Tuesday, July 17, 2007 10:59:04 AM
Happynoodle: "She deserves crappy advice, why would she leave her husband for that?"
Why? Because he isn't a colleague, who you can avoid, or someone sitting next to her on the bus, who you can ignore; he is her husband. They are together for LIFE. Imagine someone who makes you uncomfortable, someone you think you don`t know anymore because he turned out to be something you never thought he could be, someone that warped the image of the man you married, and living with him for all your life. Those are a few of the many reasons why, for example, people tend to leave their partners because they don`t have the same sexual orientation, cheated on them, or turned out to be an unconvicted criminal.
Don`t say that being transvestite is not as signifcant as all the examples listed above, because for some, it certainly is. What man dresses up in women`s clothes because he`s depressed anyway? That says a lot about his personality, so maybe the woman was made uneasy by it.