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111 Responses to Proud Mom`s Facebook Photo Of Her Gay Son [Pic]

  1. Profile photo of SaintPatty
    SaintPatty Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 9:49 am
    Link: Proud Mom`s Facebook Photo Of Her Gay Son - Hey mom, we`re happy you`re proud of your gay son, but, um--HE`S 7 YEARS OLD! Does he need a sexual identity already?
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    shiftybob Male 30-39
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    December 21, 2011 at 9:59 am
    Mom is a drating idiot...
  3. Profile photo of St3ppenwolf
    St3ppenwolf Male 13-17
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:00 am
    How the hell does he know whether he wants meatstick or fishtaco when he`s 7...?
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    ForSquirel Male 30-39
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:02 am
    and yet he still doesn`t know which is his favorite PokeMon.
  5. Profile photo of FemBot
    FemBot Female 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:03 am
    Personally,I think that it`s a little to early to taking the kid too seriously, but psychologists believe that most kids establish their sexual identity early in childhood. For example children ogling bewbs, kids having a crush on their schoolteacher, etc. Most people have issues with accepting it since children + sexual nature = absolutely disgusting, but unfortunately it`s something that we have to acknowledge as a fact.
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    robosnitz Male 40-49
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:05 am
    I remember when being gay wasn`t cool.
  7. Profile photo of Crabes
    Crabes Male 30-39
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:08 am
    i believe its more about being an attention whore then being gay. The same goes for his mom
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    Justin9235 Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:08 am
    /facepalm
  9. Profile photo of uberrogo
    uberrogo Male 30-39
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:12 am
    Moms are so internet tough.
  10. Profile photo of leesah
    leesah Female 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:16 am
    This kid is gonna be so effing confused now. His whole childhood his mother told him he was gay and that`s okay, three years later he`ll be getting boners over girls and wondering what the eff is up.
  11. Profile photo of hwkiller
    hwkiller Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:17 am
    My guess is that he`s identifying with the social group of homosexuality.

    Not sure if he`s "truly" homosexual, or if he`s just identifying with the group as part of his social identity.

    He`s a kid. They`re quick to form identities.
  12. Profile photo of tommy2X4
    tommy2X4 Male 50-59
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:17 am
    I hope he finds inner peace or at least becomes a pop star.
  13. Profile photo of DixxyRarr
    DixxyRarr Female 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:17 am
    Mom is an idiot. But kids are treated as `straight until proven gay`... so what`s wrong with the opposite?? I liked girls/women since I was 3 or 4, and when I realized I liked boys too (at like 12 or so) I was surprised.

    Bottom line: I don`t think there`s anything wrong with knowing and talking about your sexual orientation at a young age... but posting on fb and being an attention whore about it is just annoying.
  14. Profile photo of leesah
    leesah Female 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:19 am
    "My guess is that he`s identifying with the social group of homosexuality."

    My guess is the seven year old has no drating clue. He probably came home from a playdate one day and told his mom he liked boys (aka his friends) and she told him he was gay. I`m positive his mom didn`t sit him down and go "that means you love other men and you want to get rammed up the ass, son". He`s going to figure it out one day and he`s not going to be happy.
  15. Profile photo of lostinkorea
    lostinkorea Female 30-39
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:20 am
    Wednesday, December 21, 2011 10:00:34 AM
    How the hell does he know whether he wants meatstick or fishtaco when he`s 7...?
    ____

    The same way you know you like girls....
  16. Profile photo of Apexs
    Apexs Male 30-39
    355 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 10:22 am
    @FemBot - Thumbs up for you..
  17. Profile photo of LillianDulci
    LillianDulci Female 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:25 am
    I knew I liked guys when I was 4, and definitely knew when I was 7. Why is it so hard to imagine that a 7 year old can know they`re gay?
  18. Profile photo of Rick_S
    Rick_S Male 40-49
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:39 am
    I`ve heard it said that your sexual identity is fixed by the time you`re five years old, so knowing it by 7 wouldn`t be strange. My son had a huge crush on Rachel Ray when he was about that age, so it makes sense to me that this little boy could know he likes boys.
  19. Profile photo of Mechi
    Mechi Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:44 am
    Meh whatever.
  20. Profile photo of zombieraptur
    zombieraptur Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:48 am
    Everyone is different and some people know at a very young age others don`t. I dont know why everyone assumes what they experienced in life is the same thing everyone else does. I personally knew at a very young age I was gay. Also we have all seen kids that we know are gay sometimes you cant hide it sometimes you just glitter your way down the school hallways everyone just knows.
  21. Profile photo of 5Cats
    5Cats Male 50-59
    31783 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 10:49 am
    A 7 year old with a fixed sexual identity? YEah right! This Mom is full of shiite and her child is in dire need of help (to protect him from her!).
  22. Profile photo of Orchideous
    Orchideous Male 18-29
    361 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 10:54 am
    Sure looks gay.
  23. Profile photo of ATL1EN
    ATL1EN Male 18-29
    622 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 10:58 am
    people are gay. its a disability, like being retarted. they shouldnt call them gay. they should call them retarted aswell
  24. Profile photo of Reignblazer
    Reignblazer Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:59 am
    At age 7 you don`t know poo except what your parents taught you.
  25. Profile photo of Tobunshi
    Tobunshi Male 18-29
    678 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 11:00 am
    "SEVEN YEAR OLDS ARE LIKE KITTENS THEY CAN`T UNDERSTAND SEXUAL IDENTITY!" -70% of the IAB comments section
  26. Profile photo of WalkinAftr12
    WalkinAftr12 Female 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 11:02 am
    This isnt a facebook picture, it`s from the Postsecret app. Jesus christ, IAB, get your facts straight
  27. Profile photo of HalfSandwich
    HalfSandwich Male 18-29
    145 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 11:14 am
    rachel maddow really hasn`t changed much over the years.
  28. Profile photo of Satkela
    Satkela Female 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 11:20 am
    So he`s having sex with other boys at 7?
  29. Profile photo of DixxyRarr
    DixxyRarr Female 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 11:26 am
    Satkela: Why in the world would you assume he`s having sex?
  30. Profile photo of bacon_pie
    bacon_pie Male 30-39
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    December 21, 2011 at 11:27 am

  31. Profile photo of yoda141
    yoda141 Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 11:53 am
    You can`t be gay at 7. You can`t be straight at 7 either, you have no sexual attraction.
  32. Profile photo of HalfPintRoo
    HalfPintRoo Female 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 11:58 am
    I agree with the caption... he doesn`t need a SEXUAL identity at 7. It`s not the same thing as saying "I`m a boy but I feel like a girl"... we are talking about SEXUAL identities here...
  33. Profile photo of connor53
    connor53 Male 13-17
    207 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 12:16 pm
    Can`t tell if gay or straight until puberty. That mom is crazy.
  34. Profile photo of Viking864
    Viking864 Male 40-49
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    December 21, 2011 at 12:21 pm
    Another idiot parent.
  35. Profile photo of Gerry1of1
    Gerry1of1 Male 50-59
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    December 21, 2011 at 12:23 pm

    "Can`t tell if gay or straight until puberty. That mom is crazy."
    Wrong. You don`t understand it until puberty, but I had a crush on my 4th grade teache, Mr. Robles. You`re born that way, end of story.

    And yes, the mom is crazy. So what if he`s gay or straight. Why put up a big announcement?
  36. Profile photo of CrakrJak
    CrakrJak Male 40-49
    17515 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 12:31 pm
    Interesting everyone saying he doesn`t have a sexual identity yet, but homosexuals claim to be `born gay`.

    The two opinions can`t both be true. I agree that people choose a sexual identity, when that happens can vary greatly, but it`s a choice none-the-less.
  37. Profile photo of PinkRhoid
    PinkRhoid Male 18-29
    1239 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 12:35 pm
    He appears to be a hipster too. Bad parenting much? (not saying that being gay is a reflection of bad parenting but that a 7 year old feeling the need to decide if he is or not)
  38. Profile photo of Cajun247
    Cajun247 Male 18-29
    10722 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 12:41 pm
    I agree that people choose a sexual identity, when that happens can vary greatly, but it`s a choice none-the-less.

    Like you said two opinions can`t be true, and there serious doubts about this theory.
  39. Profile photo of thatjimguy
    thatjimguy Male 30-39
    458 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 12:51 pm
    The terrible thing would be if this kid has zero idea his picture was being used for this and the statement is not even true. Who can tell what is real and what is not anymore? People just post random crap with political agendas and the masses just sop it up as if it true.
  40. Profile photo of Jonix
    Jonix Female 18-29
    74 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 12:51 pm
    Cute little boy. Good for him. I had my first crush in kindergarten when I was 5 years old. Sexuality was never a question. I didn`t "know" I was straight, it just happened. I didn`t come home one day, tell my mom I liked a boy, and she said, "Oh, so you`re straight?" It never required conversation until sex became an option.

    I don`t see why it should be any different for gay children.
  41. Profile photo of PhotoKing
    PhotoKing Male 30-39
    526 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 12:59 pm
    how can he know that he`s gay at 7? or is he confused as to what gay means. like he might have a boy friend - that is a friend and nothing more than that. i would imagine that at that age, the thing in his pants is still used for putting out fires.
  42. Profile photo of asianchamp
    asianchamp Male 18-29
    414 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 1:33 pm
    cool story
  43. Profile photo of TKD_Master
    TKD_Master Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 1:38 pm
    "I agree that people choose a sexual identity, when that happens can vary greatly, but it`s a choice none-the-less."

    Oh... well when did you choose to be gay/straight? Do you remember thiking `I think i`m going to be straight.`? No? Then STFU.
  44. Profile photo of Byfield
    Byfield Male 18-29
    464 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 1:39 pm
    In my home town, there was a guy a few years ago who, between year 4 and 5 of school, changed school and stopped being called (name) and became (namena). Wore girls clothes. Just wasnt right.
  45. Profile photo of kj36
    kj36 Female 18-29
    240 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 1:43 pm
    I new by the time I was.. I`d say about 4, that I liked boys. By 7, I DEFINITELY knew, seeing as how I`d had many crushes on boys and never thought about having one on a girl, even though I was aware of the idea of homosexuality. It is definitely possible for this boy at the age of 7 to know he is gay.
  46. Profile photo of lukas1051
    lukas1051 Male 18-29
    3428 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 1:57 pm
    One thing I can not stand is parents who use their children as a tool to whore attention. I don`t know whether this kid is gay or not, I think puberty is really the time you start questioning your sexuality, but maybe you can know this early. What annoys me is that his mother has clearly shaped him to her own desires, she`s using him as a statement. The glasses and hair, sorry but no 7 year old dresses like that - she`s turning him into a gay stereotype which isn`t good for anyone. What worries me is that when this kid starts going through puberty and questioning his sexuality, which he will, if he decides that he`s straight his mum will reject him because he`s not the gay son she can flaunt. I think the fact that she went to the effort to write this on a photo of him and upload it to the internet says that.
  47. Profile photo of DrProfessor
    DrProfessor Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 2:03 pm
    I`d say wait until puberty before you start making statements like this.
  48. Profile photo of LazyMe484
    LazyMe484 Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 2:10 pm
    I don`t get how you can know at 7. Seems too young.

    ... but half the comments here are this, except more pompous and self-sure.

    I didn`t feel a thing for girls until 12 at the least.
  49. Profile photo of LazyMe484
    LazyMe484 Male 18-29
    10443 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 2:13 pm
    I agree that people choose a sexual identity, when that happens can vary greatly, but it`s a choice none-the-less.
    When did you choose to be strait? See what I did there.

    This is too easy.
  50. Profile photo of DeanoBoz
    DeanoBoz Male 40-49
    195 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 2:14 pm
    To all the I-A-Bers who question this photo: You are just ASKING to get hurt by a mentally imbalanced mother.
  51. Profile photo of wmf1489
    wmf1489 Male 13-17
    45 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 2:29 pm
    I Knew I liked dick in and or around my mouth by the time i was 6, so its completely possible that this kid knows as well.

    It typically grinds my gears when parents use their kids to make political statements, but this is different for me. I think it is incredible that this kid has a proud parent to go home to that will let him grow up to be a very confident respectable young guy. If you aren`t gay, you have no idea how difficult it is to find yourself and be yourself in a world where you feel like you don`t belong.

    Good good post IAB
  52. Profile photo of wmf1489
    wmf1489 Male 13-17
    45 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 2:32 pm
    Woah, now she`s mentally imbalanaced?

    If protecting your son from potential harassment and negativity from bigots, and letting your kid be who he wants to be is "mentally imbalanced", then I don`t know If I want a "sane" parent...
  53. Profile photo of LillianDulci
    LillianDulci Female 18-29
    2674 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 2:41 pm
    "I didn`t feel a thing for girls until 12 at the least."

    You didn`t feel a thing for girls until 12, but I had numerous crushes even before I entered school and I remember pretty much all of them xD. When I was 3 I had a crush on our neighbor`s son who was my older brother`s age. When I was 4-5 I had a crush on another neighbor`s son who was also my classmate. When I was 6 I had a crush on this kid named Ian who every girl in my class had a crush on. When I was 7 I had a crush on this kid who lived down the street, as well as one on my brother`s friend. Repeat this for pretty much every age until I actually started dating. You might not have liked a girl until 12 but not everyone`s the same. It was no question to me that I`m straight even early on.
  54. Profile photo of Brassbull
    Brassbull Male 30-39
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    December 21, 2011 at 2:49 pm
    I was having sexual feelings when I was 5 years old. I think when I was 6 they went dormant till puberty but for that year I wanted to have sex and tried very hard to figure out what sex was.
  55. Profile photo of Hedkwab
    Hedkwab Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 2:57 pm
    The kid obviously is not older enough to fully comprehend his sexuality. The mother shouldn`t promote it.
  56. Profile photo of lemaxwell
    lemaxwell Female 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 3:59 pm
    children at that age ABSOLUTELY know what they are. if you ask any gay person, he/she will tell you, "i just sort of always knew." additionally, i recently got my masters in elementary education and there is specific training involved in handling children coping with confusing sexual identities.
  57. Profile photo of TheOrigin
    TheOrigin Male 18-29
    500 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 4:01 pm
    Flaunting the sexuality of a 7 year old kid is what I`d deem as a parenting fail. Not because of the kid, the fail is on the side of the parent. They are trying to flaunt something, the kid has no idea of.

    And if that kid does have a grasp of sex and sexuality at such an early age, then I pity him for a rather early loss of childhood.
  58. Profile photo of OldOllie
    OldOllie Male 60-69
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    December 21, 2011 at 4:07 pm
    I smell a troll...
  59. Profile photo of InTheNameOf
    InTheNameOf Male 30-39
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    December 21, 2011 at 4:27 pm
    lemaxwell - 7 is plenty old to have a sexual identity....and what does that have to do with loss of childhood?

    But I agree that the parents should not post about it on facebook.
  60. Profile photo of Johanvb
    Johanvb Male 40-49
    496 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 4:54 pm
    Well last i heard Amsterdam isn`t as gay friendly as it used to be. I hope mom has been following a martial-arts course the last seven years or else the Dutch multi-cutural society may crush this self confident spirit before he meets a soul-mate.
  61. Profile photo of Satkela
    Satkela Female 18-29
    583 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 4:55 pm
    "I Knew I liked dick in and or around my mouth by the time i was 6, so its completely possible that this kid knows as well."

    Somebody messed with you when you were a child didn`t they?

    @DixxyrRarr: wmf1489 is a perfect example of why I made the staement that I did earlier.
  62. Profile photo of mykunter
    mykunter Male 40-49
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    December 21, 2011 at 4:55 pm
    Uh... Huh? When I was 7 years old I thought girls were yucky. Things changed. But anyhow, I`d bet money that kid is going to be a butt pirate.

    And Jeeesus, mom! What`s with those glasses? Are you trying to get his ass kicked?
  63. Profile photo of Satkela
    Satkela Female 18-29
    583 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 4:58 pm
    @wmf1489: It is perfectly normal for a mother to want to protect her child from harassment, what makes her look bad is that she`s claiming that her son is gay at 7 years old when in reality at that age children usually don`t have a sexual preference at all because relations and relationships are the last things on their minds.
  64. Profile photo of JJXanadu
    JJXanadu Male 30-39
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    December 21, 2011 at 5:14 pm
    Awww, she`s cute...
  65. Profile photo of 5Cats
    5Cats Male 50-59
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    December 21, 2011 at 5:44 pm
    @mykunter: You`re a funny guy! lolz! Thanks for that!

    @Satkella, @TheOrigin & @OldOllie: I think you`re all on to something here.

    @JJXanadu: Stop that! You made me snort beer out my nose!
  66. Profile photo of eovogt
    eovogt Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 6:10 pm
    I`m confused....he`s seven.
  67. Profile photo of SlothOfDoom
    SlothOfDoom Male 30-39
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    December 21, 2011 at 6:17 pm
    My son is straight, but he likes to use up girls and then give them to his father.

    I mean, I don`t have a son yet, but he is busy working on that sexual identity now, just in case.
  68. Profile photo of trippyhippy9
    trippyhippy9 Male 18-29
    559 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 6:31 pm
    Heh...

    Just because you think girls are icky when you are 7 years old doesn`t mean you are gay.
  69. Profile photo of vVvBrock
    vVvBrock Male 18-29
    177 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 7:05 pm
    Does any 7-year-old like girls?
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    Angelmassb Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 7:35 pm
    What a fabulous look
  71. Profile photo of CrakrJak
    CrakrJak Male 40-49
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    December 21, 2011 at 8:38 pm
    TKD_Master: I knew that I liked girls the first moment a girl, my age, kissed me. I don`t remember exactly if I was 8 or 9.

    Much later I had a friend that made his choice after his girlfriend faked a pregnancy, saying he was the father, when he found out it was fake he went gay, he was 18 years old. That shocked the hell out the whole school because he was thought of as the `ladies man`.

    When asked by a common friend, he said he wasn`t `born` gay and didn`t even think he was gay until he started having sex with girls.
  72. Profile photo of LillianDulci
    LillianDulci Female 18-29
    2674 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 8:52 pm
    @CrakrJak - One anomaly against the majority. I`ve seen people say that they chose to be straight and I most definitely did not.
  73. Profile photo of CrakrJak
    CrakrJak Male 40-49
    17515 posts
    December 21, 2011 at 9:22 pm
    LillianDulci: There is not just `one anomaly` among the world`s population, there are people that choose to like both sexes, there are people that make a choice and then want to change back.

    My point is, people don`t fit into either Box A or Box B from birth. When it comes to sexuality, there is way to much variety in those choices for it to all be determined from birth.

    And if it is determined at birth, then how could anyone fault a pedophile for their proclivities ?

    I`m not making excuses for pedos, just expressing one of their own arguments for their perversity.
  74. Profile photo of Altaru
    Altaru Male 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:09 pm
    And if it is determined at birth, then how could anyone fault a pedophile for their proclivities ?
    You don`t fault them for HAVING the feelings, you fault them for ACTING on the feelings.

    There`s a huge difference. I feel like killing people sometimes, but I don`t actually go out and decapitate anyone, now do I?

    So can you fault me for the violent thoughts I have, considering I`ve never killed anyone?

    Oh, wait, you`re a Christian. You fault me for existing. Never mind, I`m sorry for asking.
  75. Profile photo of carmium
    carmium Female 50-59
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:31 pm
    I don`t remember boys expressing the slightest interest in girls until around grade 7 when I was a kid. Up `til then, boys thought girls were icky and vice versa. Kids are probably a little more precocious today, but seven seems a bit young to be planning your sexual future.
  76. Profile photo of Fwoggie2
    Fwoggie2 Male 30-39
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:49 pm
    He looks like a mini justin bieber crossed with Austin Powers.
  77. Profile photo of LillianDulci
    LillianDulci Female 18-29
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    December 21, 2011 at 10:55 pm
    @CrakrJak - Pretty much what Altaru said. You don`t fault them for their feelings, it`s acting on them that`s a problem because it actually harms someone. If a pedo gets off from looking at cartoons of underage girls/boys then I really don`t care, there`s not really a difference between a cartoon of a kid and a cartoon of an adult and no one`s harmed. But if it involves an actual child, that`s where the problem is.
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    Gerry1of1 Male 50-59
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    December 22, 2011 at 12:10 am

    I`m really starting to like Bacon Pie`s posts.
    You have a pervers and twisted view of the world that
    is sexually magenetic while also very repulstive.

    Well done.
  79. Profile photo of Mister_C
    Mister_C Male 18-29
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    December 22, 2011 at 12:24 am
    How can a seven year old have any sexual identity in any direction? They`re seven! They`re not even at puberty age, so they`re very unlikely to have a sexual interest in anyone of any gender!

    He does look gay though :/ I think his mother probably wants him to go down that road, makes him watch lots of Gok Wan etc.
  80. Profile photo of fps_will
    fps_will Male 18-29
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    December 22, 2011 at 12:27 am
    lil gaymo
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    Finchy147 Male 18-29
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    December 22, 2011 at 12:54 am
    "Is my biggest achievement" Great mum. 7 yea old who`s not gone through puberty so has no attraction to ether gender being brain washed to think that`s he`s gay. thus prob having the poo kicked out of him in school, growing up with that. Plus when he comes back from school and someone`s challenged him on it "ill hurt anyone who challenged his spirit". Glad YOUR proud.
  82. Profile photo of CrakrJak
    CrakrJak Male 40-49
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    December 22, 2011 at 1:55 am
    LillianDulci: You don`t fault them for their feelings, it`s acting on them that`s a problem..

    So what you`re saying is that most people can legally act on their feelings but others can`t, right ?

    You do know this same argument was once made against homosexuals, racial minorities, religious minorities, and women like yourself, right ?

    Still playing devil`s advocate here, btw.
  83. Profile photo of CrakrJak
    CrakrJak Male 40-49
    17515 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 2:13 am
    LillianDulci: And before you say the difference is that, "those don`t harm anyone", let`s review some history.

    Woman`s rights were denied because people perceived the harm was the break-up of the family and higher divorce rate (which happened).

    Civil rights was denied because people perceived the harm was that illiterate people would be able to vote.

    Gay rights was denied because people perceived the harm was that gayness would be normalized and that they`d adopt children and indoctrinate them into their own gayness.

    Which brings us right back to the topic of this post.
  84. Profile photo of voguette
    voguette Male 18-29
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    December 22, 2011 at 3:21 am
    I created an account just so that I could specifically comment on the other comments here. I knew I was gay at a young age, and I know I`m not alone in that. Its not just about sex, thats just happenstance of being gay. the term in the closet is used to denote hiding your identity, which most LGBT people have done because even at a young age we can recognise that we will be persecuted for being different. as society progresses and more barriers are broken down, and most things are now generally accepted - its incredible this kid has the guts to identify (come out) and its great that his mother supports him
  85. Profile photo of CurlybackJoe
    CurlybackJoe Male 18-29
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    December 22, 2011 at 3:43 am
    Wow. Who cares. It`s all the same.
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    Steelgrid Male 30-39
    2700 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 3:45 am
    Good for the kid for understanding what his body is feeling and having the state of mind ot express it.

    Good for the parents for being supportive and not ostracizing him on his feelings.

    Shame, death, pestilence, and divorce I wish upon anyone that doesnt wish this kid the best.
  87. Profile photo of Steelgrid
    Steelgrid Male 30-39
    2700 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 3:47 am
    "How can a seven year old have any sexual identity in any direction? They`re seven!"

    The same way a little girl starts thinking Boy bands are hot. Or when a little boy (Yes at 7) begins to blush when you tease him about girls.

    You can live in denial all you want, but kids this age DO HAVE A SEXUAL IDENTIFICATION. All you people out there saying theres no way......Kids do it all the time, right in front of you. Grow the f.uck up, open your eyes and stop living in blindness.
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    Steelgrid Male 30-39
    2700 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 3:50 am
    Alot of you people`s comments highlight EXACTLY my point a few days ago. You are so lulled into a false sense of security that you think kids cant be sexually active until they got hair on their nuts or bleeding. You are wrong.

    Just like anyone that doesnt think their kid has cussed, seen nudity, talked trash, or been disrespectful. If your child is in school, then these are the things they have done. Stop living like it doesnt happen.

    Once you people learn that your children are not angels, then maybe you will see that children are alot more mature than you like to lead on.

    Veils of ignorance - Most of you has them
  89. Profile photo of Steelgrid
    Steelgrid Male 30-39
    2700 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 3:57 am
    "how can he know that he`s gay at 7? or is he confused as to what gay means. like he might have a boy friend - that is a friend and nothing more than that. i would imagine that at that age, the thing in his pants is still used for putting out fires."

    I feel sad for anyone that has to say "I imagine at that age"

    7 years old is really not that hard to remember back to. You may not remember memories vividly, but you shouldnt be completely ignorant to your mindset back then.

    This is why people think their kids are perfect, because the "forgot" what it was like to be a kid.

    This truly is one of the worst traits to have as a parent, being completely oblivious to how a child thinks.
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    xCYBERDYNEx Male 18-29
    4903 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 4:13 am
    @ATL1EN, troll harder
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    britt566 Female 18-29
    2291 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 5:35 am
    i hope i`m not the first one to say this, but if the kid was having crushes on girls and sending them valentines, cricket sounds would fill the air.
  92. Profile photo of Cajun247
    Cajun247 Male 18-29
    10722 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 5:41 am
    So what you`re saying is that most people can legally act on their feelings but others can`t, right ?

    So long as said action does not violate others` liberty yes.
    Pedophile-violates
    Murderer-violates
    Homosexual-does not violate
    You missed the point.
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    LillianDulci Female 18-29
    2674 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 8:34 am
    "So what you`re saying is that most people can legally act on their feelings but others can`t, right ? "
    Yes. You can feel/think whatever you want, but you can`t always act on it. You can feel like murdering someone, but you can`t act on it because it harms someone. You can feel like molesting a child, but you can`t act on it because it harms someone.

    In your next post you discussed how womens rights, gay rights, and civil rights could "harm". Those don`t cause physical or mental harm to anyone, so it`s irrelevant. People were/are morons for using those arguments. It`s very clear how murder and child molestation cause harm and that`s not something that`s going to change (maybe the age of when a person becomes legal will change, but the fact that child molestation and rape harm someone will not change). I`m not into the thought police. You can only punish someone on actions not thoughts.
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    almightybob1 Male 18-29
    4290 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 10:53 am
    So what you`re saying is that most people can legally act on their feelings but others can`t, right ?
    I`ve explained this to you many times, CJ. The issue is of informed consent.

    A child cannot give informed consent to sex, and nor can an animal, because they lack the cognitive abilities. Which is why paedophilia and bestiality will not become acceptable after homosexuality does.

    Still playing devil`s advocate here, btw.
    Just this time, or does that include the other times we`ve also talked about this same issue and you`ve claimed homosexuality would lead to kiddy fiddling?
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    akabane Male 18-29
    1093 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 11:22 am
    at that age i didnt like girls either, but i never thought about being gay. let kids be kids.
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    EgalM Male 30-39
    1707 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 12:30 pm
    A seven year shouldn`t have made a choice about sex, period. Worse still is someone boasting about it.

    I feel bad for this generation, when I was growing up, I got to be a kid. No one was shoving their sexual agenda on me or my school mates and it was f`ing great.
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    slut_etta Female 50-59
    3774 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 2:57 pm
    i think its nice that she`s so supportive of her son. but he`s seven, and a hell of a lot of things can change between age seven and the age of consent. and really, how many seven year old boys like girls? so why the sexual agenda?

    i`ve never had kids of my own but i think that if you just be supportive and loving of them and give them the room to grow, they`ll probably turn into good and productive members of society.

    but, as i say, i`ve never had kids of my own so i really don`t know for sure. i can only hope to learn from the mistakes of my own parents.
  98. Profile photo of CrakrJak
    CrakrJak Male 40-49
    17515 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 3:31 pm
    almightybob: Is it just coincidence then that most of the `kiddy fiddling`, as you put it, is homosexual in nature ?

    Homosexuals sexually molest young boys with an incidence that is occurring five times greater than the molestation of girls.
    Link
  99. Profile photo of UncleKane
    UncleKane Male 18-29
    18 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 4:31 pm
    when i was 7 years old, i already knew that i was gay.
  100. Profile photo of Cajun247
    Cajun247 Male 18-29
    10722 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 4:33 pm
    Oh looky here CrakrJak cites DailyNutWorld an extremely biased site hellbent on proving BS ultracon conspiracy theories. There are also three things wrong with this article:
    1)Non-biased studies show 95%+ were victimized by someone they know.
    2)This article conflates Men who have Sex with Men with Homosexuals. The former do not identify as Gay or even Bisexual.
    3)Cum Hoc Ergo fallacy.
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    Cajun247 Male 18-29
    10722 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 4:42 pm
    Oooh more things wrong,
    1)Cites Dr Reismann who suggested that homosexuals secretly controlled the Nazi Party in Nazi Germany (even though it`s well known that they were in fact persecuted). LOLWUT?
    2)Blows several articles on homosexuality straight out of context.
  102. Profile photo of CrakrJak
    CrakrJak Male 40-49
    17515 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 5:25 pm
    Cajun: It`s no secret that several historical authors have theorized that both Goebbels and Hitler were either homosexuals or bisexuals.

    Men who have Sex with Men, are either homosexual or bisexual, whether they `identify` with it or not.

    That`s like a person with multiple DUIs, not identifying themselves as `Drunks`, it makes no sense.

    Also I`m not impressed with your misuse of Latin to say that one statistic has nothing to do with the other, when the relationship is obvious.
  103. Profile photo of DeanoBoz
    DeanoBoz Male 40-49
    195 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 8:33 pm
    2022: "Mom, I have a confession....I`m.....not.....gay." (shock and disappointment ensue)
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    bullswool Male 30-39
    47 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 9:56 pm
    Daddy must be proud
  105. Profile photo of Altaru
    Altaru Male 18-29
    3483 posts
    December 22, 2011 at 10:11 pm
    Is it just coincidence then that most of the `kiddy fiddling`, as you put it, is homosexual in nature ?
    You know, I can think of plenty of other factors that come into play in that situation...

    For starters, consider how much easier it is for a male adult to be alone with a male child then a female child.
  106. Profile photo of Cajun247
    Cajun247 Male 18-29
    10722 posts
    December 23, 2011 at 5:29 am
    It`s no secret that several historical authors have theorized that both Goebbels and Hitler were either homosexuals or bisexuals.

    None of which has been proven as fact and mentioning it regardless is akin to playing the racist card.

    As for MSM, most of them are in or are seeking a romantic relationship with women whereas all gay men are in or are seeking such a relationship with other men.

    Finally my alleged "misuse" of Latin. You seem to forget that correlation does not imply causation, considering everything else I`ve said and other statistics regarding child sexual abuse, my rebuttal still stands.
  107. Profile photo of Sistarose
    Sistarose Female 30-39
    373 posts
    December 23, 2011 at 1:09 pm
    Shhhhh, don`t kill his spirit, or the hurting will begin. (backs away slowly.)
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    sweatpeanis Female 18-29
    418 posts
    December 23, 2011 at 4:24 pm
    He is cute. But his mom sounds annoying.
  109. Profile photo of HerColdHands
    HerColdHands Female 18-29
    471 posts
    December 23, 2011 at 4:42 pm
    Well. I know I liked boys when I was seven.
  110. Profile photo of ryanwi
    ryanwi Male 30-39
    73 posts
    December 24, 2011 at 8:59 am
    Does she openly admit to being mentally disabled? Will her kid hurt me if I break her carefully crafted illusion?
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    5Cats Male 50-59
    31783 posts
    December 24, 2011 at 8:38 pm
    VV @Crakr! Georing really was gay (bi actually), Rhone was totally gay! How an otherwise intelligent guy could fall for the "Hitler was gay" schtick is beyond me.

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