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Date: 08/25/13 02:18 PM

36 Responses to The Ideal Woman?

  1. Profile photo of SweepOfDeath
    SweepOfDeath Male 18-29
    938 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 2:22 pm
    Link: The Ideal Woman? - Young lady lays down how to keep your man and keep him happy. Agree or disagree with her I-A-B? Oh yeah, TOGTFO girly.
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    YugureKage Female 18-29
    1205 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 2:38 pm
    I could barely get pas the "ums" she used constantly. Ugh, I hate that. Also, she sounds like someone who never swears and is trying to do it now to be "cool" haha. It sounded so awkward. Obviously there are many flaws in her thinking, but there were good points also. I say meh. Some things work for some people, and other things don`t. If you`re in a relationship with someone you just need to learn about each other. I agree about not constantly nagging, but I don`t agree that if he cheats on you YOU did something wrong. That isn`t always the case. Also, this is very one-sided, obviously. I know that was the point, and I do like a woman trying to take the guy`s side. I`m just not sure this was exactly how to do it.
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    Gerry1of1 Male 50-59
    36660 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 2:45 pm
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    drawman61 Male 50-59
    7738 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 2:49 pm
    She could have said that in half the time and my sammich might be ready by now.
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    NNoamfer Male 18-29
    1216 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 2:50 pm
    Can`t say I wouldn`t like her to be my girlfriend.
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    obhwfgirl Female 18-29
    582 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 2:51 pm
    If women all acted like this *girl* says we should act then men would walk all over us.

    Do women need to be controlling? No. Do women need to nag? No. If that is the foundation of your relationship, you`re with the wrong guy, but by the same token, women deserve respect. There`s a huge difference between being controlling and boundaries. I let my boyfriend go to the strip club for his friend`s bachelor party, but I would have a serious problem if he did it every weekend instead of spending time with me. I love when he goes out with his friends because then I get a night with my friends or time to relax by myself, but respect me and tell me where you`re going. If you`re going out to hit on other women, you`re not respecting me or our relationship.

    I lost it when she said if the guy is screwing around, then the woman is doing something wrong. She`s right, but not because the woman drove him away. The woman did something wrong by getting involved with a douche in the fir
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    whodat6484 Male 30-39
    3908 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 2:52 pm
    I was going to say the same thing about the swearing, it sounds forced. I agree with what she said about cheating, if I`m happy then why the f*ck would I want to ruin it by cheating? That`s exactly what happened with the relationship I was in previous to my current one of 3+ years. She`d constantly nag & b*tch about me going out with friends or playing a gig if she couldn`t be there with me. She was too needy & insecure and would take it out on me so I got to the point where I couldn`t take it anymore.
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    Gerry1of1 Male 50-59
    36660 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 2:57 pm

    Treat you man like a knight in shining armor and he`ll go out and slay dragons for you. Treat him like a dumb jerk and he`ll find someone who does treat him like a knight.
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    ferdyfred Male 40-49
    13631 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 2:59 pm
    Give her another ten years and yup, be a real woman
    and stop the cursing, this doesnt help
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    obhwfgirl Female 18-29
    582 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 3:00 pm
    I also love her completely contradictory advice. Go let him do his own thing, but take an interest in it so you can do it together.

    My boyfriend and I already had some common interests. Video games. Nerd stuff. Science. But he likes drinking and I don`t. We made a deal that if at the end of the night I`m tired and I want to go home, but he still wants to party, I`ll go home and he can stay.

    I know a lot of women would be really upset if their guy didn`t go home, but this is where respect comes in. He respects that I`m tired and socialized out. I respect he wants to hang out with his friends more. We made a compromise.

    If I followed this girl`s advice, I`d be like my friend whose ex used to treat her like crap. He`d be partying until everyone else left and she`d be passed out in the corner. Every single time.

    Guess what, you and all your friends are immature. If you don`t like what people post on FB, drating ignore it. You`re not wise and this passiv
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    ferdyfred Male 40-49
    13631 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 3:02 pm
    Shes far to young to understand real relationships
    these things come as you get older, and you do need to have a world wise head and respect for either gender,
    no respect, no relationship end of
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    OldOllie Male 60-69
    15841 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 3:06 pm
    It also might help not to say "f***" every third word.
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    ferdyfred Male 40-49
    13631 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 3:18 pm
    @OldOllie
    Yeah, seems to be a trend amongst illiterate kids
    cant think of a decent word - put f uck there
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    ak2nc1 Female 18-29
    867 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 3:33 pm
    Just wait till she gets married. She`s gonna be totally the opposite from her advice. "Where were you? Don`t you know I`M WORTH being with EVERY DAY? WHY is your phone off? DELETE ALL YOUR CONTACTS. I don`t trust you."
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    turdburglar Male 30-39
    4896 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 3:49 pm

    Girls of this generation aren`t worth the effort. They have such loud mouths. I guess it kinda works for the boys of the same generation, who act more like women than the girls do.

    It`s like the genders are trading places.
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    RobSwindol Male 30-39
    2514 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 5:26 pm
    This is a really old repost.

    That being said, I`m sure this video will be thrown in her face someday, if it hasn`t been already.
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    WesleyV78 Male 30-39
    143 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 6:26 pm
    I am not sure she understands how "this" and "that" are used in English.
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    danagamer Male 30-39
    701 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 6:42 pm
    possible political career obliterated
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    paperduck Male 18-29
    1745 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 6:46 pm
    It`s a really sad for women worldwide that the idea of this girl being an "ideal woman" is even asked as a question.
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    Gerry1of1 Male 50-59
    36660 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 7:10 pm

    What men want




    What men get



    Thank Cthulhu I`m gay



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    Evil_Eye Male 18-29
    1442 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 7:28 pm
    @turdburglar: You seem to see only the louder ones that the media plaster everywhere. Every generation has the good and bad.

    Ours has whiny people filled with lies unwarranted self importance.
    Yours had... I am not sure what in America, but was violence over here. School wars and football violence, things you don`t really get now.
    Your parents generation in the 70`s and 80`s started the 1% divide that resulted in most of the stuff people complain about now.

    Along with all that, at least half are good. You just got to look in the right places to find us, because we don`t stand ourselves out as much. Not that I can convince you that this is true... you don`t tend to listen to others. That makes you one of the bad ones of your generation. Congrats!
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    turdburglar Male 30-39
    4896 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 7:31 pm

    Gerry - aside from the bigotry, political and religious persecution...I hear ya. I`ll bet every straight guy has thought that once in their lives, about being gay.

    There is just something about boobies. They are like straight man magnets. So bouncy, jiggly and bodacious...but, I guess you could say the same about nuts.
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    Evil_Eye Male 18-29
    1442 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 7:36 pm
    @Gerry1of1: Don`t thank yourself too fast, I have met many dramatic men too! I can`t tell the difference between the really needy camp guys and really needy women... apart from less jail time if you hit the man. There is that.
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    freddyferret Male 40-49
    11741 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 8:25 pm
    Her father should have pulled out early.
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    Lord_Jereth Male 40-49
    725 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 8:30 pm
    @obhwfgirl, you`re part of the problem.

    "Do women need to nag? No. If that is the foundation of your relationship, you`re with the wrong guy."

    That statement alone shows the root of the problem. It automatically assumes the guy is wrong. It takes all the responsibility off the woman. Maybe the woman is wrong for the guy. Did that ever occur to you?

    " ... but by the same token, women deserve respect."

    Really? Why? Because they were born with a vagina? That`s the problem with women, today: They think they DESERVE respect, that they are entitled to it automatically simply due to an accident of biology.

    News flash: No one is entitled to respect automatically. Respect is earned, regardless of gender.

    While I agree that some of this woman`s logic is a little fuzzy, the basics of what she is trying to say is this: If you won`t do for your man, why do believe that you are entitled to him doing for you?

    - LJ
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    Gerry1of1 Male 50-59
    36660 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 8:52 pm

    EvilEye, "I have met many dramatic men too!..."
    True, but they all give head so it`s worth putting up with.
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    Gerry1of1 Male 50-59
    36660 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 8:53 pm

    turdburglar, " I`ll bet every straight guy has thought that once in their lives, about being gay...There is just something about boobies."
    Have you looked online? There are boys with boobies. Mostly in Thailand.
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    Agent00Smith Male 18-29
    2581 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 9:02 pm
    The ideal woman is a dead woman
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    CrakrJak Male 40-49
    17514 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 9:10 pm
    "If you won`t do for your man, why do believe that you are entitled to him doing for you?"

    Best quote of the thread.
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    Draculya Male 40-49
    14621 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 9:29 pm
    She looks like Chelsea Manning.

    I am pretty sure she started out making sense, but as she droned on and on, my brain automatically filtered her out till she was below the level of my auditory perception. Except for occasional words about sucking someone`s penis; that part is good advice, girls.
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    thubanstar Female 50-59
    822 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 10:50 pm
    She basically has a point. I have seen a LOT of women who nag, complain and want it all their way. But then, I`ve seen guys who are inconsiderate jerks. It takes two. Basically, boils down to respecting yourself, then respecting others` boundaries. I do have to disagree with it always "being the woman`s fault" if things don`t work out, but most of the rest I agree with.
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    auburnjunky Male 30-39
    10339 posts
    August 25, 2013 at 11:04 pm

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    Nickel2 Male 50-59
    5879 posts
    August 26, 2013 at 2:23 am
    Robert Crumb had some good ideas on the ideal woman. He was a bit odd in a strange sort of way though.

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    drawman61 Male 50-59
    7738 posts
    August 26, 2013 at 4:13 am
    I let my boyfriend go to the strip club for his friend`s bachelor party

    @obhwfgirl, seriously? you LET him go?
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    MrOrange Male 30-39
    2402 posts
    August 26, 2013 at 10:01 am
    Shut up and take my Money!!!!


    @aubernjunky never was that gif used more apropiatly.

    i`m trying to find a gif from dusk to dawn.. where george cloony claps and say "now thats what i call a f***ing show!!"
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    Bahamian Male 30-39
    16 posts
    August 26, 2013 at 1:21 pm
    I agree with what she is saying and as a guy it should be the other way as well. Men should be doing what they can to make their woman happy as well. The point of being in a relationship is to place your partner ahead of yourself and uplift each other for the most part that way you both win because both of you are getting pleased. The system breaks down when one of the partners places the other below them in the totem pole, at that point its time to either readjust or move on.

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