 GuardinGnome
Male, 18-29, Eastern US
 2900 Posts
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Wednesday, June 02, 2010 5:23:11 AM
HOW COME YOU CAN SAY poo ON A POST, BUT I CANT TYPE IT!!!
poo!!!
BULLpoo!!!
TRIPLE BULLpoo!!!
SH*T!!! |
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 Crucible
Male, 18-29, Canada
1822 Posts
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Sunday, May 30, 2010 11:57:54 PM
She's a dyke, dude. Get over it. |
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 Wiggle1111
Male, 18-29, Europe
78 Posts
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Sunday, May 30, 2010 8:17:17 PM
Woo! 2 deriding comments in a row, I'm on a roll!! |
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Wiggle1111
Male, 18-29, Europe
78 Posts
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Sunday, May 30, 2010 8:15:57 PM
@ SEpth: Bollocks. Compromise all you like, but if your gonna spend all your time avoiding discomfort then you're pretty much doomed anyway. Mr. Caring should want to be with you more when you're on your period since you are in fact in an emotional state.
Caring > Being happy all the time |
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Wiggle1111
Male, 18-29, Europe
78 Posts
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Sunday, May 30, 2010 7:56:50 PM
@sirrix: So don't click it feckwit! |
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 sirrix
Male, 18-29, Eastern US
209 Posts
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Sunday, May 30, 2010 7:48:12 PM
Oh and before davymid complains that not enough people contribute links, consider that this is a for-profit site owned by a large company and quite frankly, I'm not contributing anything that helps someone else profit on it unless I'm getting a cut. Your altruism is b.s., just like this advice column. |
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sirrix
Male, 18-29, Eastern US
209 Posts
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Sunday, May 30, 2010 7:45:58 PM
For the love of god - this is not the kind of content that this site should have. Please spend less time answering inane relationship troubles (plz hlp me turn a lesbian str8 thx... wtf?) and more time helping us stay less bored. I am 3x more bored after reading the first sentence of this drivel. |
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 pui
Female, 18-29, Canada
3550 Posts
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Sunday, May 30, 2010 12:05:34 PM
I have a pretty light period. My boyfriend never even knows when I'm on my period, even after having sex with me during it. He remains blissfully unaware. |
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 alk3v
Male, 18-29, Eastern US
344 Posts
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Saturday, May 29, 2010 12:20:50 PM
Heheh Lisp. Cute.
Hahaha NO. |
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 NotTHATbored
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
1103 Posts
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Saturday, May 29, 2010 11:24:27 AM
Uh huh ... ??? ... 
No comment... |
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 SEpth
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
47 Posts
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Saturday, May 29, 2010 8:54:46 AM
On another note:
The situation has been resolved. All I really needed to do was write out how I felt in order for my brain to get a fresh perspective on things and solve the situation.
I've decided that I'm going to pick my battles instead of running from my fear of self-assertion every time. And also to stop discussing any serious changes to our relationship when I'm on my period- I'm too irrational see things clearly at that time. I've let my significant other know about my fear of assertion so that he can help me overcome it, should I need a little help. So far, he's been a great help.
I'm also going to stop writing to advice columns in online forums. There is way too much room for misunderstanding and misconceptions and it sucks writing super-long comments to try to amend such misconceptions. |
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SEpth
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
47 Posts
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Saturday, May 29, 2010 8:15:19 AM
the other party will experience some discomfort.
In these situations, I give my point of view first and he gives his last. I have the tendency to forfeit my view in lieu of his and decide on whatever he wants to do almost immediately after he gives his point of view. How can I feel secure enough with myself and my opinions so that I stop making the relationship unbalanced on myself? |
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SEpth
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
47 Posts
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Saturday, May 29, 2010 8:14:47 AM
took it as I was whining about him and being unable to hold up my end of the bargain. Those of you who thought my perspective was the "right" one, mostly females, immediately took the man-hater standpoint and spoke about how "unconcerned" and "uncaring" he is when that is not the case at all. Just because I didn't make it a point to write how caring he is doesn't mean he has a significant lack of compassion. Don't make that assumption. He obviously has some compassion being able to discuss these matters in a diplomatic way without attacking my feelings in the process.
I think he a completely valid point as shown my my agreeing to do it his way. It was a situation where didn't want to impose discomfort on me and I didn't want to impose discomfort on him.
Let me do a recap of what was meant to be said here:
My boyfriend and I found ourselves in a disagreement. Both parties had valid points and in deciding to choose either parties solution, t |
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SEpth
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
47 Posts
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Saturday, May 29, 2010 8:13:21 AM
whoa there partners!
I am Stephanie, from question #2.
I used the most recent example of me giving in to a stalemate situation. I don't agree that in this particular instance that he was wrong or that I was wrong.
I certainly don't think it was a particularly big issue in itself. It was just an example of me being the one to cave first and more readily. Though I thought I'd throw it in there in case she could think of some kind of compromise so that either option wouldn't impose discomfort on one party. If she had a middle-ground compromise suggestion I would have loved it.
He certainly respects my boundaries and he never refused to listen to my perspective, just as I didn't shoot down his.
I wrote in a completely neutral way to describe the situation and didn't paint him in a bad light at all. I think most of you projected your own feelings of the situation upon me. Those who thought I was angry at him and related more with his side of the story immediately |
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 feiku
Female, 18-29, Western US
530 Posts
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Saturday, May 29, 2010 12:00:03 AM
"True, but 98% of the time the blood is overpowered by the natural lubricants and you don't get blood everywhere."
Uhm..no. I bleed very little if at all (spotting) during "periods" due to the depo shot and even then it gets a little nasty. All my natural lube turns a nice little pink. Doesn't help that I squirt too. |
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 davymid
Male, 30-39, Europe
11682 Posts
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Friday, May 28, 2010 11:20:10 PM
What is this sh*t? tl;dr..
IAB is becoming less and less interesting.
*takes a wild guess and BINGO!*
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Links by baileyabb
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Forgive me if I see a pattern among the bleaters... Don't get me wrong, IAB is only as good as it's userbase. We're a user-controlled site through and through. Appreciate though that it gets tiresome: 98% of complaints of repost, old, boring, lame, fail, shopped, simpsons did it, saw this before on another site, IAB is going downhill, can I have my precious 5 minutes back, are from people who have never actually contibuted a single worthy thing to the site apart from bitching.
Call me a cynic. It's just that when I check the profile of a bitcher, I know in advance what I'll find. And it's almost always true. |
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 baileyabb
Female, 18-29, Canada
903 Posts
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Friday, May 28, 2010 11:11:48 PM
What is this sh*t? tl;dr..
IAB is becoming less and less interesting. |
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 Hellioness
Female, 18-29, Southern US
131 Posts
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Friday, May 28, 2010 6:42:10 PM
@NotTHATbored
I agree. They have no problem getting feces all over their trouser snake but blood is an issue? I'm willing to bet most men on IAB have had sex with a girl while she was menstrating and never knew it. Hell soaking in a warm bath stops the flow temporarily as well.
Then again guys refuse to believe that the blood flow pretty much stops before/during sex. |
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NotTHATbored
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
1103 Posts
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Friday, May 28, 2010 6:27:16 PM
@Hellioness agreed the blood pretty much turns off when you are getting ready to do it or if you drink alcohol that usually stops the flow for a while too (at least for me). IDK why so many men have tried anal but won't have period sex. I won't go near a butt hole or let anyone near mine, they're certainly dirtier then a vagina at any stage of the month. |
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NotTHATbored
Female, 18-29, Eastern US
1103 Posts
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Friday, May 28, 2010 6:22:00 PM
@Bophus Arg why must you antagonize me? I am not saying that she should find someone who "plays by her rules only" I am saying she should find someone who is willing to compromise and not have sex with other people for the few days she doesn't feel comfortable with. You can't anticipate and make rules for every situation that is going to come up in a relationship, maybe she didn't know it was going to be a problem, but it is! So why not just respect her feelings, unless he doesn't want to be in the relationship in which case he should leave. If he's not willing to do either then she should look for someone who will make her happy! |
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davymid
Male, 30-39, Europe
11682 Posts
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Friday, May 28, 2010 6:05:34 PM
Eh...see I've never understood why having sex while the girl is on her rag is such a horrible unthinkable act.
I for one do not want to see my knob looking like a barber's pole. |
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Hellioness
Female, 18-29, Southern US
131 Posts
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Friday, May 28, 2010 5:53:31 PM
@IshiiDaFishy
True, but 98% of the time the blood is overpowered by the natural lubricants and you don't get blood everywhere. |
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 darkgear6
Male, 70 & Over, Eastern US
1385 Posts
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Friday, May 28, 2010 5:43:06 PM
TL;DR |
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 ThatGuyChris
Male, 18-29, Eastern US
22 Posts
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Friday, May 28, 2010 5:37:19 PM
Made an account just for this... The first one the guy sorta reminds me of me.. I even have a slight lisp with some words sometimes.. And I'm thinking about going out with this girl whose my ex who I see almost everyday....
The last one reminds me of me and my best friend too.... Basically the same scenario except we're younger and I've already moved on from the I can never have her thing o.o |
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 opiebreath
Female, 18-29, Midwest US
16061 Posts
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Friday, May 28, 2010 4:54:36 PM
"Why in the hell would you have an open relationship? Isn't that an oxymoron? It's not a relationship if you're f-cking other people! It's clearly a case of not being mature or old enough to stick to one partner and marauding around trying to get STDs to pass back to your 'pseudo-partner'. "
Yup, you've nailed it on the head, because the only point to being in a relationship is having sex with only one person.
I'm just going to stop trying to explain myself and my relationship decisions. If it's not for you then it's not for you, so save the judgments for the apocalypse. |
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