Parenting 101 For The Rebellious Teen On Facebook

Submitted by: kitteh9lives 5 years ago in Tech

Tired of teens getting disrespectful online? This dad has taken all he can and deals out some swift and just punishment
There are 127 comments:
Female 1
That was great. So many teenagers act like babies in this country and have absolutely no want to even begin to realize what brats they truly are. And who cares if this just drives the kid away. When she finally matures and grows up and becomes an adult, that`s when she`ll understand her parents` frustrations and how embarassing her own behavior was. That goes for all you kiddies out there.
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Male 260
@Tomqil-
A. Not all criminals are rational human beings.
B. Parental punishment =\= criminal punishment. The goal of parental punishment is to raise the best child that you can, the goal of criminal punishment is the maximize the good of society. The state does not have the resources to reform all criminals in society, and does not attempt to do so. The state is not your parent. Instead, it isolates those deemed too volatile.
However, a child is a different matter. Even if your kid was a delinquent, I assume you`d do all you could to reform him/her because... Well... You`re the parent. It`s your moral responsibility.
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Female 123
ahh poo. as a 19yr old girl not far past that age, i can quite confidently say that this whole show will do nothing more than drive his daughter away from him. what 15yr old doesn`t moan about their parents/ try to be popular on facebook? that dad is a complete drating loonatic, i actually feel sorry for the girl.
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Male 1
@lyonartime - By that logic if someone committed a crime they shouldn`t be punished because they need to understand they did wrong on their own. Actions need consequences.

She got in trouble for similar actions before so she was well aware what she was doing was wrong. She is 15 and therefore should be able to grasp a simple concept like not doing something you previously got in trouble for. The father told her her punishment would be worse if she did it again, but being the brat she is, she did it anyway. She deserves what happened.
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Male 260
(damn character limits)

My point being, as sad as it may be, we cannot force people to willfully change their actions. The statement is a contradiction on its face. I wish I could teach children exactly how the world worked through extreme measures. But I cannot. She`s going to have to come to the conclusion independently that she acted like a child, and these types of punishments won`t help that.

So just talk to your kids. Be civil. It`s the best we can do for them.
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Male 260
Fury and retaliation cannot be used to teach children, it can only be used to punish children. Punishment is an attempt at forcing submission when parents believe that conversation has not been effective in teaching their child, the rationale being "I brought you into this world and have given you all that you have, so if you refuse to respect me, despite all that I`ve done for you, I will force you to respect me." This is not a false line of logic on its face, but is detrimental to true understanding long term.

It is my belief that you cannot force human beings (rational human beings) to change their habits when they don`t understand the reason their behavior should change. After this incident, this girl will merely use this incident as reinforcement for her preconceived ideas about her father, namely that he`s an oppressive jerk. Whether or not her opinion is correct is irrelevant, she will just continue to victimize herself and learn nothing for it.
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Male 448
scalawag: listen better, don`t skip to the end where he shoots the thing. He tells us all she has done something similar, and has been punished for it before. If you repeat your actions, repercusions tend to be a bit harsher.
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Male 289
there is an awesome dude schoolin` teh kiddo the right way,hat off,sir,well played
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Male 168
That guys works in IT?

poo.
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Male 15,832
He`s an idiot. He should have sold the laptop and kept the money.
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Male 559
More parents need to show their children what "Not fair" means.
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Male 2,376
i`ve never had to make coffee for my parents!! if they asked i would make it for them. and i even did it out of the kindness of my heart few times.. but they never exspected me to do it fo rthem.. this guy has probs
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Female 195
Parenting 101: How to be an aggressive and childish father who teaches his children that guns solve problems. The girl was being childish, but oh wait, she`s a child. Have some TALKS to her, instead of violently destroying poo because you`re pissed off at a young girl.
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Female 2,525
One day this girl will realize how good her childhood really was.
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Female 74
Having just seen my 3rd son into adulthood (His 18th birthday was last week), I applaud this father. A little harsh, you say? Perhaps a bit, but this little girl is 15, and more parents need to be more involved in what their kids are doing online.

He made a promise to her the last time she acted out, and this time, he followed through. I can guarantee that, while she might be angry at him for a good long time, she now knows that he means what he says, and he says what he means. She`s 15, and he`s absolutely correct: she has it easy. A lot of kids even now have to "make do" with what their schools or libraries.
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Male 2,841
Finally a father in this world that can do his dratin job properly. This guy deserves a beer or seven.
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Female 500
"Dishonor on you, dishonor on your family, dishonor on your friends, dishonor on your ancestors!"
Gerry, she can ride her bike to the library to type.
I honestly am in the middle about this one. She was being a brat, but I`m an awful brat too sometimes. Parents over react to this type of thing, and it`s not helpful. It doesn`t inspire respect. It doesn`t get your kid to do more around the house. It just causes fights.
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Male 10,855
[quote]There`s this think called a `typewriter`, and the old Mark-I, series-I hand, pencil and paper.[/quote]
Two things:
1)Can it do size 12 Times New Roman and all of the fancy features word processors provide quickly and easily?
2)Is it still on the market (and I mean new NOT used)?
Hopefully she still got school computers and his dads (which he or mother will have to supervise).
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Male 28
So he moved out, worked 2 jobs, went to college, and was a volunteer firefighter when he was 15yo?
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Female 403
ChainsawNbud -"Of course, Princess wouldn`t have acted like she did if the parents had done a proper job to begin with."

Actually no. My sister is EXACTLY like this girl. She is 20 and still writing crappy Facebook Updates about my parents.
We were brought up in the exact same way and I never do that.

My Mum said to her "When you write things about us on your Facebook wall, all our friends and your friends see it. You embarass us and if you like,I can go make a banner and put it on the front of our house so everyone can see what we think of you if you like?"

I think there`s a Facebook generation that don`t understand what is and isn`t appropriate to post online. They don`t have a filter that stops them. This is something parents should start teaching their kids. But its something that hasn`t ever needed discussion in the past.
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Male 25,417
eeeek!
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Male 2,214
It moments like this I love my son even more.We never had a lot of money,but we give him all the love he can stand.He never complained.He`s grown and on his own and doing well.
Thank you Cowboy Dad for reminding me how good my life is. Hope yours gets better.
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Male 1,008
"But then there wouldn`t have been a bullet-riddled laptop to hang on the wall as a continuing reminder to the girl about the consequences of her stupidity and disrespect. "

lol ok i see your point
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Male 49
I`m afraid he`s going to end up driving his daughter away.
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Male 741
Love it.

Of course, Princess wouldn`t have acted like she did if the parents had done a proper job to begin with. I guess to `flip poo` means the same as flipping burgers, cuz Princess is probably working down at Mickey D`s now.

Oh yeah...daddy`s hot.
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Male 8,435
PhotoKing-"this guy is insane and should be reported to child services"

On what basis? Is there some law that you can`t destroy your own property?

Gerry1of1-"You know she has to have that to type her school homework, right?"

Nope, she doesn`t has to have it. There`s this think called a `typewriter`, and the old Mark-I, series-I hand, pencil and paper.

kw112-"publicly humiliating them,"

Pay carefull attention: SHE chose the forum.

KnitGnosis-"Am I the only one that`s on the daughter`s side?"

Unfortunatly not. Which just goes to show you there`s more of the infantile `gimme everthing I "deserve"` generation on here than I`d like.
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Male 8,435
CaptKangaroo-"Publicly humiliate your kid?"

She publicly humiliated herself. He just publicly demonstrated the consequences.

yusuksomuch-"should have just erased the hard drive and donated it to someone who needs it"

But then there wouldn`t have been a bullet-riddled laptop to hang on the wall as a continuing reminder to the girl about the consequences of her stupidity and disrespect.

LazyMe484-" If they can employ a maid"

Listen to the video, they are not employing a maid. A lady is working off a debt, which means he was nice enough to perform some service to the lady for service in trade when she didn`t have the money to cover it.
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Male 18
Am I the only one that`s on the daughter`s side? FIGHT THE MAN HANNAH! Damn redneck parents making you do chores and stuff. And whats the point of destroying a laptop that you paid for? Just take it away from her and use it yourself. No reason to destroy it.
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Male 296
45 was OK but I think a shotgun woulda been nice too.
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Male 47
Slow clap. This man is my hero.
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Male 571
Nothing warms my heart more than a spoiled brat learning a life lesson the hard way. Go dad!
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Male 675
I enjoyed watching the shooting of the laptop so much, I had to watch it again, and again. I remember many times when my parents got on me for not doing things, and to be honest, I`m thankful for it, or I could be a real dick today. Great way to embarrass her, and great way to show that you`ve had enough. Girl was probably stupid enough in the first place to leave her passwords saved on her browser.

By the way, for anyone out there wondering, he`s shooting a 1911, which is a gun chambered in 45 ACP. If you want to learn how to shoot pistols, its a great one to start with; and a great way to deal with unwanted technical issues.
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Female 3,696
Gerry1of1

So how did one publicly deface their father back in the day, Gerry? did yous guys like write on the house or something?
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Female 3,696
I am 23. My parents worked damn hard to make sure that my older brother and I had and have everything that we need. We ran our own business which meant that sometimes they had to work every day of the week. That also meant that I grew up learning how to answer business phones and take messages, how to help with laundry and sometimes cook dinner, how to take care of the animals they let us have. For this girl to complain when her parents have obviously provided her with a pretty damn good life. It`s not just a face book post. It`s a spit in the face and a pretty public one at that. Good for him for caring enough to try and make sure she doesn`t grow up to be a complete douchewagon. Wagon of Douche...
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Male 2,419
@champbronc4
@14 that is no longer the case as she is forming her own identity, and is exposed to an influence (peers, t.v. teachers, hell society as a whole)
Parents are taking their responsibility. How do you think a lover or employer would have reacted?
No one apreciates public humiliation. she learned that lesson now.
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Male 67
personally i think he`s in the right with this. i grew up being told to appreciate the things you have , and if you take it for granted then, that in turn, gets taken away. and besides, never fuc with parents, they know a lot more than you realize. explosive rounds ftw!
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Male 1,832
There are people who would kill to have a dishwasher to unload, clothes to wash, floors to sweep, and a bed to make. This bitch thinks she should get paid because she has all this? drat that. Also, I don`t believe any 15 year old needs a laptop for anything other than facebook. Good job, dad. Can I try that gun now?
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Male 787
Because it gives perspective.
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Male 787
Everyone should read bridezillas post.
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Female 243
Not at all the way you should handle this type of situation. Psychologically, hanging your kid out to dry, publicly humiliating them, is only going to cause some major problems. This video is like the dad giving one big "drat YOU" to his daughter. And even if she has had that attitude with him before, as her parent it`s in no way acceptable to reciprocate that type of behavior. Yeah, she was being a brat. But the way this guy handled it isn`t helping anything. It`s not going to teach her a lesson. It`s going to make her over emotional and "hate" her parents.
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Female 269
It is still possible to handwrite homework, though more difficult to write things like research papers. I think he was pretty restrained, and completely correct in his response. Imagine if more parents gave out consequences for their kids` spoiled, entitled behavior...
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Male 1,949
So, to teach the girl a lesson, the computer must die? What if she uses the car without approval? Destroy the car? What id she throws a party in the house without approval? Destroy the house? I think you`re slightly misguided and very angry, Mr. Colt 45.
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Male 39,560

Ummm, Dad...You know she has to have that to type her school homework, right?

Other than that, Right On!
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Male 6,227
Go, Dad. :)
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Female 32
Also, for all of you whining and moaning about how that poor girl is being mistreated, why don`t you actually read up on it here:
http://www.facebook.com/tommyjordaniii
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Male 959
for a gun-toting redneck, he was quite likeable. I like the respect for the lady who cleans the house
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Female 32
@bataleon22 - maybe if you spoke to your child in person instead of speaking to her through a video, she might actually give a poo"

Maybe you weren`t listening when he said he previously had...
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Female 32
@Champbronc4 - "To assign equal responsibility to each individual is foolish. Responsibility is burdened by the parents."

...Does that mean that in the last case of the 15 year old who murdered another kid, her parents should have gone to prison?
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Male 1,810
So. much. win !!! Personally, I would have shot a smiley face into that laptop and then gave in back....
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Male 17,512
Right the F*ck on.
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Female 4,359
erk, too long. I think he could have done it better, but all parents see his point. f ucking whinging teen gereration...
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Male 10,855
I agree posting this message on Facebook was stupid it`s like those angry e-mails that tend to get employees fired. That being said I would`ve taken the laptop for a month after which give it back AFTER she a made an open apology on Facebook, that is she`d pen it down on paper and I (the father) would post it on her Facebook for her, that way she knows nothing on Facebook is secret.
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Female 375
There`s poor kids who might have appreciated that laptop and dragged their way out of poverty. Equally, you give your child everything they ask for, they will not appreciate a thing. I got my first laptop at 25 when I could afford one. Until then I used the house computer like everyone else. My parents only bought me stuff for christmas or birthday or if an essential thing (clothes, shoes, bed etc) had worn out and was beyond repair.
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Female 1,203
"his problem is he gave the daughter everything she wanted and needed, need to make the kids earn what they need/want" Sounds like he was trying to make her earn the things she wanted by at least helping around the house if not getting a job as soon as she was legally able to. Both which proved to be just too much for her, therefore...no more computer.
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Female 471
Holy poo. Haha. He coulda sold the laptop or something and at least gotten the money back. He wasted a lot of money.
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Female 1,203
This is amazing because seriously, this girl needs to learn respect. If she didn`t want this to happen, KEEP A DIARY and don`t post something public. Yes, we all need to vent (and maybe he would have reacted the same way even if it was a private diary he read) but the fact that she is posting this to mock her parents and disrespect them is awful. Too drating bad you have sweep floors, take out trash, and clean your room or unload the dish washer...rally girl? I hope he stick to it and won`t get her a new laptop. I think he should have sold the laptop though, that is my only criticism. He could have gotten a lot of money for it I`m sure. But, this gets the point across more. When she older and has a work ethic and respects people, she`ll look back and thank him. I know I thank my mom for making me work and honestly I think she should have disciplined me more. I got away with way too much when I a teenager and I was way too disrespectful too.
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Male 303
Well he`s right, it is stupid to wing so much about 1st world problems.
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Male 10,855
Holy crap sounds like a teen had a REALLY bad day.

X(
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Male 171
I hope she takes it super bad, and does something stupid without thinking twice about it, like running away from home.
That way, she can end up living alone doing ALL the chores, and working her way through school...
Doing everything her father wanted her to do in the first place!
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Male 616
@ ledzeppeloyd, What`s a "duche" douchebag?
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Male 282
I`m sure we`ll see this in the corporate whore media as "cruel and unusual punishment". I`m assuming this will be on Mr. Maddow`s show tonight as well.
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Male 1,540
I suppose it`s a bit of an over reaction for a post on Facebook. We all have to vent our anger sometimes. But at the same time, this is awesome, because she won`t grow up to be on of those dickheads that gets fired for posting something stupid on Facebook (or god forbid gets kicked out of the army for a Facebook post).
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Male 427
This is terrible IMO.. With 8$ there are much better ways to destroy a computer.

Either way, to those saying he should`ve talked to her I advise you to rewatch the clip. He did talk to her, she even got grounded before. It was the second time it happened and since talking and grounding didn`t prove efficient then 8 bullets might do the trick.
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Male 1,197
his problem is he gave the daughter everything she wanted and needed, need to make the kids earn what they need/want
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2,767
[quote]Seems like a waste to destroy a perfectly good laptop. I would`ve just changed the password and then made it into a family computer.[/quote]

i think i would have sold it...but ya, waste of a perfectly good laptop.
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Male 2,384
wow what a duche
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Male 39,560

I doubt she`s the result of bad parenting. ALL teenagers back talk. She got caught once doing it on face book and was told the consequences would be severe if she did it again...she did.

My old man... it would`a been the strap. But that`s abuse nowadays.
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Male 620
"But the fact that he is the father makes HER the product of HIS parenting."

Yes, because all of your problems can always be traced back to your parents.

People should grow up, take it upon themselves to show some personal responsibility and not blame their problems on daddy issues.
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Male 535
@LordJim - You`ve got to be the most ignorant, bitter, tool in all of IAB,without a doubt. Everybody in this room dropped a level of intelligence just by reading your post. Seek help & I pray you never breed...
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Female 211
I feel most sorry for the little brother, cause he`s gonna end up getting caught in the screaming that most definitely ensued.
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Male 61
I`m ok with this!
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Female 50
what a dysfunctional cracker
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Male 5,148
A little rude reaction here but i can`t say this man don`t have reasons. Maybe it could be better to talk face to face to his kid in my opinion.
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Male 2,988
parenting win
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Female 2,761
love him. He`s my new hero
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Male 7,123
He raised a child. When children get to be teenagers the frequently become bloody annoying. It`s nature`s way of telling you to drive them away to start their own pride/pack/whatever. If the stick around too long it`s annoying.

But we keep them around and dependant far longer than is natural. Our big brains have caused our culture and civiization to evolve far faster than our bodies and brains can keep up with.

So if you have a child, bear in mind that you will soon have a teenager. Raise them accordingly.

This is a childish man, raised her wrong and then shoots stuff to express his feelings.
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Male 1,178
maybe if you spoke to your child in person instead of speaking to her through a video, she might actually give a poo
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Male 1,008
"I have the impression that this guy thought the reaction was worth a destroyed laptop. If they can employ a maid then they`re well off and the value of the laptop isn`t much."

when i was a kid my parents would say " we will give your toys to someone who will appreciate them" they never did, because i got the point. destroying something that has use and value for spite is stupid
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Male 4
That chair makes him look tiny.
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Male 365
Wait... he spent money on software?
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Male 217
Seems like a waste to destroy a perfectly good laptop. I would`ve just changed the password and then made it into a family computer.
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Male 687
who pays for software?!
and btw...win parenting
i grew up with almost nothing...and always managed on my own..and i turned up pretty good..so yea..he`s the best parent in my book
and shooting the laptop was epic
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Male 40
@MrOrange who said " and for all of you saying.. Dad should have talked to her, whell she didn`t talk to dad now did she? and dad told her previously that this was not done. she had it comming. "

To assign equal responsibility to each individual is foolish. Responsibility is burdened by the parents.
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Female 592
I`m with dad and Awalrus on this one. If the kids today had any sense of respect, that which was taught to them, the world might have a bright future. As of right now, they all expect to have everything handed to them. Work? HA! A bunch of whiners, whiners!
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Male 1,526
Crinkles up paper.
Looks like we got a badass over here.
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Male 122
I personally would have just told my daughter, "You know, facebook posts have their way of coming around to the ears of people, especially if those posts are about them. You might want to be careful in the future. People wont be as forgiving as I am," and left it at that. She`ll know to be more careful. I`m not gonna change the way she thinks. eventually she will come around. So long as she does what she is asked to around the house, that`s the limit of my control. I can`t control her thoughts. That would be very totalitarian of me.
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Male 2,419
sounds like someone with firstworld problems wil be having secondworld problems. you`re going to have to pay for your own poo!
and yeah i know i know about the teenage identity developing etc, and yeah she was just letting of some steam... thats what you got a diary for, disrespecting your family in such a punlic way.. isn`t cool. and for all of you saying.. Dad should have talked to her, whell she didn`t talk to dad now did she? and dad told her previously that this was not done. she had it comming.
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Male 2,419
What I don`t get is how did it take him half of his day to upgrade the software on her computer? You put the disc in, you click ok, and you walk away. It runs itself...
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Male 122
@RuralNinja.
It may seem fair... if she too was an adult. All he did was lower himself to highschool level drama and effectively make the internet think his daughter is a brat. I don`t question the punishment, I question the delivery.
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Male 530
Did this girl raise herself or should the man in this clip have done some raising up?

That this girl is so egocentric isn`t completely her fault. Her parents should take a good long look at each other too.
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Male 714
Cyber policeman in action
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Male 559
Well, clearly he doesn`t understand how the mind of a teen works. Because the cerebrum is in the process of reworking itself for adulthood, the amygdala (which normally processes intense emotion) takes over the processing of logic and control which is why teens get so exasperated at things most of us shrug off. The net consequence of his actions is that the daughter is now more likely to rebel and pull away emotionally from her parents. In this day, that translates to increased likelihood of depression, teen pregnancy and school delinquency.

He would have been much better off to talk to her about his feelings and how her actions make him feel.

But, hey, this makes the father feel better, so I guess it`s worth it.
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Male 40
In the end, the whole thing is a product of bad parenting.. If you look at the conflict alone, isolated from the fact he is her father, then yes, maybe you can agree with the father or think they are both wrong.

But the fact that he is the father makes HER the product of HIS parenting. He is doing it all wrong. If your daughter complains, address the issues DIRECTLY with her instead of flipping poo.
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Male 65
@Bridezilla
Sounds more like she was a disrespectful and unappreciative little sh*t, and her dad finally decided to show her that her actions had consequences, which sounds like something that you didn`t learn.
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Male 519
@jteachey1 She made her comment public to everyone but him. He made his response public to everyone but her. Seems fair.
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Male 1,691
He`s correct, but I do think he handled this poorly. She used a public forum to attempt to humiliate him, so he uses a public form to humiliate her? This won`t bring them close together and teach her a lesson. This will just drive them further apart. Sad dysfunction.
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Male 519
@Photoking He didn`t shoot her laptop. He shot his laptop that he allowed her to use. And he never threatened her. He never hinted at any violence toward her. Social services has more important things to worry about than a good parent.
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Female 7,997
Good for him. Hope she learns.....
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Male 2,670
Would have loved it 3% more if he`d blown a Mac away.

Still, good for him.
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Male 39,560

I thought we all learned this when we were 5 years old.
"If you misuse your toys you don`t get to keep them."
Okay, maybe Dad went about it rather dramatically, but DRAMA is all a teenage girl understands. You gotta speak their language!

Dad of the year candidate and I`d like to buy him a beer.
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Male 5,811
Wow, that was the best video I`ve seen in the past few months at least. Redneck IT guy is parenting so hard right now.
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Male 1,832
@PhotoKing, Reported to child services for what, exactly? Teaching his child that her actions have consequences?
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Female 1,566
"how the hell is she going to get work done?"

With a notebook and paper and a book, you absolute moron. But no, let child services have her, let her rot in an adoption center or a foster home where, get this, she`ll still have to do chores and be a helpful individual, except she`ll really feel like a slave, doing chores for strangers, instead of an overdramatic spoiled little brat doing chores in her own home. You gotta be out of your mind if you think her *~new~* family will buy her a laptop and let her sit on her ass.
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Male 122
His daughter sounds like a spoiled piece of poo. And the punishment is just, compared to how he must have felt and what other parents might have done to their kids at that emotional level. But he probably should have made that a private video.
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Male 2,332
Stern. Stern but fair.
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Male 2,440
When I suggested getting payed for chores (an allowance, whatever), my parents laughed at me.

And his daughter does sound like a dunce. Trying to hide something on Facebook from your dad that works in IT? She had it coming.
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Female 12
Reminds me so much of my father, who did not know how to deal with me when I was a teenager. It seems to me that he invaded her privacy and told her she was worthless. He also demands obedience out of fear and that`s NOT the right way to deal with a rebellious daughter!!! It will only make her feel worthless, unapreciated, and inadequate and maybe even intice her to act up even more.

When my dad acted like that when I was a teenager, my response was not "Oh I am sorry I will never do it again." I ended up being more rebellious, decided to start smoking weed, and had a boyfriend that was 13 years older than me (I was only 16 then) just to piss my dad even more. Good job a**hole dad!
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Male 526
this guy is insane and should be reported to child services. the fact he has a gun, threatened, then destroyed the computer? how the hell is she going to get work done? it would serve him right if she destroyed his stuff, then ran away from home.

he left home, then went to college, while he went to school? how does that work?
anyway, this guy is nuts.
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Male 2,552
she dun goof`d!
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Male 6
No offense, but she lives under his house, he provides her with clothes and food, sorry but thats enough, you don`t need to be payed for chores, thats payment for you being given basic neccessities.
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Male 1,399
I couldn`t even imagine saying that to my parents, and I had to do a lot more than those "chores."

Definitely needs to bring the hammer down, or she`ll never understand hard work.
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Male 3,477
Teenage girl are all the same. If you lived in China you could swap her for a good water buffalo. I would have sold the lap top.
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Male 10,440
[quote] that`s a total waste of a perfectly good laptop, if he works in IT he should have just erased the hard drive and donated it to someone who needs it. [/quote]
I have the impression that this guy thought the reaction was worth a destroyed laptop. If they can employ a maid then they`re well off and the value of the laptop isn`t much.
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Male 4,593
I like the guy.
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Male 10,440
At first as I was like... "Alright! Get ready for some swift internet justice!"

but then as I kept listening I thought...

This guy is taking it a bit far, doncha think?

You`re humiliated in front of your friends.

You`re grounded forever.

I`m destroying your laptop. As IT, this guy should know that the first bullet would have been enough.

I`m giving you a $130 debt for stuff *I* willingly did today, then undid.

This could have been resolved with one stern talk in the living room, IMO.

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Female 803
Good job, immature teenager. Your dad is in IT and you really thought blocking him would get that past him? Deeeerp. She sounds like a spoiled brat to me.
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Male 329
Good for him. He should also require her to submit to him 5 aplications a week for places she has applied to for work. If she doesn`t find a job in a month, she can work off her debts in manual labor around the house or a job of his choosing.
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Male 658
At first, I thought the guy was gonna be a doofus. But that man is awesome.
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Male 762
It is easy to see why his daughter might over react and be overly dramatic when the adults who raised her do something as dramatic as shot her laptop to attempt to prove a childish point. Poor family never had any choice but to be crazy.
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Male 373
It would have been more effective to grant her request to be paid for her work. An hour of chores a day at minimum wage, that`s $225 per month. But, her parents` work deserves the same treatment, so deduct $400 a month for the free room, $200 a month for food, $200 a month for transportation. She`ll be in the house for another 3 years, so ask her for a check for $20,700 and call it even.
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Male 39,560

He talks way too much, but the point he made is good. "You eff`d up...you pay the price."

I got a tv in my room when I could afford to buy one. Same with a stereo. And I didn`t dare mouth off about chores or I`d be doing a lot more of them.

Good job dad.
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Male 1,008
Im a little torn here, Love the no BS attitude. but dude has some serious anger management issues that i think may attribute to the girls behavior. and that`s a total waste of a perfectly good laptop, if he works in IT he should have just erased the hard drive and donated it to someone who needs it.
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Male 3,109
Parents get what they raise, and frankly I don`t think that a child`s rant- such as this one- on a social media site is anything to get worked up over, specially when you have to hack into it.
begrudge getting your kid a new computer battery? Then don`t. Kid needs new software/whatever? If you don`t buy it, then out of necessity the kid just might get a job.Publicly humiliate your kid? You`re supposed to be the adult.
Lived on your own at 15? Went to college while going to high school? Only thing missing was walking through 10 feet of snow, uphill both ways to do it.
This jerk is not disciplining his kid to enhance her character, he`s doing it out of anger because his ego is bruised- what a putz.
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Male 1,832
Handled like a boss. I`d love to see her reaction to her laptop being shot.
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Male 23
Oh hell yea......that`s how it`s done......keep calm and cool and stay consistent. Just don`t shoot her in the foot if she tried to sneak out while she`s grounded. lol
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Male 715
swift? long and drawn out more like it, what`ll he do when she runs away shoot her in the knees?
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Female 8,043
Link: Parenting 101 For The Rebellious Teen On Facebook [Rate Link] - Tired of teens getting disrespectful online? This dad has taken all he can and deals out some swift and just punishment
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