The Life Of The Black Man That Has Sex With White Men's White Wives

Submitted by: fancylad 10 months ago Lifestyle
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If you have some time, you need to read this profile that GQ published late last week. It's a crazy read -- the subject matter (black guys having sex with white guys' white wives) has been reported on in think pieces and proper documentaries, but this piece is good because it follows one guy -- Dave, a physician in his early 40s. Usually, these docs and articles report on

Some choice bits from the profile:

On Dave's desirability: In an era when the Internet and hookup apps customized to every taste are unleashing sexuality in unprecedented ways, Dave usually needs a few hours just to juggle the weekend's many possibilities. He is in his early 40s, a soft-spoken primary-care doctor, a tall and muscular black man with tattoos and a disarmingly boyish face—all of which has made him particularly sought-after in this wealthy part of Phoenix.

On the scene's fringe benefits: Things really exploded when, after med school, he moved back home to Phoenix. There were so few black men that a handsome and well-educated sexual adventurer like himself was a rare prize. There were also some very active swing communities. He quickly became the star attraction at many private parties, often the only single man invited. As his fame spread, people began traveling in from out of state just to meet him. And though he never accepts offers of money—he calls himself “the pro bono gigolo”—he does enjoy the ego boost that comes with some of the perks his popularity inspires. One couple paid all his expenses to join them at a Mexican resort. Another sent him a plane ticket to California just to come to a party, and right now he's sorely tempted by an offer of an all-expenses Caribbean cruise in exchange for participating in one of the cruise's most popular nighttime attractions, a room where black men wait in groups to satisfy middle-class white women who would never do this sort of thing at home.

On the racist undertones: “I used to cringe when couples would tell me it's not a racial thing,” he tells me later. “Obviously it's a racial thing—a guy in the Old South gets lynched, and I'm pounding the shit out of this white woman? There is this basic, primal thing about it.”

Sometimes, Dave tells me, the wives like to say the explosive word so laden with America's ugliest history. They usually ask first. Is it all right if I call you the N-word? But one woman, a yoga teacher, just screamed it out of the blue: Give it to me, you fucking nigger!

“That was so hot,” Dave says.

There's a new term for this, too: “race play.” The way Dave looks at it, it's a good thing. After all, he's calling the women “slut” and “whore” for very similar reasons—because it's just plain fun to violate taboos. “It takes the air out of it,” he says.

Read the entire profile here.

There are 7 comments:
Male 3,059
I hate to be the bearer of bad news for you white guys who can't wrap your minds around this, but it is what it is. I have had couples approach me for exactly this type of thing since I was in my 20's. I admit to being a willing participant on more than one occasion in my sordid youth. Being stationed at Ft. Bragg led to many interesting weekends in the late 80's, early '90's. I turn 50 next week, and rarely a month goes by without finding myself propositioned by a couple who wants to "spice things up". It can be amusing in that occasionally I have been propositioned right in front of my wife (who happens to be white), who, as you might imagine, does not find it at all amusing. And no, I don't run around banging these women now. I love my wife, and remain 100% faithful to her. Of course, if we split up, I would probably bang anything that walked...
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Male 38,279
The article should start "Dear Penthouse ..... "
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Male 3,430
"Dear Penthouse..." as in penthouse magazine? nobody uses porn magazines anymore, they even stopped showing nudity in playboy. "Pics or it didn't happen." i guess since you think porn magazines are still relevant, you havent explored enough porn on the interwebs to come across any evidence of your own. trust me, it happens. sometimes with 4 or 5 black guys.
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Male 38,279
Playboy stopped showing beaver. They still show tits. It's the American version of "Page 3"
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Male 730
@fancylad, where in the cosmic fuck did you find this? It has to be true because you can't make shit like his up, Except maybe on Cinemax after 11:00 pm.
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Male 38,279
Pics or it didn't happen.
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Male 2,390
Such sadness.
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