 KeVsTeR2475
Male, 13-17, Canada
 1853 Posts
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Wednesday, June 16, 2010 10:04:16 PM
so... its not MMM, fancy changed to "girl"? |
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 badname_001
Female, 18-29, Canada
130 Posts
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Wednesday, June 16, 2010 1:07:32 AM
maybe some girls fall victim to the ladder theory bullpoo but most either dont or grow out of it very quickly. Or are the type to enjoy twilight.
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 ingrateful
Male, 13-17, Southern US
419 Posts
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Tuesday, June 08, 2010 2:09:17 PM
Dayum. That last guy is in such a predicament. This girl seems pretty wise |
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 gorgack2000
Male, 13-17, Europe
4702 Posts
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Monday, June 07, 2010 3:30:49 PM
"gorgack that's not at all true"
It is. I used to do the Nice Guy act myself, until I read that comic and realised how deceptive it is.
There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy of course. It's just wrong if you're acting nice towards a girl to try and get her to become your friend.
It's something to do with girls classing guys as proper friends whilst guys, unconsciously, treat any attractive girl friends as potential mates. Befriending a girl, earning her trust and then revealing that you only made friends with her so you could try and hook up with her is a massive shot in the metaphorical balls for the girl.
It's just best to play it straight and ask them out tbh, as the comic explains.
Also thanks sbeelz even if I didn't make the comic. I read some of your posts on an earlier thread, you're an awesome person by the sound of it. |
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 gatorade777
Male, 18-29, Eastern US
1201 Posts
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Sunday, June 06, 2010 7:14:52 AM
gorgack that's not at all true |
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 cagel
Female, 18-29, Western US
277 Posts
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Saturday, June 05, 2010 12:42:17 PM
My credentials: I'm a writer that studies gender theory and sexuality. I'm in a community of sex educators who approach sexuality from multiple angles that are not only influenced by cultural constructs and hetero-normativity. Even us accomplished people get bored and waste some time on forums.
I think it's strange that one person thinks that pursuing actual information about sexuality means your life is troubled. I also think it's strange that you bristle at anyone pointing out these links provide troubling and ill-informed advice. All I did was quesion "Girl's" authority. It's the same as if she were on here giving medical advice with no training. (And if you say it isn't, then you don't understand the complexity or seriousness of sexuality.)
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 sbeelz
Male, 30-39, Western US
2860 Posts
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Saturday, June 05, 2010 11:37:09 AM
@gogack2000
That comic was awesome. I can't tell you how many times I've had the same conversation with a friend and thought "If you were only being friends with her because you expected something in return, then you were never her friend." |
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gorgack2000
Male, 13-17, Europe
4702 Posts
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Saturday, June 05, 2010 8:43:58 AM
This comic basically sums up my thoughts on "nice guys". |
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 mluther
Male, 13-17, Eastern US
1024 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 7:29:29 PM
trust your instincs, just not blindly. Your gut is right most of the time, just don't walk into something bad when your gut is wrong. |
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mluther
Male, 13-17, Eastern US
1024 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 7:28:04 PM
it's a sad day when it's weird for 2 people to not be living together when they are having romantic relations. |
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 xxPinkxx
Female, 18-29, Canada
3842 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 4:27:13 PM
I dont think shes cheating on him. i think he may be paranoid because he has had someone cheat on him in the past. It seems weird they dont live together, eventhough she is pregnant and they are engaged.
Best thing to do is trust her, unless you find obvious proof, or a witness that she is cheating. You cant build a relationship without trust, dude. I think counseling will help also |
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 CreepyShanny
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
153 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 4:01:59 PM
damn i was hoping this one would still have the address....i have some issues and need advice lol... |
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 ElSombrero
Male, 13-17, Eastern US
720 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 3:59:52 PM
I knew he spelled "plethora" wrong! |
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 almightybob1
Male, 18-29, Europe
4278 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 3:07:08 PM
Ah, the "you don't trust me" cop-out.
Get a paternity test mate. Or get all private investigator on her ass. Or just straight up ask her who the unfriendly guy is.
And to all the "MOAR FUNNIEZ PLZ" people - this site is for relieving boredom. Humour is not the only way to do that. Things can be interesting without being funny. That's why we also occasionally link to current affairs and news reports.
cagel: until you provide credentials, I'm not going to follow your advice and go to any other website. |
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 Fatninja01
Male, 18-29, Australia
23995 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 2:03:51 PM
meh! |
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 Salted_Eggs
Male, 18-29, Western US
773 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 10:45:34 AM
Nidonemo,
Naming volcanoes are we? |
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 ultimakewl
Male, 18-29, Eastern US
660 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 9:26:16 AM
how can you say some guy broke a girls heart when she doesnt even consider what they had as a relationship? |
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 Nidonemo
Male, 18-29, Western US
9216 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 8:48:03 AM
"tl;dr"
*smacks upside the head*
OUT! OUT! OUT! DEMONS OF DISTRACTION! ENLONGATE THY ATTENTION SPAN! IN THE NAME OF THE INTERNET, THE WEB, AND THE HOLY NETWORK I CLEANSE THEE! HABAHNARFABELJAADDA! |
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 Angelmassb
Male, 18-29, S. America
15474 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 7:34:18 AM
Cagel .... Center V2.0? |
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 JonasQuim
Male, 18-29, Europe
112 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 7:25:38 AM
tl;dr |
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 opiebreath
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
16061 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 7:24:41 AM
I'd do a guy who used fancy words like plethora, but not one that spells it wrong.
HA! |
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 a1butcher
Male, 40-49, Canada
4783 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 6:43:46 AM
@ cagel>>>> " I recommend people go to Good Vibrations (website or store) and talk to somebody who probably has a Ph.D. "
Sooo... we ARE to take YOUR advise (recommendation) then??
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 xRazer
Male, 13-17, Eastern US
42 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 4:34:50 AM
More. |
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 r3tr0r0ck3r
Male, 18-29, Europe
188 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 3:55:45 AM
That guy who thinks his pregnant fiancee is cheating on him (judging on what he's written) is being a paranoid idiot. |
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 regediT
Male, 18-29, Europe
723 Posts
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Friday, June 04, 2010 3:09:12 AM
Boring questions are boring |
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