Thursday, December 5, 2013 1:50:25 PM
Well @MrOrange, if I had spouted political opinions on this thread? Your point would have merit. But I didn't, I complained that the clips were not from 2013!
So MY point is: Because I wore a sexy outfit 2 years ago? THAT means I deserve to get raped today?
I think IAB should be a place that DIS-courages slander, abuse, racist rants and such. Not a "free for all" where people spam-comment the same crap on every thread. There are plenty of other sites like that, so I`ve heard.
Not that IAB should be a "lovey-dovey circle-jerk" kind of place either! lolz! People will bicker and argue over almost anything.
Now my "ignore list" has grown, and that`s a sad thing. Of course that won`t stop their hate-spamming, nothing will. They`re filled with hate and ANY excuse to spew it out will do.
Thursday, December 5, 2013 6:46:28 AM
All aside, you are a nice quirky guy, you can also be extremly anoying (like me) and you're old enough to realise that if you play with fire you can get burned.
just make sure that it`s worth getting your fingers burned. for example crakrjak and i disgree on a lot of things, and sometimes we do end up having an intresting chat. do i engage him every time? nope. why not? becuase he has his heels dug in and so do i, so it`ll end up in hurling abuse. and sometimes i will when i`m intrested in hearing the counter argument to what i think, sometimes that even broadends my mind (don`t tell him that)
just think of yourself as a battery, you have certian amoutn of energy to spend before you recharge. make sure you send the energy wisely and that you have a charger that works..
oh and btw, it seems this chat is now over, so i will be bashing your head in again whenever i think you are a rambling lunatic instead of that nice quirky guy. Deal?
Thursday, December 5, 2013 6:40:04 AM
"I "see" your line of reasoning, but completely disagree with it"
Fair enough, and thankfully you live in a time and place where you have that choice, just remember you made that choice.
to refer back to the rape comparision, whilst i agree that rape is never justifiable. I do see truth in the opinion that if you go to a frat party dressed in little more then a hankerchief, get blind drunk, and pass out and wake up with a sore vagina, that you need to wake up and protect yourself better.
or to put it in a slightly less tense frame of reffernce, if i walk into a ghetto and start yelling that all you lazy N***rs need to get a job. i can expect to get my teeth kicked in right?
does it make it right? nope. should i be able to spreak freely? yup. But there is this thing called.. the right place and time.
Wednesday, December 4, 2013 11:58:28 AM
I "see" your line of reasoning, but completely disagree with it. It's like blaming a rape victim for "showing her ankles". She obviously deserved what she got! Walking alone at noon with her ankles showing!
My mentioning of information ON OTHER THREADS in the PAST does NOT excuse personal attacks here. They remain what they are: abuse. There`s no excuse for it. So I don`t "put up with it" - I "talk back".
Sure, there`s "degrees of" it: teasing, flaming, slander, hate. They`re similar; the difference is (mostly) intent: If I call a friend "a retard" that`s "teasing". If I call someone with brain damage a retard? That`s "hate".
These people who feel it necessary to flame me? They are NOT my friends. They wish me ill, they`ve made that clear.
Why don`t you ask THEM why they do it? I`ve tried my best to answer, now let`s hear from the other side.