Saturday, May 12, 2012 8:06:21 PM
@5cats, To each their own. But I fail to see how that'd be any different than a gay guy saying "I like Chinese guys. I can`t help it...." Changing the scope of the question doesn`t really add anything to support your claim. And as I`ve already said, Genes may only play a part in it (i.e., determine the underly fundamental sexuality construct), that being said, they may also play a majority role in it (in which case your CGMMHS condition, as bizarre as it may be, actually supports my position). But it looks like I have to reiterate; sexuality is a SPECTRUM, and much like the color of one`s skin, it can come in many more shades than our man-made categorical approach can neatly deal with. And before you launch into the classic `then where does it stop? Pedophilia? Bestiality? ` argument, let me just point out one thing. Grown adults engaging in NON-HARMFUL, and MUTUALLY CONSENSUAL behaviors is more than a little different to the easily defendable laws again
Friday, May 11, 2012 3:37:37 PM
@kangoala: Thanks for being polite and you're well spoken too! We`ll probably have the same conversation the next time this comes up at IAB. And it will! lolz!
Chinese Girls Make Me Horney Syndrome: It`s a fact! Ever since I was a little lad, I`ve had CGMMHS! It`s in my DNA, it`s genetic! I simply cannot help myself OR change my sexual preference. ONLY Chinese Girls get MY flag to full mast! Not Japanese or Koreans; Chinese! Obviously it`s genetic, right? No other possible explaination!
(sprinkle with a hint of sarcasm & serve deadpan) (lolz!)
Thursday, May 10, 2012 9:57:35 PM
@5Cats. To claim that it's not changeable is, I guess, a little simple. But that`s only as simple as saying `going gay` is also a choice. The issue isn`t whether it`s `possible` to change one`s sexual preference (however extreme the method for doing so may be), the issue is whether or not it`s something that might be genetic in nature, and therefore not of one`s independent cognition. If sexuality is I choose, then I sure as hell don`t remember getting asked whether or not I wanted to be gay. But I don`t regret it, it is what it is. I`m more physically attracted to members of my sex. That`s not proof one way or the other, I just can`t imagine why one would actively choose to have to wrestle with justifying to everyone else that what they feel is a fundamental, unconscious attraction...