Proud Mom`s Facebook Photo Of Her Gay Son [Pic]

Submitted by: SaintPatty 5 years ago in

Hey mom, we"re happy you"re proud of your gay son, but, um--HE"S 7 YEARS OLD! Does he need a sexual identity already?
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Male 41,116
VV @Crakr! Georing really was gay (bi actually), Rhone was totally gay! How an otherwise intelligent guy could fall for the "Hitler was gay" schtick is beyond me.
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Male 73
Does she openly admit to being mentally disabled? Will her kid hurt me if I break her carefully crafted illusion?
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Female 471
Well. I know I liked boys when I was seven.
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Female 418
He is cute. But his mom sounds annoying.
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Female 373
Shhhhh, don`t kill his spirit, or the hurting will begin. (backs away slowly.)
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Male 10,855
[quote] It`s no secret that several historical authors have theorized that both Goebbels and Hitler were either homosexuals or bisexuals.[/quote]

None of which has been proven as fact and mentioning it regardless is akin to playing the racist card.

As for MSM, most of them are in or are seeking a romantic relationship with women whereas all gay men are in or are seeking such a relationship with other men.

Finally my alleged "misuse" of Latin. You seem to forget that correlation does not imply causation, considering everything else I`ve said and other statistics regarding child sexual abuse, my rebuttal still stands.
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Male 3,482
[quote]Is it just coincidence then that most of the `kiddy fiddling`, as you put it, is homosexual in nature ? [/quote]
You know, I can think of plenty of other factors that come into play in that situation...

For starters, consider how much easier it is for a male adult to be alone with a male child then a female child.
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Male 47
Daddy must be proud
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Male 195
2022: "Mom, I have a confession....I`m.....not.....gay." (shock and disappointment ensue)
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Male 17,511
Cajun: It`s no secret that several historical authors have theorized that both Goebbels and Hitler were either homosexuals or bisexuals.

Men who have Sex with Men, are either homosexual or bisexual, whether they `identify` with it or not.

That`s like a person with multiple DUIs, not identifying themselves as `Drunks`, it makes no sense.

Also I`m not impressed with your misuse of Latin to say that one statistic has nothing to do with the other, when the relationship is obvious.
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Male 10,855
Oooh more things wrong,
1)Cites Dr Reismann who suggested that homosexuals secretly controlled the Nazi Party in Nazi Germany (even though it`s well known that they were in fact persecuted). LOLWUT?
2)Blows several articles on homosexuality straight out of context.
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Male 10,855
Oh looky here CrakrJak cites DailyNutWorld an extremely biased site hellbent on proving BS ultracon conspiracy theories. There are also three things wrong with this article:
1)Non-biased studies show 95%+ were victimized by someone they know.
2)This article conflates Men who have Sex with Men with Homosexuals. The former do not identify as Gay or even Bisexual.
3)Cum Hoc Ergo fallacy.
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Male 18
when i was 7 years old, i already knew that i was gay.
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Male 17,511
almightybob: Is it just coincidence then that most of the `kiddy fiddling`, as you put it, is homosexual in nature ?

Homosexuals sexually molest young boys with an incidence that is occurring five times greater than the molestation of girls.
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Female 4,084
i think its nice that she`s so supportive of her son. but he`s seven, and a hell of a lot of things can change between age seven and the age of consent. and really, how many seven year old boys like girls? so why the sexual agenda?

i`ve never had kids of my own but i think that if you just be supportive and loving of them and give them the room to grow, they`ll probably turn into good and productive members of society.

but, as i say, i`ve never had kids of my own so i really don`t know for sure. i can only hope to learn from the mistakes of my own parents.
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Male 1,735
A seven year shouldn`t have made a choice about sex, period. Worse still is someone boasting about it.

I feel bad for this generation, when I was growing up, I got to be a kid. No one was shoving their sexual agenda on me or my school mates and it was f`ing great.
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Male 1,093
at that age i didnt like girls either, but i never thought about being gay. let kids be kids.
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Male 4,290
[quote]So what you`re saying is that most people can legally act on their feelings but others can`t, right ?[/quote]
I`ve explained this to you many times, CJ. The issue is of informed consent.

A child cannot give informed consent to sex, and nor can an animal, because they lack the cognitive abilities. Which is why paedophilia and bestiality will not become acceptable after homosexuality does.

[quote]Still playing devil`s advocate here, btw.[/quote]
Just this time, or does that include the other times we`ve also talked about this same issue and you`ve claimed homosexuality would lead to kiddy fiddling?
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Female 2,674
"So what you`re saying is that most people can legally act on their feelings but others can`t, right ? "
Yes. You can feel/think whatever you want, but you can`t always act on it. You can feel like murdering someone, but you can`t act on it because it harms someone. You can feel like molesting a child, but you can`t act on it because it harms someone.

In your next post you discussed how womens rights, gay rights, and civil rights could "harm". Those don`t cause physical or mental harm to anyone, so it`s irrelevant. People were/are morons for using those arguments. It`s very clear how murder and child molestation cause harm and that`s not something that`s going to change (maybe the age of when a person becomes legal will change, but the fact that child molestation and rape harm someone will not change). I`m not into the thought police. You can only punish someone on actions not thoughts.
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Male 10,855
[quote]So what you`re saying is that most people can legally act on their feelings but others can`t, right ?[/quote]

So long as said action does not violate others` liberty yes.
Pedophile-violates
Murderer-violates
Homosexual-does not violate
You missed the point.
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Female 2,289
i hope i`m not the first one to say this, but if the kid was having crushes on girls and sending them valentines, cricket sounds would fill the air.
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Male 4,902
@ATL1EN, troll harder
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Male 2,700
"how can he know that he`s gay at 7? or is he confused as to what gay means. like he might have a boy friend - that is a friend and nothing more than that. i would imagine that at that age, the thing in his pants is still used for putting out fires."

I feel sad for anyone that has to say "I imagine at that age"

7 years old is really not that hard to remember back to. You may not remember memories vividly, but you shouldnt be completely ignorant to your mindset back then.

This is why people think their kids are perfect, because the "forgot" what it was like to be a kid.

This truly is one of the worst traits to have as a parent, being completely oblivious to how a child thinks.
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Male 2,700
Alot of you people`s comments highlight EXACTLY my point a few days ago. You are so lulled into a false sense of security that you think kids cant be sexually active until they got hair on their nuts or bleeding. You are wrong.

Just like anyone that doesnt think their kid has cussed, seen nudity, talked trash, or been disrespectful. If your child is in school, then these are the things they have done. Stop living like it doesnt happen.

Once you people learn that your children are not angels, then maybe you will see that children are alot more mature than you like to lead on.

Veils of ignorance - Most of you has them
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Male 2,700
"How can a seven year old have any sexual identity in any direction? They`re seven!"

The same way a little girl starts thinking Boy bands are hot. Or when a little boy (Yes at 7) begins to blush when you tease him about girls.

You can live in denial all you want, but kids this age DO HAVE A SEXUAL IDENTIFICATION. All you people out there saying theres no way......Kids do it all the time, right in front of you. Grow the f.uck up, open your eyes and stop living in blindness.
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Male 2,700
Good for the kid for understanding what his body is feeling and having the state of mind ot express it.

Good for the parents for being supportive and not ostracizing him on his feelings.

Shame, death, pestilence, and divorce I wish upon anyone that doesnt wish this kid the best.
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Male 222
Wow. Who cares. It`s all the same.
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Male 1
I created an account just so that I could specifically comment on the other comments here. I knew I was gay at a young age, and I know I`m not alone in that. Its not just about sex, thats just happenstance of being gay. the term in the closet is used to denote hiding your identity, which most LGBT people have done because even at a young age we can recognise that we will be persecuted for being different. as society progresses and more barriers are broken down, and most things are now generally accepted - its incredible this kid has the guts to identify (come out) and its great that his mother supports him
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Male 17,511
LillianDulci: And before you say the difference is that, "those don`t harm anyone", let`s review some history.

Woman`s rights were denied because people perceived the harm was the break-up of the family and higher divorce rate (which happened).

Civil rights was denied because people perceived the harm was that illiterate people would be able to vote.

Gay rights was denied because people perceived the harm was that gayness would be normalized and that they`d adopt children and indoctrinate them into their own gayness.

Which brings us right back to the topic of this post.
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Male 17,511
LillianDulci: [quote]You don`t fault them for their feelings, it`s acting on them that`s a problem..[/quote]

So what you`re saying is that most people can legally act on their feelings but others can`t, right ?

You do know this same argument was once made against homosexuals, racial minorities, religious minorities, and women like yourself, right ?

Still playing devil`s advocate here, btw.
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Male 5
"Is my biggest achievement" Great mum. 7 yea old who`s not gone through puberty so has no attraction to ether gender being brain washed to think that`s he`s gay. thus prob having the poo kicked out of him in school, growing up with that. Plus when he comes back from school and someone`s challenged him on it "ill hurt anyone who challenged his spirit". Glad YOUR proud.
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Male 102
lil gaymo
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Male 663
How can a seven year old have any sexual identity in any direction? They`re seven! They`re not even at puberty age, so they`re very unlikely to have a sexual interest in anyone of any gender!

He does look gay though :/ I think his mother probably wants him to go down that road, makes him watch lots of Gok Wan etc.
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Male 40,247

I`m really starting to like Bacon Pie`s posts.
You have a pervers and twisted view of the world that
is sexually magenetic while also very repulstive.

Well done.
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Female 2,674
@CrakrJak - Pretty much what Altaru said. You don`t fault them for their feelings, it`s acting on them that`s a problem because it actually harms someone. If a pedo gets off from looking at cartoons of underage girls/boys then I really don`t care, there`s not really a difference between a cartoon of a kid and a cartoon of an adult and no one`s harmed. But if it involves an actual child, that`s where the problem is.
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Male 1,803
He looks like a mini justin bieber crossed with Austin Powers.
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Female 6,381
I don`t remember boys expressing the slightest interest in girls until around grade 7 when I was a kid. Up `til then, boys thought girls were icky and vice versa. Kids are probably a little more precocious today, but seven seems a bit young to be planning your sexual future.
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Male 3,482
[quote]And if it is determined at birth, then how could anyone fault a pedophile for their proclivities ?[/quote]
You don`t fault them for HAVING the feelings, you fault them for ACTING on the feelings.

There`s a huge difference. I feel like killing people sometimes, but I don`t actually go out and decapitate anyone, now do I?

So can you fault me for the violent thoughts I have, considering I`ve never killed anyone?

Oh, wait, you`re a Christian. You fault me for existing. Never mind, I`m sorry for asking.
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Male 17,511
LillianDulci: There is not just `one anomaly` among the world`s population, there are people that choose to like both sexes, there are people that make a choice and then want to change back.

My point is, people don`t fit into either Box A or Box B from birth. When it comes to sexuality, there is way to much variety in those choices for it to all be determined from birth.

And if it is determined at birth, then how could anyone fault a pedophile for their proclivities ?

I`m not making excuses for pedos, just expressing one of their own arguments for their perversity.
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Female 2,674
@CrakrJak - One anomaly against the majority. I`ve seen people say that they chose to be straight and I most definitely did not.
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Male 17,511
TKD_Master: I knew that I liked girls the first moment a girl, my age, kissed me. I don`t remember exactly if I was 8 or 9.

Much later I had a friend that made his choice after his girlfriend faked a pregnancy, saying he was the father, when he found out it was fake he went gay, he was 18 years old. That shocked the hell out the whole school because he was thought of as the `ladies man`.

When asked by a common friend, he said he wasn`t `born` gay and didn`t even think he was gay until he started having sex with girls.
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Male 15,510
What a fabulous look
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Male 177
Does any 7-year-old like girls?
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Male 559
Heh...

Just because you think girls are icky when you are 7 years old doesn`t mean you are gay.
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Male 2,033
My son is straight, but he likes to use up girls and then give them to his father.

I mean, I don`t have a son yet, but he is busy working on that sexual identity now, just in case.
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Male 197
I`m confused....he`s seven.
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Male 41,116
@mykunter: You`re a funny guy! lolz! Thanks for that!

@Satkella, @TheOrigin & @OldOllie: I think you`re all on to something here.

@JJXanadu: Stop that! You made me snort beer out my nose!
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Male 516
Awww, she`s cute...
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Female 584
@wmf1489: It is perfectly normal for a mother to want to protect her child from harassment, what makes her look bad is that she`s claiming that her son is gay at 7 years old when in reality at that age children usually don`t have a sexual preference at all because relations and relationships are the last things on their minds.
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Male 2,436
Uh... Huh? When I was 7 years old I thought girls were yucky. Things changed. But anyhow, I`d bet money that kid is going to be a butt pirate.

And Jeeesus, mom! What`s with those glasses? Are you trying to get his ass kicked?
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Female 584
"I Knew I liked dick in and or around my mouth by the time i was 6, so its completely possible that this kid knows as well."

Somebody messed with you when you were a child didn`t they?

@DixxyrRarr: wmf1489 is a perfect example of why I made the staement that I did earlier.
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Male 530
Well last i heard Amsterdam isn`t as gay friendly as it used to be. I hope mom has been following a martial-arts course the last seven years or else the Dutch multi-cutural society may crush this self confident spirit before he meets a soul-mate.
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Male 335
lemaxwell - 7 is plenty old to have a sexual identity....and what does that have to do with loss of childhood?

But I agree that the parents should not post about it on facebook.
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Male 15,832
I smell a troll...
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Male 500
Flaunting the sexuality of a 7 year old kid is what I`d deem as a parenting fail. Not because of the kid, the fail is on the side of the parent. They are trying to flaunt something, the kid has no idea of.

And if that kid does have a grasp of sex and sexuality at such an early age, then I pity him for a rather early loss of childhood.
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Female 39
children at that age ABSOLUTELY know what they are. if you ask any gay person, he/she will tell you, "i just sort of always knew." additionally, i recently got my masters in elementary education and there is specific training involved in handling children coping with confusing sexual identities.
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Male 340
The kid obviously is not older enough to fully comprehend his sexuality. The mother shouldn`t promote it.
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Male 1,610
I was having sexual feelings when I was 5 years old. I think when I was 6 they went dormant till puberty but for that year I wanted to have sex and tried very hard to figure out what sex was.
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Female 2,674
"I didn`t feel a thing for girls until 12 at the least."

You didn`t feel a thing for girls until 12, but I had numerous crushes even before I entered school and I remember pretty much all of them xD. When I was 3 I had a crush on our neighbor`s son who was my older brother`s age. When I was 4-5 I had a crush on another neighbor`s son who was also my classmate. When I was 6 I had a crush on this kid named Ian who every girl in my class had a crush on. When I was 7 I had a crush on this kid who lived down the street, as well as one on my brother`s friend. Repeat this for pretty much every age until I actually started dating. You might not have liked a girl until 12 but not everyone`s the same. It was no question to me that I`m straight even early on.
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Male 45
Woah, now she`s mentally imbalanaced?

If protecting your son from potential harassment and negativity from bigots, and letting your kid be who he wants to be is "mentally imbalanced", then I don`t know If I want a "sane" parent...
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Male 45
I Knew I liked dick in and or around my mouth by the time i was 6, so its completely possible that this kid knows as well.

It typically grinds my gears when parents use their kids to make political statements, but this is different for me. I think it is incredible that this kid has a proud parent to go home to that will let him grow up to be a very confident respectable young guy. If you aren`t gay, you have no idea how difficult it is to find yourself and be yourself in a world where you feel like you don`t belong.

Good good post IAB
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Male 195
To all the I-A-Bers who question this photo: You are just ASKING to get hurt by a mentally imbalanced mother.
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Male 10,440
[quote] I agree that people choose a sexual identity, when that happens can vary greatly, but it`s a choice none-the-less. [/quote]
When did you choose to be strait? See what I did there.

This is too easy.
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Male 10,440
I don`t get how you can know at 7. Seems too young.

... but half the comments here are this, except more pompous and self-sure.

I didn`t feel a thing for girls until 12 at the least.
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Male 3,894
I`d say wait until puberty before you start making statements like this.
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Male 3,425
One thing I can not stand is parents who use their children as a tool to whore attention. I don`t know whether this kid is gay or not, I think puberty is really the time you start questioning your sexuality, but maybe you can know this early. What annoys me is that his mother has clearly shaped him to her own desires, she`s using him as a statement. The glasses and hair, sorry but no 7 year old dresses like that - she`s turning him into a gay stereotype which isn`t good for anyone. What worries me is that when this kid starts going through puberty and questioning his sexuality, which he will, if he decides that he`s straight his mum will reject him because he`s not the gay son she can flaunt. I think the fact that she went to the effort to write this on a photo of him and upload it to the internet says that.
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Female 240
I new by the time I was.. I`d say about 4, that I liked boys. By 7, I DEFINITELY knew, seeing as how I`d had many crushes on boys and never thought about having one on a girl, even though I was aware of the idea of homosexuality. It is definitely possible for this boy at the age of 7 to know he is gay.
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Male 464
In my home town, there was a guy a few years ago who, between year 4 and 5 of school, changed school and stopped being called (name) and became (namena). Wore girls clothes. Just wasnt right.
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Male 4,793
"I agree that people choose a sexual identity, when that happens can vary greatly, but it`s a choice none-the-less."

Oh... well when did you choose to be gay/straight? Do you remember thiking `I think i`m going to be straight.`? No? Then STFU.
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Male 414
cool story
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Male 526
how can he know that he`s gay at 7? or is he confused as to what gay means. like he might have a boy friend - that is a friend and nothing more than that. i would imagine that at that age, the thing in his pants is still used for putting out fires.
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Female 74
Cute little boy. Good for him. I had my first crush in kindergarten when I was 5 years old. Sexuality was never a question. I didn`t "know" I was straight, it just happened. I didn`t come home one day, tell my mom I liked a boy, and she said, "Oh, so you`re straight?" It never required conversation until sex became an option.

I don`t see why it should be any different for gay children.
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Male 474
The terrible thing would be if this kid has zero idea his picture was being used for this and the statement is not even true. Who can tell what is real and what is not anymore? People just post random crap with political agendas and the masses just sop it up as if it true.
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Male 10,855
[quote]I agree that people choose a sexual identity, when that happens can vary greatly, but it`s a choice none-the-less.[/quote]

Like you said two opinions can`t be true, and there serious doubts about this theory.
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Male 1,239
He appears to be a hipster too. Bad parenting much? (not saying that being gay is a reflection of bad parenting but that a 7 year old feeling the need to decide if he is or not)
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Male 17,511
Interesting everyone saying he doesn`t have a sexual identity yet, but homosexuals claim to be `born gay`.

The two opinions can`t both be true. I agree that people choose a sexual identity, when that happens can vary greatly, but it`s a choice none-the-less.
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Male 40,247

[quote]"Can`t tell if gay or straight until puberty. That mom is crazy." [/quote]
Wrong. You don`t understand it until puberty, but I had a crush on my 4th grade teache, Mr. Robles. You`re born that way, end of story.

And yes, the mom is crazy. So what if he`s gay or straight. Why put up a big announcement?
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Male 1,449
Another idiot parent.
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Male 207
Can`t tell if gay or straight until puberty. That mom is crazy.
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Female 2,769
I agree with the caption... he doesn`t need a SEXUAL identity at 7. It`s not the same thing as saying "I`m a boy but I feel like a girl"... we are talking about SEXUAL identities here...
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Male 266
You can`t be gay at 7. You can`t be straight at 7 either, you have no sexual attraction.
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Male 3,060

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Female 2,674
Satkela: Why in the world would you assume he`s having sex?
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Female 584
So he`s having sex with other boys at 7?
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Male 145
rachel maddow really hasn`t changed much over the years.
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Female 169
This isnt a facebook picture, it`s from the Postsecret app. Jesus christ, IAB, get your facts straight
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Male 678
"SEVEN YEAR OLDS ARE LIKE KITTENS THEY CAN`T UNDERSTAND SEXUAL IDENTITY!" -70% of the IAB comments section
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Male 2,332
At age 7 you don`t know poo except what your parents taught you.
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Male 622
people are gay. its a disability, like being retarted. they shouldnt call them gay. they should call them retarted aswell
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Male 361
Sure looks gay.
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Male 41,116
A 7 year old with a fixed sexual identity? YEah right! This Mom is full of shiite and her child is in dire need of help (to protect him from her!).
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Male 57
Everyone is different and some people know at a very young age others don`t. I dont know why everyone assumes what they experienced in life is the same thing everyone else does. I personally knew at a very young age I was gay. Also we have all seen kids that we know are gay sometimes you cant hide it sometimes you just glitter your way down the school hallways everyone just knows.
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Male 133
Meh whatever.
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Male 3,343
I`ve heard it said that your sexual identity is fixed by the time you`re five years old, so knowing it by 7 wouldn`t be strange. My son had a huge crush on Rachel Ray when he was about that age, so it makes sense to me that this little boy could know he likes boys.
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Female 2,674
I knew I liked guys when I was 4, and definitely knew when I was 7. Why is it so hard to imagine that a 7 year old can know they`re gay?
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Male 355
@FemBot - Thumbs up for you..
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Female 3,726
Wednesday, December 21, 2011 10:00:34 AM
How the hell does he know whether he wants meatstick or fishtaco when he`s 7...?
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The same way you know you like girls....
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Female 1,566
"My guess is that he`s identifying with the social group of homosexuality."

My guess is the seven year old has no drating clue. He probably came home from a playdate one day and told his mom he liked boys (aka his friends) and she told him he was gay. I`m positive his mom didn`t sit him down and go "that means you love other men and you want to get rammed up the ass, son". He`s going to figure it out one day and he`s not going to be happy.
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Female 2,674
Mom is an idiot. But kids are treated as `straight until proven gay`... so what`s wrong with the opposite?? I liked girls/women since I was 3 or 4, and when I realized I liked boys too (at like 12 or so) I was surprised.

Bottom line: I don`t think there`s anything wrong with knowing and talking about your sexual orientation at a young age... but posting on fb and being an attention whore about it is just annoying.
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Male 3,477
I hope he finds inner peace or at least becomes a pop star.
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Male 490
My guess is that he`s identifying with the social group of homosexuality.

Not sure if he`s "truly" homosexual, or if he`s just identifying with the group as part of his social identity.

He`s a kid. They`re quick to form identities.
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Female 1,566
This kid is gonna be so effing confused now. His whole childhood his mother told him he was gay and that`s okay, three years later he`ll be getting boners over girls and wondering what the eff is up.
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Male 41
Moms are so internet tough.
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Male 1,582
/facepalm
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Male 1,284
i believe its more about being an attention whore then being gay. The same goes for his mom
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Male 2,737
I remember when being gay wasn`t cool.
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Female 262
Personally,I think that it`s a little to early to taking the kid too seriously, but psychologists believe that most kids establish their sexual identity early in childhood. For example children ogling bewbs, kids having a crush on their schoolteacher, etc. Most people have issues with accepting it since children + sexual nature = absolutely disgusting, but unfortunately it`s something that we have to acknowledge as a fact.
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Male 2,389
and yet he still doesn`t know which is his favorite PokeMon.
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Male 29
How the hell does he know whether he wants meatstick or fishtaco when he`s 7...?
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Male 8
Mom is a drating idiot...
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Male 970
Link: Proud Mom`s Facebook Photo Of Her Gay Son [Pic] [Rate Link] - Hey mom, we`re happy you`re proud of your gay son, but, um--HE`S 7 YEARS OLD! Does he need a sexual identity already?
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