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Submitted by: madduck 3 years ago in

Simple explantion- and great for teenagers .
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Male 907
So, if you get into a potential sexual situation with her, you lose your ability to see colors.
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Male 60
Communication is the key here, folks. If you`re with someone long enough and actually get to know them, then the issue of what they expect in the bedroom really isn`t there.

Expecting people to be, `mind readers`, when you`re having, what is essentially, casual sex, is unrealistic. But, if you`re going to do that, then it`s always best to err on the side of caution or to be weary of how your partner reacts to certain actions. Don`t take anything for granted and then get pissed if they don`t follow on.
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Male 39,531

I dropped an "F"bomb.....sorry
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Male 39,531

F*CKING GET OVER IT!
We are men. We will always press for sex because we think with our d*cks!. If you like men you`ll press them {no resistance there} if you`re unfortunately straight you`ll press girls for sex. But we are men, we will ALWAYS press for sex!!

Why not ask a cat to act like a dog?
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Female 6,381
Well, it is an explantion, after all.
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Male 15,175
I would not consent to sex with her. It wouldn`t matter as she`s an erection killer.
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Female 101
Yeah. Non consentual sex isn`t cool, I think we can all agree on that. And I think a lot of her advice is great for very young people. However, as an adult, if I have a partner constantly asking me "is this okay?" "Should I continue?" "Is it okay if I stick my finger in there?" they will NOT be my partner for very long. Confidence is sexy and that type of behavior seems awkwardly self conscious and borderline paranoid to me. I agree with patchouly that it is a woman`s (or man`s) responsibility to say NO if they mean no. Unless you have serious mental/emotional issues, you should be able to verbalize your non-consent. If you can`t do that, that`s on YOU, you can`t expect another `normal` adult to continuously check in and ask for permission for everything, without coming across like a total creepy gross unsexy weirdo.
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Male 39,531

I dropped an F-bomb. I apologize.
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Male 39,531

Way to overthink it. "Sexual coercion is mostly between people who trust each other"... if you trust them they won`t coerce you. If they do... DON`T F*CKING TURST THEM!

WHAT AN IDIOT! I AM SCREAMING AT MY MONITOR SHE IS SUCH AN IDIOT!
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Male 4,891

Jibber jabber, science this, science that. Her and that other douche on Dnews spout all sorts of ridiculousness and claim it`s science.
Put that big mouth to use for real science!

That mouth, I can`t help but wonder....
I bet she could take half a dozen at least. (including berries)
Now that would be worth studying...for science.

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Male 1,239
I pester my wife for sex all the time. I guess I`m a rapist.
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Male 7,774
With that non-stop noise coming out of her mouth she has no worries about anyone going near her.
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Male 4,745
That`s true. I`d rather have my Daughter know it`s wrong to be harassed, then have her think it`s normal.

It just seems like her suggestion makes it okay for a girl to give in. In the end, she can blame the guy for pestering her so much. I think it`s important for a girl to know that it`s her responsibility to say no, if she means no. That she has to take on half the responsibility for the decision, if she chooses to have sex. I say we teach them to stand up for themselves and be strong. If a guy is a creepy dick, tell him to take a hike and find someone else to hang out with.

Again though, I just want to be clear, we are talking about a loser guy who is begging. Not a guy who is forcing himself, physically.
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Female 7,985
I wondered Patch- but I think it takes the idea that teen boys DO pester- and girls DO feel pressured in a way older people wouldn`t? I do think this is perfectly pitched for the young and inexperienced.
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Male 4,745
Hmmmm. Well, I agree that consent is good. In fact, I do agree with the majority of her intentions. I just disagree with her suggestion that a guy, begging for sex, is somehow guilty of sexual assault if the girl gives in.
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Female 7,985
I think the point about this is it shows that consent is desirable- because it ties in to communication and thus good sex. It shows how getting consent is easy and important. It also explains some situations being illegal, but that consent covers more than that...A lot of this experienced adults understand, but not all adults are experienced either..
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Male 4,745
On the other side of the coin, communication is paramount to a healthy sexual relationship. The more openly you can discuss things, the happier and healthier your sexual relationship will be.
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Male 4,745
If someone bugs you and bugs you and you finally give in, it`s your own fault for giving in. It is NOT rape or sexual assault. If a girl says no and the guy keeps asking, it`s the girl`s responsibility to leave if she is not interested (Of course, if the guy forces himself, then we are crossing that line from annoying loser to rapist). There are a lot of creepy guys out there and most teenagers will beg relentlessly. They are not rapists. Just horny teenage boys. If it creeps you out, say no and don`t put yourself into a position where you will be along with them again.
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Male 403
huh, i`ve been raped so many times according to her explanation (i`m a guy). from a girl stripping naked in the middle of the night and me waking up to her on top to another forcefully blowing me... against my will. these stories only come out to close friends while drinking. luckily only girls have raped me so i`m not complaining. just saying if it was the other way around i`d be in jail.
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Female 7,985
Link: Ongoing... [Rate Link] - Simple explantion- and great for teenagers .
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