What Happened When This Teen Auctioned Virginity?

Submitted by: fancylad 8 years ago in
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1180858/I-attracted-I-enjoyed-Teen-auctioned-virginity-8-800-reveals-details-time.html

A UK teenager who sold her virginity online for £8,800 ($14K) reveals the details of her tryst with the lucky bidder.
There are 115 comments:
Male 2,552
It`s funny, sex is beautiful and incredibly valuable, but as soon as you put a price on it, no matter how high, the sex is cheap.

No, this is not sarcasm, merely an observation.

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Male 593
YUCK!
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Male 46
Am I the only one who thinks she would have at the bare minimum doubled that had she recorded and sold the "encounter"
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Female 36
how is that possibly not illegal?
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Male 3,431
I agree with Converse UK.

Putting a price on sex cheapens the act and makes it a commodity. This one incident may well become the defining facet of her life. I don`t feel this way because of anger or shame, but for pity and loss.

When my wife and I consummated our vows we didn`t require a medical certificate or an exchange of currency of any kind, it wasn`t a negotiation. It was something I still believe to be sanctified and it`s a memory I will carry with me forever to be remembered for what it was.

A statement of something far more valuable than anything printed or purchased. Something given freely, a transcendental experience that cannot be quantified in chemical equations.

Those that fail to see it for what it is, I am sorry you have missed the opportunity to be part of something that defies explanation. If your life exists and revolves around some simple carnal motivation you are no more than the sum of your parts.

I choose to believe I am more.

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Female 35
That was a good idea... and good that she got someone who respected her and treated her right.

Morning after pill, though? Seriously? lol

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Male 906
wowww. her mother must be proud
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Female 68
She`s Romanian, she`s not from the UK
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Female 115
Meh, prostitutes.
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Male 2,591
prostitution. any way you try to look at it, she turned a trick.
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Male 123
Isnt that prostitution? And unprotected sex at that? Im WOWED!!!
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Male 14
i would have did a straightforward exchange with her.
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Male 182
I would have paid 8,900.
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Female 3,726
See what you did Fancylad?? You couldn`t just stick with your pictures...no, you had to start all this drama in here...Good Job! ;-)

From this moment on...everyone is in a time-out. Go to your rooms and think about what you posted on here.

(lol)

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Male 3,369
tenty
Male, 18-29, Europe
142 Posts
[ Delete Post ] Thursday, May 21, 2009 8:03:46 AM
Not to be mean, but she isn`t exactly stunningly beautiful... that bloke could`ve gotten something better for his money. Possibly a 360 with guitar hero on a wide screen tv and beanbag.
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Thats an expensive way to play with yourself!

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Male 425
Not to be mean, but she isn`t exactly stunningly beautiful... that bloke could`ve gotten something better for his money. Possibly a 360 with guitar hero on a wide screen tv and beanbag.
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Female 5,139
Ive always had the opinion that, any girl, especially this happens with girls, who hate on other girls for selling sex, or..strippers stuff like that
are just very insecure people who feel like its a threat, their man may pop into that strip club one day, say what you like about my opinions, i invite you, but dont hate on a girl who is trying to make a better life for herself in the future by making a decision like this, cos i find that rather pathetic on your part.
thats all i have to say.
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Female 5,139
Wow bored2run...
you sure like to butt in on other girls decisions, ive been reading everything you have said, you dont even know this girl..
judge yourself.
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Female 5,139
I say good on her, i wish i still had my virginity, but i wouldnt sell it, thats not for me.
Anything like this, i always say the same thing "its up to her/him, its their decision"
i couldnt do it, but if she can, good luck for her. I hope she does well in uni.
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Male 164
Dear Bored2Run. Ok we gather you feel strongly about this girl. No need to constantly elaborate. To be honest we (complete strangers whom you will never meet) really don`t care about your opinions on 18 year old girls who are so god damn desperate desperate to get some that they have to actually auction their cherry on an internet webpage.
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Male 3,369
Bored2Run:

I`m sorry but you are talking total and utter bollocks quite frankly!
First and foremost you are instilling your personal values onto someone else! What is right for you, isnt right for everyone else, and whats more you, really must have rose tinted glasses on because this fairy tale world you keep harping on about dosnt exist for most people!

She was in debt, she saw an easy way to get out of it. there was no knight in shining armour to save her, nor could she earn that sort of money quickly enough to pay her debts!

To even belive someone has the right to interject with any decision she makes about her own body makes me pity you even more! Do you think anyone was gonna cough up the cash she needed?

No one`s asking you to do the same thing she choose to do!

She isnt a girl, she isnt a kid, so stop treating her as such and stop thinking everyone should and must abide by your moral code!

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Male 369
i wish i did that €10,000 is heaps!
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Male 137
big f`ng deal. This isn`t a result of some sort of decay of modern society`s values. Women have been selling sex ever since men have had easily-exploited hormones.
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Male 525
Isn`t this basicly prostitution?
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Female 3,726
Everybody, let`s stop bickering! She`s a whore and he`s a desperate, pathetic loser; case closed! NEXT! Fancylad, any more pictures?
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Male 170
@ BORED2RUN:
@ Baelzar:
Your both mis-conducting this sociological gluttony. Feel the burn of my misplaced big words!
Oh -
that`s right. Happy can do it too.
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Female 447
I just think it is sad that anyone would have to do that. I can`t judge her because it is not my right to. It is probably hard for women to get ahead in her part of the world. From what I read she is comfortable with it now, but in the future it will most likely come back to haunt her.
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Male 1,399
Good luck, you two. You are the puritans I`m talking about.
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Female 267
*High-fives AnwarNova*
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Male 2,076
Baelzar is hilarious and still in his 30s. Give that man a badge.

But seriously folks, the man makes a fool of himself without any help.

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Male 1,718
Umm can anyone link me. Its not working from IAB
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Female 267
Baelzar, this isn`t about how old I am. Keep on topic. I`m old enough to know that at 13 a girl is in puberty and at 18 she can vote. I also know that at 5 she`s seeing Mommy with Daddy, Mommy with boyfriend, Daddy with girlfriend, women with women and men with men. WTH?? So what? No matter the age, no matter the sexual orientation, the values taught and the values learned are how all of us will conduct ourselves. yeah, some of us will screw up and make mistakes, we learn from them, but for this girl, -and YES she`s INDEED STILL A GIRL- to sell herself off and not have anyone to interject, or have taught her by example and repitition the values of those more intimate in nature, is a sad, sad thing. We all have our wild sides, I`ve had mine, I also have been fortunate to have had the principles and boundries instilled throughout my life that`ve taught me well.I`m glad I listened.Not all of it, but that`s why I know the bitter taste of regret and can say what I do by experience.
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Female 267
Anyone here condoning this girls actions and patting her on the back for profitting personally for sexual favors by exploiting her innocence and virginity is precisely why there is a decay in values intimately shared between two people. We all wonder why people hold little regard for devotion and committment only to turn around and witness how flippant so many of us are when it comes to making judgements on others.

No doubt every single person here alone that`s cheered this girl`s actions on has neither a daughter nor an ounce of respect to the meaning of integrity.

Too many people don`t really care and don`t really realize what kids face today. MySpace, Facebook, Cellphones...this is a whole new ball field and one that`s so open to the world w/in seconds flat. Kids, and I include those even in their early twenties, don`t feel the social bounds. Everyone`s so PC nowadays. But we all bitch about what`s wrong then wonder why.Huh. Duh. Not about romance novels. It`s real life.

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Male 1,399
Bored2Run, you`re every post on this subject have been dripping of conjecture and mis-perception. You judge her harshly. That`s applying your perceptions to somebody else, who may not have your....hang ups.

And I don`t know how old you are, but 18 is considered adult in most of the world. I`m now really very curious how old you are to be calling an 18-year old a "young girl."

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Female 267
Baelzar, you`ve not the knowledge nor the data to back up this 90% conjecture crap about any majority of female sexual experiences. Don`t even try to convince me that I`M THE ONE THAT`S "fugged up". The fact that I hold steadfast personally to the values of fidelity, love, intimacy and monagammy will indeed reflect in my opinions about young girls who`ve yet to know how to drive let alone base mature decisions in what is proven to be important in a women`s life. I`m not about to post conjecture or misperceptions about this anymore than I`m going to tell you how you as a male should piss standing up. If females have to stoop to this low as this girl has, then there`s more wrong here than just her actions on the matter. Very, very wrong.

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Female 4,376
I have to admit her first time was hell of a lot better than mine and probably very fun/romantic. I lost mine when i was very young in a car to some pervert. I regret my first time horribly and though i personally wouldn`t want to get paid for sex, at least it was for a purpose and she got to enjoy it.
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Male 208
@JamesMcM12,

Didn`t you read about Natalie Dylan, and see how much her auction went? Something like £2,500,000...so why can`t this girl get 2% of that?
Read a little of it in this article, but more here:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/01/12...

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Male 102
For the majority of this article I thought she was just being stupid, but then she said "I wont make him pay next time!" and realised she was probably just a slut after all.

I suppose we can at least be glad she didnt get some sleazebag and got someone who was (at least seemingly) normal.

but.. he might have been married and had children so you know, I guess basically its one big stupid situation that was NEVER gonna get her £50,000

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Male 1,399
Bored2Run: "And you think that`s okay????"

Yep. I don`t know what kind of romance novels you`ve been absorbing, but I highly suspect most "first times" aren`t some sort of fairy tale you make them out to be.

"Loving gift..." Oh please. Most of the time I expect it`s some high schoolers sneaking around, possibly without protection or contraception, in the house when your parents aren`t home or a car or your prom night.

She actually likely had a better experience than 90% of the people out there. But because it was some businessman instead of a fumbling high schooler, she`s a slut.

Your values are fugged up. As long as sex is considered "dirty" in this country, we`ll continue having problems with STDs and teen pregnancy, because nobody wants to treat it simply.

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Female 1,412
hmmm. mixed thoughts about this, i guess.
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Female 267
"je_Scream: Wednesday, May 20, 2009 9:06:49 PM
all the more power to her. I saved and saved and saved mine for the `right` guy and what does he do...cheat on me".
That`s not YOUR FAULT. That`s HIS problem.
You gave something precious and loving to someone you trusted and loved. That was in every way a wonderful, natural thing to do. You didn`t piss your virginity away in a nightclub bathroom with some stranger and you didn`t sell it off to a stranger who bought you dinner. YOU DIDN`T SELL YOURSELF OUT.
Just because the man you loved -and with whom you decided to dedicate devotion towards in sharing a precious landmark in your life- screwed up, make you ever feel like you made the wrong decision! GEEZE! He`s the scumbag, not you! You didn`t cheat on him. You didn`t lie. You didn`t mess up, he did. Now that you know how much it hurts to be cheated on, you`ll not only ever do that to anyone else, but you`ll be able to spot the next guy who will or might. Take your
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Male 275
I am sure her first time was better than many girls first. hehe
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Female 267
...are just as guilty in the decay of social standards.

If one is to be a professional prostitute? Fine! That`s great!

As a conservative I condone this. As do many others.

But to approve the actions of this young girl who has no adult experience whatsoever, and lacks the maturity of adult decision in exchange for money at the expense of her virginity????

And you think that`s okay????

Don`t blame the American`s who hold a standard in love and romance and intimacy. These are not exclusive to political nor "puritanical" parties.

Just good ol` fashioned values. Love, romance, intimacy, trust, passion.

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Female 267
"Baelzar: Sometimes I`m embarrassed to live amongst Puritan-Americans."
You know what Baelzar? Even the "Puritan-American`s" you`re demonishing are guilty of diminishing moral values. No matter what the sexual preferences and political affiliations, it`s still Taboo in America to toss off intimate standards in exchange for a monetary price. And a meager one at that!
I`m actually all for legalizing prostitution. I think it would regulate licensing in health standards in order to squelch STD`s, I think the taxation of the industry would benefit and supplement other veins in local government along with Lotteries, tobacco and DMV. But if you think for a nano-second that flippant auctionings of sexual innocence from adolescents here in the U.S. is restricted to any conservative parties, think again. Actually, think and educate yourself beyond your little circle. Read all sides. Then speak. The most conservative, right-wing members in the U.S. are just as guil
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Male 358
"How much is that in money?"

Probably close to £8,800.

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Male 15,832
How much is that in money? :->
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Male 4,158
i bid $10au
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Male 15,832
How `bout seconds? I`ll open the bidding at $5.
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Male 844
yeah, i wonder what her parents think of her
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Female 761
all the more power to her. I saved and saved and saved mine for the `right` guy and what does he do...cheat on me.
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Female 901
"he didnt say if he was married and i didnt ask him" now THAT is what makes you a slut. if you didn`t say that, or do that, you`d be a really dumb b*tch at most.

your parents must be SO proud!

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Female 665
Prosteetute. I hate you.
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Male 1,399
Sometimes I`m embarrassed to live amongst Puritan-Americans.
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Male 121
Yeah... by any definition she`s a whore.
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Male 187
WAT A SLUT
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Female 414
Honestly she could have done a lot worse. Most people (me for one of them) just have a very very disappointing experience their first time. And hell she got a free trip out of it!
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Female 662
"Alina, who underwent two medical examinations to prove her virginity,"
Is that really possible?
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Female 267
No bones about it, she`s a prostitute. What should have and could have been a very tender, loving and intimate experience with a lover has now been trashed. She`s trash imho.

I know there are cultures, specifically the Japanese, where a geisha`s virginity -aka Mizuage- is placed up for auction and sold to the highest bidder.

But for a young girl from the UK to slut herself out like this? She`s a Chav. Cheap...

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Female 15,763
Well I suppose if she was fine with it and has the money, then.. yay?

Good thing he treated her to a good time first. That was nice.

This whole thing makes me feel uneasy, though.

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Male 1,399
Good for her. $13,000 ain`t bad for an hour`s work, plus she got a free vacation.

If they`d just legalize prostitution and drugs already, the world would be a much more peaceful place.

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Male 1,666
"tampons stoled mah virginity =["
No, they might have stolen your hymen, but unless you consider tampons human beings, then you were still a virgin
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Female 1,401
tampons stoled mah virginity =[
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Male 1,666
"I liked the man and got on with him well." There might be some sort of awesome language misunderstanding here
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Male 2,506
"because her German was too poor." TF?
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Female 1,677
Uh yeah a hymen can break from other things and some women aren`t even born with one.

So what makes virginity so much more important than regular sex? If it`s because the man is expecting some big to-do with hymen-breaking and blood, then quite frankly I wouldn`t want to go near him because he sounds like a psycho. Some peoples` first times are just like every time after (physically anyway).

If you`re selling virginity, you might as well go all out and sell sex afterwards as well. It`s the same thing.

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Male 1,085
I see her nips in the first pic. Hot...
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Female 662
"And yes, ilovetristan. They just have to check that the hymen is intact."
Not really. You can break your hymen way before sex. Riding a bike or horse, using tampons, etc can break it.
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Female 857
"Alina, who underwent two medical examinations to prove her virginity,"
Is that really possible?

Don`t quote me on this, but I`m pretty sure they can just check to see if the hymen`s still attached. :\
Kudos to her, I suppose.

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Female 1,963
And yes, ilovetristan. They just have to check that the hymen is intact.
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Female 1,963
The weird thing is, her first time was probably safer and more enjoyable than most womens, and she got paid for it! I`m trying to find something wrong with this, but struggling. I guess the biggest (and perhaps only) problem with treating sex like a commodity is that there is a huge chance of emotions coming into play, and therefore a huge chance of someone getting hurt. People (women in particular) are genetically programmed to form an attachment through sex.

So if she`s ok with being a prostitute and all the risks involved, then who is anyone to judge.

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Female 662
"Alina, who underwent two medical examinations to prove her virginity,"
Is that really possible?
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Male 1,590
Whore.

Someone had to say it...

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Female 109
Not gonna lie... I often find myself debating whether or not I should sell my virginity. It`s nothing special to me and I could really use the money.
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Male 928
Hey, that`s way more than most prostitutes could get. Props to her, I guess.
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Male 1,204
HAHAHA SHE THOUGHT SHE COULD MAKE MORE THAT THAT HAHAHA

er.. i`m not shallow or anything...

now as a world, let`s move on to more important things.

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Female 323
Maybe I should do that.
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Male 3,369
osirisascend..you have no idea!

One day it`s all true love, the next its "you didnt put the toilet seat down" or (even worse) "you didnt come with me to see my mother". The next thing you know, your sleeping on the couch!

It`s all game. Men are easy, we dont use sex in the ever present power struggle. Women are a diffrent matter, and if we don`t make those women happy, we dont get any!

Don`t get me wrong, I`m not totally cynical but I have learnt a thing or two over time. It`s all game and if you dont know how to play it and when to fold, you`ll end up a lonely frustrated person!

This girl did what she needed to. It`s not my style but I wont judge her harshly for what she`s done! She`s simply playing the game with a winning hand!

Oh and ConverseUK. My original statement still stands, reguardless of what you ment. If you dwell on the past you`ll only end up a bitter person!

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Male 219
Lol, imagine right as the guy puts it in he yells "FIRST".
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Male 5,189
Seen more then once of these lol.
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Male 1,270
ElDavo, that was cheap, but fair.
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Male 1,270
So because I didn`t mention women, it means their situation is somehow exact opposite?

No, no, no. That`s drawing an implication from literally nothing.

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Male 2,148
Gummy: Coming from a guy, you`d make less than you think. Don`t get too full of yourself.
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Female 1,412
I wish id have thought to do this >:(
If i was still a virgin id well make loads of money...
Say what you want, its money in the end isnt it? The worlds screwed over anyways so may as well sell yourself 8-) haha
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Male 3,058
The_Maddog
Male, 30-39, Europe
2268 Posts Wednesday, May 20, 2009 3:20:02 PM

"Sex is a barter game no matter how you look at it!"

Maddog, I think you might be the only one commenting here who really gets it.

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Male 10,440
BORING! Wheres the controversy? Where`s the death? You can do better IAB.
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Male 3,369
ConverseUK.

I didnt put any words in your mouth!

you said, and I quote

"I don`t know any guys who enjoy knowing their partner has had sex with another man. Let alone for money."

No mention of ladies there! I stand by my original statement!

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Male 1,270
That`s what I was hoping for!!

I mean...ummm...I don`t think we should...


(see you out the back in 5...)

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Male 904
whoa...it keeps going...
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Male 9,305
ConverseUK, careful I might take you up on that. ;)
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Female 385
that;s a REALLY good idea. *goes to make ebay account*
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Male 1,270
"So in your terms, a guy can go out and screw who he wants but a woman cant?"

When on earth did I say that?
Seriously, you can put what you like in my mouth...anything at all except words.

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Male 126
a sense of awkwardness just looms over this article. and its obvious that she didnt care for her virginity, and could really use extra money.
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Male 3,369
ConverseUK!

Bullsh*t. Pure and utter bullsh*t!

So in your terms, a guy can go out and screw who he wants but a woman cant?
The point being, not all relationships work and it`s very rare your first love is your only love! If you cant let go of someone elses past, just as they may have to let go of your past, then your to insecure and immature to be in a relationship to start with!

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Female 39
Genius! What a brilliant way to take advantage of our culture`s ridiculous fear of sex and make a pretty penny off of it.
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Male 1,270
BBQ, I think you`re missing my point.

I don`t know any guys who enjoy knowing their partner has had sex with another man. Let alone for money.

The act of deflowering is something which in many cases is seen as special. I know this isn`t always the case, but it is important to a LOT of people.

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Male 4,867
she talks about it as if it is a normal thing to do
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Male 467
ConverseUK >> Oh, so because she`s not a virgin anymore, she won`t be able to make someone happy? I don`t think I would care if a girl I loved, had sold herself for her first time. Heck, I would`ve sold my virginity for 8,800 euros.. I would sell sex now, for 8,800 euros... Any takers?
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Male 9,305
Well, it`s nice she found a gentleman.
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Female 2,672
wait wait wait
isnt soliciting prostitution illegal over here?
so isnt this illegal?
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Male 213
No sex before marriage!!
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Male 1,270
Makes me sick...

She`s a pretty little thing and could have made someone very lucky and very loved.

I`m actually very disappointed.

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Male 2,229
to each their own...
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Male 814
Wow...ya know 8800 quid is a bit of slap in the face when compared to the 2.5M the American got, or even against her hopes of 50k...
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Female 275
Sex-worker Rights!


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Male 2,440
Why would anyone pay that much for a virgin? I`d rather have two "fire-breathin` whores" as Billy Connolly put it.
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Male 130
looks like her face caught on fire and somone tried to put it out with a fork
would anyone else attept to do her?
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Male 1,297
"Reality TV" and all of its freaky family members cannot stoop any lower, and this is no exception (if you ask me). it is, however, somehow a much more eerie version of human exploitation...

GIRL POWER!! (whoot)

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Male 1,540
Wait, is that actually legal? I mean, if you`re doing it on the street you`ll get arrested.
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Male 3,369
Sex is a barter game no matter how you look at it!

Anyone who claims otherwise is nieve!

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Male 2,855
she will be very disappointing when the next time she whores herself people wont pay more than 50 bucks
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Female 9,558
I hope it was worth it cuz God knows I can`t trust anyone to do that unless I knew and loved that man.
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Male 2,028
o_o
Lucky 45 year old dude.
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Female 4,376
alright then...
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Male 2,125
That`s a reaaaaally expensive hooker x_x
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Male 20,827
Link: What Happened When This Teen Auctioned Virginity? [Rate Link] - A UK teenager who sold her virginity online for £8,800 ($14K) reveals the details of her tryst with the lucky bidder.
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