Cuckolding Can Be Positive For Some Couples, Researchers Say [Safe For Work]

Submitted by: littlemissqt 4 months ago in Lifestyle News & Politics

This is what a real cuckold situation looks like, not the photo in the CNN article.

Uh, OK. I'm sure there's a very small percentage of couples where cuckolding works, but ultimately, it almost never works. Either the wife will tire of her husband, she'll fall in love with one of the guys she's having sex with, or the 'cuck' who thought it would be a sexy idea to have a strange man, much more masculine than than he is, have second thoughts when he sees a strange penis, double his size, enter his wife for the first time.

Be careful of what you wish for, future cucks.

An excerpt from CNN:

According to a recent study by David Ley, Justin Lehmiller and the writer Dan Savage, acting on cuckolding fantasies can be a largely positive experience for many couples, and hardly a sign of weakness.

References to cuckolding appear in literature as early as the 13th century, usually in the form of male characters who fear that their child has been sired by another man during an act of infidelity. Today, however, cuckolding has become fetishized into a powerful sexual fantasy for some men, who get aroused by the idea of their romantic partner engaging in sexual activity with someone else. Women also share this fantasy, but less so than men.

"This fantasy has been around as long as marriage and sexuality," said Ley, whose book "Insatiable Wives" addresses cuckolding in heterosexual couples. "But we're hearing more and more about it these days, and more people are rejecting the social stigma against this fantasy."

So who's been part of this sort of lifestyle?
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Male 1,613
Come on, who doesn't like a good porno.  That's all this is, live porn where your wife is the star.  If you can separate the acts of "making love" and "fucking" and don't see sex as something that you can only do with someone you are in love with, it's actually really great.  Fucking is just that, it's fucking.  It has no more meaning than that.  To some people, it's just another activity.  Would you have any problem with your wife playing a video/board game with another guy?  What about working with another guy?  What about any other activity, like watching a favorite TV show with another guy?  It's just an enjoyable activity two people do together.  As long as it's all consensual who gives a crap?

Never done this before, but we are swingers, so while I'm watching some guy pound my wife, I'm pounding his wife.  It's great.  We have discussed bringing in just another guy, so I can just watch and maybe join in for some DP action if everyone agrees.  Otherwise, I'll just watch, be extremely turned on and after he leaves and she cleans up a bit, I'll get my turn and we're both primed and ready.

My wife actually wants to bring another girl in to the bedroom by herself before we bring another man in though.  First, it's much harder to find, so she feels it would be unfair if we brought an extra man in for her once then never found a woman for me.  She also really wants to watch me screw someone while that someone is eating her out, then to eat the other woman out while I screw her.  I hope we find the right woman someday.
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Male 16,824
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Male 1,613
Draculya would you care to expand on that statement at all?
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Male 613
waldo863 wondering, what are your thoughts on bringing in someone to the household, permanently? Like an actual extra person to go beyond just sex, but including sex.
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Male 1,613
bearbear01 While that may work for some people, I know some who do this successfully, it is not something that interests my wife or I at this time.
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Male 613
waldo863 hmm hmm. Thanks. I think it would be great, the benefits being at least having extra time for any of the parties, and the cons the same as with the regular marriage. Then again, the life insurance considerations will be very interesting. 
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Male 5,670
I was actually approached about this topic once, but his wife looked like a rabid wildebeast so it was easy to say no.
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Male 12,019
I dig that this was labeled "Safe for Work" and there is a chick with an exposed nipple. Very lax work environment.
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Male 2,147
One bright side is that supporters of trump all learned a new word to insult with. Cuck. 
It's quite pathetic really.
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Male 2,262
oobaka  Jesus this has absolutely nothing to do with politics can't we just have some fun with a story and discuss it like adults? Its absolutely about getting laid, not whos fucking you.
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Male 2,147
casaledana Actually it does have to do with politics as the word cuck (or cuckold) has been adopted by brain dead republicans to try and insult democrats. Last year, these illiterates never even heard the word before.  
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Male 12,019
I thought this was going to be a breitbart article about democrats.
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Male 276
holygod Well it's not a Breitbart article but it is certainly about Democrats.
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Male 1,613
moldysod funny, I'm not a Democrat.  I can't speak for the other people that have participated in similar acts with my wife and I because we don't really talk about politics.  That's the opposite of fun and that's what we are there for, to play and have fun.
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Male 12,019
moldysod Funny, according to pornhub the highest rates of cuckold porn searches are in West Virginia, New Hampshire, Alabama, and Kentucky.
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Male 21,392
moldysod Because only Democrats have sex outside their marriage? 
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Male 12,019
fancylad Well in fairness when Republicans have sex outside their marriage it is usually with a child or a gay prostitute.
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Male 2,147
holygod Don't forget porn stars in hotel rooms
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Male 2,061
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Male 2,147
bliznik Literally made  me laugh out loud. 
I'm stealing this.
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Male 10,271
God has been warning us of sexual immorality for generations, only a fool today would think this could work.  But it's no surprise the western media talks of this thing, after all it needs to delude people into consider it (while saying its wrong of course - they know it will be considered regardless, lots of research proves that).
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Male 16,824
monkwarrior before I offer to prove you wrong, please post a picture of your wife.
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Male 12,019
Draculya he's married to his imaginary friend, he only person that can tolerate him.
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Male 10,271
Draculya you couldn't prove me wrong anyway, so there would be no point posting anything.
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Male 276
monkwarrior The guys that do this know it doesn't work. They are so beta though, that they'll put themselves through that scenario just for the chance to be close to a filthy whore, err woman, same thing. 
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Male 21,392
Ugh, here we go with God again. No one in the world that monkwarrior lives in can make personal decisions on their own. They have to defer to a god that floats around in their imagination when morality comes up. 

It must be nice to blame God when things go tits up. Stupid me, I blame myself.
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Male 10,271
fancylad ? make all the decisions you want, i'm not your judge.

But God is, and it would be wise to be mindful of that, and my duty to point that out.
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Male 21,392
monkwarrior As someone who doesn't judge, you sure to speak for God a lot.
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Male 10,271
fancylad God speaks for Himself, people who know Him simply remind of His word.  A world seeped in sin like today's (especially in the west) will have a heightened (and negative) reaction to even those who remind others of His word.  People hate to have their sin exposed,  as it's explained in John 3:20:  For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.

But again, i'm not your judge.
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Male 159
monkwarrior So everyone that doesn't listen to you is evil incarnate, but you don't judge. Am I getting this right?
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Male 10,271
aegis1294 no you're pretty far off base, it's like you're in fallacy-land.  

But those who want to reject God, and pay  no need to His word, will definitely pay a heavy price. 
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Male 159
monkwarrior You're making a fatal mistake here, rejecting you or your words is not rejecting god as you are not god. Claiming that you are, or that you speak for god is in itself a sin. 

You keep saying that the people questioning you will go to hell. On who's authority do you have such power?
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Male 10,271
aegis1294 Keep twisting words, it seems to be your nature when you're desperate.
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Male 159
monkwarrior Desperate for what? When you take the bible and use it to fear monger, people will always call you out. And there is nothing wrong with that.
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Male 10,271
aegis1294 desperate to ignore God's words.
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Male 159
monkwarrior you dont know gods words for me to ignore them.
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Male 10,271
aegis1294 keep being desperate
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Male 1,776
monkwarrior You judge all the time.
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Male 10,271
lockner01 i'm not your judge, but God is.
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Male 1,613
monkwarrior yet you tell us how God is going to judge us all the time.  How do you know, did he tell you personally about each and every one of us?

You can claim to have read it in the bible and deciphered it for yourself, but please, get over that idea.  You are reading a translation of a translation of a translation of a dead language that we don't have words for some of the words used and so substitute the closest thing available which often changes the meaning.  You have no idea what the words meant as written.  No one alive does.  

Maybe if you would quit acting like you know how God is going to judge, people would stop accusing you of judging.
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Male 10,271
waldo863 Oh, trying to make some clutch at straws are you?  Kind of lame.  You can know God like many others do, when you draw close to Him.  You are just terrified of His power, and rightfully so.
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Male 1,776
monkwarrior I hate to bring up old threads but the number of times you've called me a troll or socker are uncountable. Also calling me ignorant and a multitude of other insults.  That's judging.  That's you judging
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Male 10,271
lockner01 It's your problem for doing that, i warned you of it many times, saying it does you no good, but you continued to ignore and wreck yourself with them.
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Male 21,392
monkwarrior "It's your problem for doing that."

You're either my step-mother or a troll who is really into the long game. I'll go with the latter.
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Male 12,019
fancylad Ya. Troll. Nobody is this stupid in real life.
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Male 10,271
fancylad Sorry, lockner01 has made their position and mindset quite clear on their own.
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Male 1,776
monkwarrior You can use male pronouns when you're talking about me.  I would prefer "his" to "their".  I'm glad to see that other people are calling you out for trolling.
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Male 10,271
lockner01 no doubt you feel better about yourself, after all it seems you need it.
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Male 1,776
monkwarrior Sometimes I do need to feel better about myself.  However today is not one of those days. And I'm not sure how pointing out a pronoun correction would make me feel better.
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Male 296
monkwarrior Sorry, I thought you said sexual immortaility. Never mind, carry on. 
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Male 42,611
monkwarrior    So it's okay for a man to have many women, but a woman can't have many men?
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Male 10,271
Gerry1of1 Did God say that?  Why don't you go read and find out what God says about it?
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Male 1,613
monkwarrior Well, certain religions, some of which are Christian, certainly do feel that way.  How are you certain that their interpretation of the same words is wrong and yours is right?
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Male 10,271
waldo863 You'll know when you draw close to God and learn from Him. 
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Male 42,611
monkwarrior I didn't mention god. I just asked for clarification of your statement.  If this is immoral then what in your opinion is moral ?  Men can have many wives, why can't women do the same ?  Just askin
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Male 10,271
Gerry1of1 You should go study scripture, your questions have obvious answers, that you might benefit by finding out on your own.
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Male 1,613
monkwarrior Is there anyone alive that knows the original language the scripture was written in?  How can we possibly study it if we don't know if it was translated properly.  On top of that, words meanings change over time.  These words were written so long ago, we may not even have words that mean the same thing as what was meant when it was written anymore.  We have no way of knowing if we are interpreting it the way it was meant to be interpreted or not, and some areas directly contradict themselves, so it's fairly obvious something was lost in translation.
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Male 10,271
waldo863 Im sure there are people who know the language it was written in.  You seem to attempting a grasp at straws.
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Male 42,611
monkwarrior I have studied scripture, that's why I'm an atheist. 

But I was asking you for your own thoughts, not ones written in a book.
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Male 10,271
Gerry1of1 I love it when atheists say that they became atheist because they read the bible.  It makes more people read it, and 90% percent become believers.

Looks like you'll have to crack it open to study again.  As i said the question has an obvious answer.
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Male 42,611
monkwarrior   The question is what are your personal thoughts.... unless you posted them on a  billboard in my neighborhood and I missed it, I don't see how the answer is obvious.

Or was that just deflection to avoid answering?
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Male 10,271
Gerry1of1 Sexual immorality is wrong, regardless of who is doing it, male or female.
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Male 1,613
monkwarrior But if all parties are consensual, how is it immoral?
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Male 10,271
waldo863 because God sets the rules.
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Male 16,824
monkwarrior sexual morality falls into any of 3 categories:

  1. Secular Law
  2. Religious Law
  3. Societal Customs

So if it's legal in your state, you're only breaking religious law if you are a member of that religion. "Christians" are notorious for flouting religious law because you lot pick and choose from your book. Hence, Christian religious law has defaulted to societal customs.


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Male 10,271
Draculya that won't work when facing God.  Mark those words.
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Male 16,824
monkwarrior any God in particular? 
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Male 10,271
Draculya There is only One God.
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Male 636
Draculya I would prefer Himeros, given the current context. Just as much valid evidence for him existing as any other god.
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Male 42,611
monkwarrior    But what is moral vs immoral?  Hasidic jews think it's wrong for husband and wife to touch and have sex through a sheet.  Is that immoral for everyone ? What is immoral to you?  

To me, immoral is harming someone without just cause.  If 3 consenting people enjoy play time and it's not hurting anyone, why should I care.  I wouldn't do it, but that's me.
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Male 10,271
Gerry1of1 That's what you'll have to take up with God.  Study to find out.  I don't have the time to list everything that you can find out on your own with study, especially when you don't really have any desire to learn.
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Male 543
monkwarrior "The Bible was an Inside Job".  Look into it.
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Male 10,271
abetterworld sounds like you're spouting the sputtering ridiculousness of defeat.
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Male 543
monkwarrior My bad, I meant "Job was inside the bible"
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Male 10,271
abetterworld it's actually one of its books
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Male 2,147
monkwarrior If your god is so against immorality, what the fuck is he waiting for?
He should have purged the planet a long time ago. 
I feel really sorry for people like you who are so afraid that the world will continue on when you're gone that you have to grasp onto a fantasy of another life when you die.
You didn't exist for billions of years ...and then you were born...and then you were brainwashed...and soon you will die and the universe will continue on without you.
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Male 10,271
oobaka God is waiting for the time He wills.  Don't worry the wicked will perish.  God wants to make sure all have a chance for salvation and only He knows when that will be done.
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Male 2,147
monkwarrior You've had too much of the kool-aid 

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Male 10,271
oobaka sorry 'kool-aid' is what atheists dole out (it was taken from the atheist mass-murdrer Jim Jones who used kool-aid to kill people), in the face of the fact that they have nothing.  But still, the 'kool-aid' is your own.
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Male 613
So that's a wife who has a husband with a gay gangbang lifelong dream?
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