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Why Men And Women Can't Be Friends, Part 2

Hits: 9056 | Rating: (1.8) | Category: Funny | Added by: patvicious1
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PhotoKing
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
 523 Posts
Wednesday, February 22, 2012 3:50:22 PM
dude dressed like a bear...

wake_n_bake
Male, 18-29, Southern US
 657 Posts
Tuesday, February 21, 2012 2:21:46 PM
I think the guy in the video phrased it the best.

If you put someone in the position enough times, they will eventually fall. No matter how sincere or how much they love you, people aren't perfect, and people make mistakes.

That being said, I don't think it's appropriate to hang out with the opposite sex alone when you're in a relationship, but group settings are fine. Even if nothing happens, you'll probably make your partner paranoid and jealous, which is mean in its own weird kind of way.

patchgrabber
Male, 30-39, Canada
 5728 Posts
Tuesday, February 21, 2012 12:27:16 PM
Just watch "When Harry Met Sally".

Gerry1of1
Male, 50-59, Western US
 33911 Posts
Tuesday, February 21, 2012 7:00:54 AM

@ tttaylorrr - no, you're right. I don't know you, him, or your relationship.
But I know guys. We're juvenile, posessive, agressive, territorial, and all those other caveman things. So if the boyfriend isn't into you enough to care, he's probably not that into you. But why does he have to be? You're not marrying him or anything.

Tally the thread here and you'll see most girls say "it's okay" most guys say "it's not".

ChainsawNbud
Male, 50-59, Southern US
 745 Posts
Tuesday, February 21, 2012 5:50:20 AM
Every one of these couples he interviewed probably got in a huge argument and broke up later that night :)

akabane
Male, 18-29, Eastern US
 1051 Posts
Tuesday, February 21, 2012 3:43:43 AM
@ 2:04 Al Bundy quote

fatex52986
Male, 18-29, Western US
 1135 Posts
Tuesday, February 21, 2012 3:43:35 AM
I have a chick friend whom if my girl friend didnt accept her then bye. cause ITs a totally platonic relationship always has been

I-IS-BORED
Male, 18-29, Canada
 2432 Posts
Tuesday, February 21, 2012 12:12:15 AM
men and women can't be friends? you people are retarded

swoop408
Male, 18-29, Western US
 1768 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 10:45:16 PM
Insecurities are rampant here. wow lol

swoop408
Male, 18-29, Western US
 1768 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 10:41:26 PM
Me and my gf must be the exception to this rule then. This is all new to me.

Angilion
Male, 40-49, Europe
 11644 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 10:33:31 PM
I don't easily get jealous, but at the same time, i don't trust other guys, and I've had various girlfriends admit a similar distrust of my longtime female friends.


If you think any of those guys would rape your girlfriend, surely the right thing to do is at least warn her and explain why you think he/they is/are rapists?

Likewise for the "various girlfriends" who, you claim, admitted that they thought your longtime female friends would rape you.

Or (and I think this is much more likely) you and those "various girlfriends" are lying about who it is you don't trust. If you think your girlfriend might *choose* to have sex with some guy who's offering, it's *her* you don't trust. Likewise for those various girlfriends you mention and you.

thatjimguy
Male, 30-39, Eastern US
 448 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 7:37:51 PM
The problem is that women always want someone on the side "just in case". That way, they don't cheat...officially, but they are there, waiting in the wings. It's all about power. If a guy puts up with it, he'll be gone because every relationship has it ups and downs and that grass is always greener.

ALiveP
Female, 18-29, Australia
 3 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 6:52:58 PM
its called having trust in your relationship.
if you can trust yourself around the opposite sex then why wouldn't you trust your partner?

schecter5
Male, 18-29, Eastern US
 412 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 5:20:41 PM
Most of my friends are girls, but thats just kinda how it's always been due to some factors of my childhood. I had to learn to be able to get along with girls and have the ability to view them as just friends because thats what i was mostly surrounded by through out my time elementary school.

With that said, as I've gotten older, it has become increasingly difficult to remain just friends with many of the girls mainly due to outside expectations. When I'm dating a girl, I admittedly don't like her to be hanging out with other guys one on one, and I try to hang out with my female friends in groups that include my current interest. I don't easily get jealous, but at the same time, i don't trust other guys, and I've had various girlfriends admit a similar distrust of my longtime female friends.

Wildcats2008
Male, 18-29, Southern US
 237 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 4:35:52 PM
Here's the deal ladies. When you say "but most of my friends are guys" that is not true. You have a line of guys that are willing to bone you if given the opportunity. The ones that aren't in that line are probably gay.

Don't believe me? Ask them.

Angilion
Male, 40-49, Europe
 11644 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 4:23:03 PM
It's honestly never bothered me. I always looked at it in the way that he can have a lot of friends who are girls but he picked only me as his girlfriend, so why should I have anything to worry about?

Or maybe I've just been way too trusting...



Well, there's a fair chance you'll be involved with some guy who is cheating on you, sooner or later.

But that could happen anyway and overall you'll be better off with an abundance of trust than without enough of it. Few things kill relationships more effectively than trust issues.

Solvent
Male, 18-29, Eastern US
 2855 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 3:38:08 PM
BRING FORTH THE ANGRY COMMENTS.

som-tam
Male, 18-29, Asia
 655 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 2:19:10 PM
women: it's ok for me to hangout with my male friend one to one but not ok for my boyfriend to go out with just a female friend.

this is because women are insecure about their relationships and need to cultivate a 'saftey net' guy who they can settle for if need be.

men are just realists: i don't hangout with girls unless i want to have sex with them, therefore this 'guyfriend' wants to have sex with my girlfriend. so drat that guy, let him get his own girlfriend the friendzoned loser.

Datastrom
Female, 18-29, Southern US
 31 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 1:36:14 PM
You either trust your partner or you don't. If you don't then it's something you need to deal with as you believe your partner is not entirely trustworthy or that you are insecure with the relationship. You cannot force anyone into staying with you, you have to accept they are their own person.

tttaylorrr
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
 91 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 12:23:21 PM
@Gerry1of1 we've been dating for 2 years, and i know it doesn't bother him. also i'm pretty sure you don't know him or our relationship, sOz... |:

Fatninja01
Male, 18-29, Australia
 24740 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 12:19:21 PM
Well... it depends on the friends. Friendzone friends are usually boyfriend wanna be;s

antarctica55
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
 43 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 10:43:24 AM
My best friend is a guy. He's in he army, so our only correspondence is text messages and e-mail. The one time I told him my boy troubles he responded that he forgot I was a girl. Gender ain't no big thing, baby

RecycleElf
Male, 18-29, Europe
 3632 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 10:33:12 AM
oh i-a-b, why do you have to rustle my jimmies so?

madduck
Female, 50-59, Europe
 6013 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 10:32:32 AM
Of course- I have male friends, my partner has female friends. Not a problem at all- cannot think why it would be?

bataleon27
Male, 18-29, Europe
 1179 Posts
Monday, February 20, 2012 10:25:41 AM
pretty stupid really, just because something bothers your other half doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. Couples can be irrational and often know that they are being stupid.

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