her ways. Ashley had nothing left to offer her, once her eyes opened to that she left him to mourn his own miserable life so she could get back to Rhett and his money. She only starts to repent when even Rhett leaves her and she's left destitute again, and she doesn't repent for what she's done, she repents losing what she had.

& I tell him we'd be like Rhett and Scarlett because he knows we'd never be together except to use each other for our own gains.

faaaaq
Male, 18-29, Midwest US
 671 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 11:25:57 AM
and if a guy only is interested in you because he wants to drat you, SUCK IT UP AND TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT, at least he is interested and finds you attractive.

there. feel better ladies?

patchgrabber
Male, 30-39, Canada
 5712 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 10:50:08 AM
I always tell the one from the UK that if he were richer and whiter we'd be the real Rhett and Scarlet and he always says "but then I'd have to like you". So clearly at least one of them is not about constantly kissing my ass.


So you tell him that if he were richer you'd be the star-crossed lovers from Gone With The Wind? That sounds to me like you telling him he needs to be rich and buy you things for you two to be together. Also that would make you Scarlett and she professed her love of Rhett, so by your own analogy you like the man? I'm done with this conversation, I don't know what I hoped to achieve, but you just go on having your ego stroked, because having an external locus of worth doesn't seem to bother you. Bonne chance.

leesah
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
 1577 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 10:33:17 AM
-getting anything in return. Wouldn't that make him the man you all keep championing, the guy who does these wonderful things because he's sensitive and loving and not because he's just looking for sex?

leesah
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
 1577 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 10:32:06 AM
"learly taking advantage of people's kindness and affection is something that is looked down upon."

I'm not taking advantage of anyone. These are three guys who I have blatantly outright rejected and they insist on continuing to buy me presents anyway. I don't see why that's so hard for you to comprehend, but then again I wouldn't exactly call you a "smart boy".

"because their pestering is pathetic and annoying."

To who? I don't think they're annoying. If they're clinging to their own made up false hope that's hardly my problem, but none of them give that impression. I always tell the one from the UK that if he were richer and whiter we'd be the real Rhett and Scarlet and he always says "but then I'd have to like you". So clearly at least one of them is not about constantly kissing my ass. Maybe he enjoys buying me presents because he thinks I deserve nice things and he can provide them without the expectation of getti

patchgrabber
Male, 30-39, Canada
 5712 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 10:16:28 AM
Why? Are you jealous of my gifts? That's the only logical reason I can think of as to why you're so butthurt over the fact that guys are sending me things

Jealous? Far from it. I'm also not suggesting that you can only receive gifts for sex. The point is that these guys don't really even seem to be your friends. Are they friends that you hang out with? If not then one would think the best thing to do would be to sever contact with these individuals, because their pestering is pathetic and annoying. Part of this would be to send back their gifts, because by keeping them these idiots are like a stray cat that you fed once (with however much attention you initially gave them) and now they won't stop. Even though you may have told them you aren't interested, by keeping their gifts it could give them the impression that you're doing something like playing hard to get.

swoop408
Male, 18-29, Western US
 1768 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 9:57:01 AM
Leesah, clearly taking advantage of people's kindness and affection is something that is looked down upon. Especially knowing full well what you're doing and then trying to be a braggart about it. You're a smart girl. I don't think it's hard to comprehend this.

leesah
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
 1577 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 9:12:06 AM
"If guys are sending you gifts with no implied chance to get with you, just send them back."

Why? Are you jealous of my gifts? That's the only logical reason I can think of as to why you're so butthurt over the fact that guys are sending me things, even though they know they're not going to get anything in return. According to you I'm only allowed to keep the gifts I get in exchange for sex! Slut souvenirs are A-OK but how dare I accept them when given freely!

If my boyfriends have liked my personality, why is it "bad"? Because YOU don't like it? Luckily, no one is forced to be with people they don't like! You don't have to acknowledge me at all if you can't stand my personality, imagine that!

swoop408
Male, 18-29, Western US
 1768 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 9:05:43 AM
Oh Leesah, you're either a great troll or just a horrible human being. I don't care either way.

patchgrabber
Male, 30-39, Canada
 5712 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 8:49:22 AM
I do believe that men and women can be friends.

Of course they can, if they're both in committed relationships.

Which is what I've always done.

Being narcissistic isn't ok just because it's what you've always done. I'm struggling to not reduce my argument to ad Hitlerum, but if someone has, say, anger problems, is it ok for that person to yell and scream at people because it's what they've always done? Maybe your bf's have liked your narcissistic personality, maybe they haven't, but that doesn't make it a good personality. If guys are sending you gifts with no implied chance to get with you, just send them back. Sounds to me like you're only keeping their gifts to feed your ego.

leesah
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
 1577 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 8:25:13 AM
"As opposed to being narcissistic like you."

Which is what I've always done.

Don't act like I tied them down and screamed until they cried. No one forced them to hang around for over a year in each case, they stayed of their own accord and only left when I told them I was done with them. That's life!

DrProfessor
Male, 18-29, Midwest US
 3884 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 8:22:31 AM
The thing about the friendzone is that it's not just some guy trying to get laid--I've been there before, when I was younger and a lot more naive about women. You're struck with hopeless puppy-love for this girl, and you spend hours every day with her talking about every little detail of your lives and futures. While she interprets it as you gossiping with her, the same way she would with any of her other friends, you feel as though you've been baring your very soul to her. You would face down an army of bear-cyborgs alone for her sake without flinching--and yet, you watch her make her way through a long line of guys who ill-use her and make her miserable. You can't figure out why it has to be that way, why she doesn't realize just how much she means to you, or what's wrong with you that makes her ignore you.

Of course, it's a lot more complicated than it appears, something neither of you realize. Guys aren't always out just to get laid. We know love and passion too.

DrProfessor
Male, 18-29, Midwest US
 3884 Posts
Monday, May 28, 2012 8:14:08 AM
@YgurueKage--I retracted my statement (a little reluctantly) because I gave SarahofBorg the benefit of the doubt and assumed she wasn't talking to me. I'll try to reproduce it as best I can though.

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