I tried leveling it out for ya, i tried to offer you another viewpoint. right now i'm going to say the following: Keep making it your mantra, you seem to enjoy fixating on that thought. and i hope it brings you what you need.
What I've said is that even when I am not doing things like this I fear being raped. I get this. God, I get this. You keep saying it and I keep "getting" it. Say it some more and I`ll get it then too.
That sucks. You shouldn`t have to. However, you always will have to; there is no solution. You will always be the physically weaker sex. We will always be the testosterone-driven, more aggressive sex.
You`re being ultra-idealistic. Men will never stop raping women; this doesn`t mean that I, or any other specific man, supports or encourages rape. We abhor it; it could be our mothers, sisters, or even daughters. That doesn`t mean we can completely stop other men from trying to rape women.
We can - and should - teach our boys to treat women with respect. We also should teach our daughters to take reasonable precautions to lower their risk of being raped.