Monday, September 10, 2012 6:10:17 PM
"oh, so you wish your adopted child had been aborted then? that makes sense..."
No, he's saying that adoption can really f*ck up a kid. He loves his daughter, but if she hadn`t been thrown into the system like trash, she wouldn`t have to deal with the issues she does now. He`s glad he has his daughter, but he can see how abortion would prevent future problems like this.
Why give birth to children if you`re just going to hand them over to the government where people REALLY don`t care about them? Sure, there are foster parents out there that genuinely love kids and want to help them, but a lot of them are only there because they get paid (or "reimbursed" as the government calls it) to be there.
Do you know people who have grown up in foster care or to parents that quite obviously didn`t want them? Some are okay, but a good bit of them have major issues. If it were me, I`d rather have been aborted than hop through the foster care system, w
Monday, September 10, 2012 7:32:23 AM
who believes it is ok to kill innocent babies but no thardened [sic] criminals. The point here is that we disagree on whether it is a baby or not, but mostly I disagree that it deserves the same rights as a born human from the moment it's conceived. I don`t see why it can`t have rights as a person after a certain point. Perhaps you have a logical argument as to why rights must be granted at conception.
Monday, September 10, 2012 6:25:01 AM
Anyone who says that adoption is a better option is a f*cking moron. The foster care system in the US is already overflowing with hundreds of thousands of kids, many of these kids have severe emotional problems as a result of being put in foster care. My daughter is adopted and its taken us 4 years just to overcome her trust issues and we're still struggling with various other problems. Putting a child up for adoption is sometimes a worse option than abortion, because the emotional trauma of not having a home/family screws the kid up for life.