Saturday, June 12, 2010 3:05:35 PM
"Or maybe they could not rape women. That usually works best."
or maybe women should all abstain from drinking,all clubs should be shut down, the consent forms that were mentioned earlier should be made mandatory and all rich guys should not be allowed to have sex because a one night stand to them is a bank vault opening to others
Saturday, June 12, 2010 6:46:16 AM
Earl_Grey: Did I say that fantasizing about being raped makes it OK for a man to rape a woman? No, I specifically said in my comment that I did NOT THINK THAT. All I said was it makes the matter fuzzier than some people want it to be. You are right that giving consent for the fantasy won't kill it. However, the more she explains, the less of a fantasy it becomes, and men are aware of the fantasy exists in the minds of a lot of women doesn`t help.
Paganmomblog: "If a woman stands in a room of men and says she wants to have sex she sure as hell will get laid by someone."
Women don`t do this because they want to be chased, have a guy read her signals, and make a move without hearing the girl give approval. Marriage changes the rules completely, but when you`re dating, you`re not already intimately familiar with the man and want him to be a man and take action. Again, I am NOT saying this makes it OK for men to rape women.
Saturday, June 12, 2010 6:02:57 AM
"Women want a man who doesn't need consent"
I call bullpoo. I do not want a man who doesn`t need consent. I want a man who respects me and my body and doesn`t feel he can take it just because I am there.
"If she has to tell him that she wants to have sex, then they`re not going to be having sex." I call bullpoo on this one too. If a woman stands in a room of men and says she wants to have sex she sure as hell will get laid by someone. I have told my husband before that I have been in the mood and he sure as poo has made himself available to me, not once in 15 yrs has he turned me away. And if he makes a move and I am not in the mood, we don`t have sex.