Steeler`s Roethlisberger`s Accuser On Tape

Submitted by: madest 7 years ago in Sports

No charges were filed. Is releasing this tape fair? What do you think, I-A-B?
There are 53 comments:
Male 415
she sounds sorta convincing.. then again she repeats herself
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Male 776
"Or maybe they could not rape women. That usually works best."

or maybe women should all abstain from drinking,all clubs should be shut down, the consent forms that were mentioned earlier should be made mandatory and all rich guys should not be allowed to have sex because a one night stand to them is a bank vault opening to others

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Male 282
"Like, you can tell I`m lying by like, how many times I use the word like. Like, my fidgety body language like totally gives me away?"

whore FAIL!
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Male 1,610
Earl_Grey: Did I say that fantasizing about being raped makes it OK for a man to rape a woman? No, I specifically said in my comment that I did NOT THINK THAT. All I said was it makes the matter fuzzier than some people want it to be. You are right that giving consent for the fantasy won`t kill it. However, the more she explains, the less of a fantasy it becomes, and men are aware of the fantasy exists in the minds of a lot of women doesn`t help.

Paganmomblog: "If a woman stands in a room of men and says she wants to have sex she sure as hell will get laid by someone."

Women don`t do this because they want to be chased, have a guy read her signals, and make a move without hearing the girl give approval. Marriage changes the rules completely, but when you`re dating, you`re not already intimately familiar with the man and want him to be a man and take action. Again, I am NOT saying this makes it OK for men to rape women.
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Female 48
"Women want a man who doesn`t need consent"

I call bullpoo. I do not want a man who doesn`t need consent. I want a man who respects me and my body and doesn`t feel he can take it just because I am there.

"If she has to tell him that she wants to have sex, then they`re not going to be having sex." I call bullpoo on this one too. If a woman stands in a room of men and says she wants to have sex she sure as hell will get laid by someone. I have told my husband before that I have been in the mood and he sure as poo has made himself available to me, not once in 15 yrs has he turned me away. And if he makes a move and I am not in the mood, we don`t have sex.
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Female 131
make it okay for rapists to rape (men or women).
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Female 131
@Brassbull just because someone fantasizes about being raped does not mean that it`s okay for someone to actually rape them. usually when someone has that type of fantasy they would have to talk about how the scene would be set up and what to do during the scene. that would be the consent for that particular scene. because they`ve discussed it doesn`t mean that the partner has permission to do it from now on whenever they like. it`s just for that scene.
just because a portion of women fantasize about being mock-raped does NOT
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Male 95
Yes, her description was probably pretty much exactly how it went down; omitted, however, is how he got past her clothing. Without violence or the threat of violence, how did he get her legs apart and get past her clothing? Also missing is what she was doing with her hands; was she using them to push him away? Doubtful. Like, something just isn`t, like, jiving, like, here.
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Male 1,610
[quote]if theres no consent guys, its rape. she says no, she means no...[/quote]

It`s not that black and white. Women want a man who doesn`t need consent. If she has to tell him that she wants to have sex, then they`re not going to be having sex.

To make matters more complicated, a huge number of women I`ve spoken to about sexual desires say they fantasize about being raped (by someone they`re attracted to and trust of course), and this is a paradox because again, if the woman has to give verbal consent, the fantasy dies and no one gets laid. When you give that much responsibility to anyone, there are going to be instances where they abuse it or misinterpret signals. I`m not suggesting this should vindicate any rapist, but the issue is much more gray than you would like it to be.
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Male 976
Mynamecandi definitely wins at life! Nice one! ;D
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Male 776
"Or maybe they could not rape women. That usually works best."

or maybe women should all abstain from drinking,all clubs should be shut down, the consent forms that were mentioned earlier should be made mandatory and all rich guys should not be allowed to have sex because a one night stand to them is a bank vault opening to others

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Male 1,505
"If lame poo like this is all it takes to be accused of rape, single guys need to start carrying consensual sex agreement documents for chicks to sign before they even go into a room alone with them."

"Or maybe they could not rape women. That usually works best."

Yeah, and maybe they could assume that women never lie. Go ask the 2006 Duke lacrosse team how that worked out for them.

Try listening to *both* sides and weighing evidence instead of automatically reaching for the torches and pitchforks.
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Male 955
Like, like, im going to tell you how it was like, weird, for like a minute, so like, when I figure out, like, what I`m like, going to make up, you`ll like, believe me. Like
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Male 357
What`s the point of going clubbing if you aren`t going to be getting it on with some random person? Isn`t that what it`s all about? Dressing up like a slut and hooking up with some dude? If this isn`t the reason why women go clubbing, please tell me what is.

Anyway, she should be happy it was a famous football player for once and not just a regular old Axe-soaked d-bag like she`s used to.
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Female 209
And Like, Then Like, So Like, Ok Like, But Like, He Like, No Like. Maybe she Liked it aaaahhahahahahaha
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Female 248
"If lame poo like this is all it takes to be accused of rape, single guys need to start carrying consensual sex agreement documents for chicks to sign before they even go into a room alone with them."

Or maybe they could not rape women. That usually works best.
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Male 6,693
Its gonna be all good. Im sure it will all work out.
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Female 3,001
okay she did not consent, so stop blaming the freaking victim!!! and she doesnt sound upset because many victims make it matter of fact to deal with it, if they included the emotions they feelt at the time they would probably break down. anyone who is judging the victim here is a complete f*cktard. so angry at people who dont understand rape, if theres no consent guys, its rape. she says no, she means no...

and many people say that girls cry rape when they havent been, when infact the % of rape that the police say have been falsified is exactly the same % as any other crime! its also the only crime where we seem to feel that its the victims fault, we put blame and shame on the victim and often accuse them of lying. its awful, rape is an awful thing to have happen to u and its so often not reported because the victims are afraid of the judgment they will reciece.


eugh. rant over.
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Male 229
Wow, lots of blaming the victim happening in here.
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Male 798
She sounds like she`s coming up with the story as she goes along.

I call shenanigans.
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Male 76
I was like, and he was like, but I was like, but he like..... *head explodes*

wtf is up with people??? ^^^^^ true
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Male 1,505
If lame poo like this is all it takes to be accused of rape, single guys need to start carrying consensual sex agreement documents for chicks to sign before they even go into a room alone with them.
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Male 69
She doesn`t even remotely sound or act upset. Sounds like she is making it up. I think it is a ploy to get money.
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Female 547
I was like, and he was like, but I was like, but he like..... *head explodes*
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Male 126
are we sure she wasnt at an adult entertainment establishment and he just thought she was the entertainment?
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Male 14
Is she wearing a Steelers shirt?
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Female 467
she shouldve just bit his rooster off
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Female 229
"This isn`t okay because I asked for cash and he only had his credit card on him..."
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Male 1,610
One more thing: It is not always clear how determined a man is to rape a woman. Not that I believe this meathead, but he says he fell too deep into some "character" he was playing. Had she turned into a raging, cracked-out tomcat, his will to carry through with it might have evaporated. She`ll never know because she didn`t stick up for herself. I`m not saying she deserved it, but she didn`t do a GD thing to prevent it.
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Male 497
Count how many times she said like
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Male 1,610
bmh - Her friends were outside the door, they would have heard her screaming and gone for help. Being a roided up freak he most definitely would have hit her, but I still think she should have fought with everything she had. F*ck that douche!

Since there are always going to be men out there looking to rape women, you should learn how to hurt them in ways that will make them always remember you.
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Female 248
Brassbull: Do you really think that her changing what she was saying would have done anything? Or maybe you think its better to get the sh*t beaten out of you and raped instead of just getting raped?

How about a different way to prevent rape? You know, not f*cking raping people?
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Male 1,610
I couldn`t help but laugh at the end.

Girl - "Uhhmmm, like, I`m not really happy with what just happened here."

Bouncer - "Yeah you are."
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Male 3,819
[quote]Ladies, this is the WRONG way to react to rape. Try replacing the phrase "we shouldn`t be doing this" with "NOOOOOO, Get the drat OFF ME! RAPE!!!!!"[/quote]

That right there probably sums up everything that transpired that night. Saying "we shouldn`t be doing this" either says "WE", meaning she was doing it too and she didn`t wanna get caught or that she was at least implying that to him. She also was wearing a name tag that night that said "down to f*ck". Right then.
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Male 3,819
And on the topic of guilt, I wasn`t able to bear watching the video of her accuser but I tend to believe she`s embellishing a little bit. He`s a dick to women (this has been common knowledge around the `Burgh for years before this ever happened), but I also realize people are money hungry and women overreact a lot when they`re drunk. Not saying he`s innocent, he probably did something illegal that night but I doubt it`s anywhere near as bad as it`s made out to be.
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Male 3,819
He just sat down for a couple local Pittsburgh news stations. First he`s done since this all happened.

If you`re interested -- http://bit.ly/9OGLVV

The Sally Wiggin one is much shorter than the Pompeani (Wiggin`s is 7 minutes and Pompeani`s is 22 minutes), but they`re both interesting (if you`re actually interested in this case). I personally am buying his remorse after watching them. Yeah, I`m biased Steelers fan but I haven`t exactly believed he`s regretted anything. My opinion`s changed. Let`s give the guy a second chance.
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Male 76
I don`t know if it was fair to release the tape but after hearing it I wouldn`t be surprised if she was telling the truth.
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Male 296
* Roethlisberger
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Male 7,378
Ben Rothlisberger is a douche, I believe her but releasing the tape is wrong. We`re supposed to be innocent until proven guilty. This is like innocent with a knife in your back.
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Male 418
the more times she F---ING says "LIKE" , the less true it becomes. period
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Male 774
Not to imply it wasn`t forced, I want to imply that, makes it that much more funny.
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Male 774
I bet what really happened was his junk was so small she laughed him out of the bathroom.
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Male 1,610
Ladies, this is the WRONG way to react to rape. Try replacing the phrase "we shouldn`t be doing this" with "NOOOOOO, Get the drat OFF ME! RAPE!!!!!" If that doesn`t work, grab their throat just below the jaw and squeeze as hard as you can. Also, don`t go into backrooms with massive, roided-up ahtletes. That is all.
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Male 2,344
by the way Rothlisberger is the quarterback for the Steelers.
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Male 88
who the hell is rothlisberger?
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Male 2,344
i like, like like like like like like like like...um like like...for chit sake why the hell do tweens say LIKE all the damn time???

look, I`m not belittling what nearly happened to her at all but for fk sake can we learn to use another word beside "like" all the damn time??

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Male 15,510
Fail link of the day
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Male 41
like like like like like then i was like like wut?
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Male 4,807
Not to mention this is one hell of a boring link.
Now I`m Bored.
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Male 4,807
Who is it and who really cares?
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Female 4,039
Who`s Rothlisberger?
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Male 2,552
Am I supposed to know what the hell this is?
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Male 7,378
Link: Steeler`s Roethlisberger`s Accuser On Tape [Rate Link] - No charges were filed. Is releasing this tape fair? What do you think, I-A-B?
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