Wednesday, December 13, 2006 1:29:44 AM
Lorah, It's been a year since your question. I guess I`ll try to give a short answer. If a guy wants you to do all that, you don`t need him anyway. He is more interested in self gratification than in you. If you can find a man genuinely interested in you, your concerns, your interests, your feelings, then he won`t be as you described. That kind of relationship is a wonderful one. And yes, there are some guys like that left. Usually (and I said "usually") they are NOT found in bars or nightclubs. Most guys in there are as you described. Maybe there`s a nice guy at work or someone from your past that likes you for you and isn`t out to just share his exploits with his buddies. Maybe. But there are some nice guys left. They are worth finding. I`m sure my wife would agree.