Rihanna Takes Back Abusive Boyfriend, Chris Brown

Submitted by: fancylad 8 years ago in
http://www.usmagazine.com/news/rihanna-and-chris-brown-make-up-at-diddys-miami-house-2009272

After being beaten and having the photo of the evidence leaked, Rihanna and admitted abuser, Brown, reconcile. Thoughts?
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Female 178
"The new Tina."

xD So true.
"RIHANNA, BRING ME A SODA."
"Were out Chris"
*SMACK*
"B**TCH I SAID BRING ME A SODA!"

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Female 134
hahahahaha i`m so glad he beat her up. just reinforces the stereotype that black women are weak and like to get hit. but she deffinately deserved it for all the crappy music she`s made.
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Female 107
Its fine if she wants to be stupid and let herself get beat repeatedly, guess shes not very strong. But to let her fans and young girls that may look up to her witness her going back to that, thats irresponsible.
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Male 648
She just loves her boo, did you see the pics of Chris Brown this weekend??? Flexing his arms for the paps, hes the new bobby brown...they`ll be smokin rock together in few months. See what happens, dont give em money.
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Male 355
The new Tina.
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Male 1,297
strong woman...
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Female 778
hard to let go of a relationship she`s invested so much in? i`ve invested alot into the relationship i have with my fiance, but i guarantee if he made my face look like that, or even hit me just once, my ass would be gone. i am lucky enough to have that option, and so is she, so i will have no sympathy for her when he hurts her again. so many women would be so happy to be able to leave, but they can`t for whatever reason, and here this clown is with her millions, friends and family who care about her, yet staying with that loser.
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Female 376
Not surprising. What a rolemodel she is to young girl all over...Ugh. What an idiot.
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Female 1,604
I am pretty sure you are kidding peterboner so I am not gonna say a word.

You are right it is her choice, but most people stay with their abuser because they have nowhere else to go and no money. She has the money to go somewhere else.

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Female 582
Honestly, this is typical. An abused woman will go back to her abuser 6-8 times before she finally leaves him for good. I just hope it doesn`t come to that. She isn`t being a good role model for normal women who are in these situations and these situations are much more common than you might think. It makes me sad that she is going back to him. In this country where so many people look to celebrities, she`s doing the wrong thing.
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Male 2,159
WHO THE fudgeC CARES?!!!
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Male 162
I don`t know why everyone is being so judgemental. It is her decision. I am sure he appologized for beating the living crap out of her. And I am sure he promised never to raise a hand against her again. But c`mon people, he only did it because she got in his grille about him texting Paris Hilton, so she was partly to blame for the ass whooping. I am sure she has learned her lesson and is ready to deepen her relatioship with him.
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Male 312
i got a 20 on this that its more for publicity and business than any real feelings. or rihanna is just a young naive little girl who doesnt recognize a huge doucher when she sees one.
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Female 5,222
its hard to give up on someone you love. its not an emotion that goes off like a light switch. Some women have the will power to leave the first time. Hopefully this doesnt happen again. and if it does.. she stays away.
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Female 4,028
That`s sad.
Sounds like the typical abused woman response...
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Female 1,653
At this very moment I have a magazine on the floor with "Rihanna- "I thought he was going to kill me!"" blaring off the front cover.
3 weeks later and they`re fine again?
wtf is she thinking?
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Female 859
really? celebrity gossip? come on IAB... i thort u knew better than this!
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Male 1,226
Thoughts? No. I really, really, really don`t care. Stop posting celeberty stuff.
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Male 426
if he did beat her up, she`s a dumb bunny.
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Male 1,766
He is only a violent abuser. who wouldn`t take him back. im sure hes a sweet guy afterall.
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Male 904
she is sooooo hot.
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Female 209
i hate rascist ppl... does that make me racest?
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Female 917
She deserves someone who will treat her better. Beating up her like he did, she needs to leave him.
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Male 12,365
"Not justifying her getting hit just asking, did any of you happen to see the pictures of HIM after that fight? it was an all out brawl and she gave as good as she got. if they can survive each other it might work. and the sex is probably great."

Do you have a link to pictures of him, for comparison? I had a brief look, but of course the media frenzy is all one way.

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Male 362
I think she took him back because she`s black.
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Male 2,855
awwww shes black
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Male 138
silly niggaz have no brainz
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Female 15,763
God.. damnit...

And fame gobbles up another one.

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Male 3,431
She`s a damn idiot. He Parents should beat her ass next.
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Female 1,269
to each her own i guess...
cant say i`d do the same.
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Female 738
It`s stupidity like this that gives the rest of us a bad reputation.

I don`t care how much she`s "invested" in the relationship. Getting hit is never okay.

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Male 326
Not justifying her getting hit just asking, did any of you happen to see the pictures of HIM after that fight? it was an all out brawl and she gave as good as she got. if they can survive each other it might work. and the sex is probably great.
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Male 650
I`m sorry heartx3jess, but unless Rhianna tripped and smashed her face on the side of the Lamborghini, then what happened to her face is inexcusable.
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Male 2,076
I`m all for forgiveness and reconciliation, but there`s something to be said about not putting yourself in a situation where you can get hurt and worse. :-( it`s sad
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Male 86
she looked a lot worse than she really did because we have all seen her with heaps of make-up on.....
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Male 1,526
this is typical female behaviour. drating weak
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Male 695
who are these pinheads??
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Male 15,832
Androgynous, it`s not just you. I don`t give a rat`s ass about either of them. It does bother me a bit, though, that so many other people actually do care about this.
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Male 756
It is just me...
Or am I the only one wondering...
"Who gives a flying drat?"

...Couldn`t care less....D=

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Female 1,578
Alright guys, nobody here knows exactly what happened, or both sides of the story. I don`t think anyone here should judge either one of them because i`m sure theres a lot that you don`t know about it. Yes its a bad thing that happened, but let them do what they want.
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Male 8
She`s setting a great example for alot of imressionable young ladys out there. It`s ok if if he kicks your ass as long as he apologizes. Way to go Rihanna. What the F*%ck?
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Male 1,153
thoughts? does anyone actually need to express their thoughts?
i cant imagine they differ greatly
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Female 2,927
oh your poor stupid kid.
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Male 5,094
My thoughts on this? Exactly the same as when the original story got international coverage.

Five bucks says this forum is gonna go past ten pages as well.

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Female 70

this really sends a great message to young girls everywhere about relationships...

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Male 2,510
people always go back to the people who abuse them, its in the thier mentality, its the kind of people they are. whether they are famous or not.
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Female 1,082
"not easy to shut off a relationship she invested so much in.

ummm... yeah it is. Very Easy. Especially when you get the crap beat out of you."

No, no its not easy. Have you ever been in an abusive long term relationship? When you have a severe emotional investment in one person its really hard to leave. If that wasn`t true then there would be a lot less battered spouses out there. I do think she should leave him, but saying that its going to be easy is a lie.

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Male 84
"The question should be "Why does he keep abusing her?""
Because she allows him to by putting herself in that situation.
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Male 639
Hmmm, I sense another beating, a slitting up and then a record release followed by an autobiography titled `my struggle through domestic violence`.

She`s about to hit jackpot and she knows it.

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Female 121
some people are kind of harsh.. if she was in an abusive relationship its like a cycle. he probably promised hes going to get better and the poor girl probably believed him. i just hope she realizes
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Male 1,788
Blah blah blah, I don`t care about famous people.
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Male 121
Some form of Stockholm syndrome, maybe?
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Male 378
“It’s not easy to shut off a relationship she invested so much in.”

ummm... yeah it is. Very Easy. Especially when you get the crap beat out of you.

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Male 5,314
she deserves another beating then
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Male 1,404
Stupid move. I had no idea who "Rihanna" except for an abused women which makes me ill that some sick no talent douche bag can get away without getting his face smashed in while getting gang raped in the prison shower. Now I simple don`t care. I`ll read about you in the obituaries when this scum bag kills your sorry a-ss.
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Female 267
It`ll only get worse. It always does.
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Female 741
i still think he`s gay.
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Male 2,388
and what happens the next she spills his moirning coffeee?
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Male 995
Sadly this doesn`t surprise me at all. She`s not the first person to unexplicably forgive such a despicable act, foolishly thinking that a person like that will honestly change.
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Female 1,436
Well, I don`t think anyone "deserves" to be beaten. That is just a horrible statement. I understand that a woman loves a man but there should never be a point that you lose yourself entirely to another person. That is exactly what is wrong with people now-a-days. When you have a relationship with someone: there is your life, their life and something that you two share together that is special. Jeez - sometimes people need to have a higher standard of self confidence, self respect and then this type of situation wouldn`t occur. There are warning signs. Regardless, you should never hit something that you love so dearly.
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Female 62
It`s 100% her life, and if she wants to get back with him, that`s just what she`s going to do. She doesn`t need any reason and she doesn`t have to explain herself. She knows Chris Brown better than her family does, and if she thinks he`s right for her, that`s that. She`s a big girl. She doesn`t need to be an icon for young girls standing against abusive relationships. Her being famous doesn`t automatically mean that she has to be an icon for anything she does or happens to her. Chris Brown said his mother was abused by his stepfather, and he might be having psychological problems he didn`t realize he had before. Those memories and feelings may have come out suddenly for the first time, and he reacted in a way without thinking. He should be checked out psychologically before people make judgements.

What he did to Rihanna wasn`t right or justified, and he`s admitted that. She`s a big girl. She can take it from there however she wants to.

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Female 331
Hasn`t Rihanna been rumored to be pregnant, too? If it is true, then they might be getting together because of the baby. :/
I just hope she knows what she`s doing. :/
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Female 179
This is very sad. I guess I hoped she would be an example to young women who look up to her and not stand for that abuse.

Oh well, now we have our new generation Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown.

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Male 1,958
I figured she would go back to him. A classic abusive relationship. "It`s ok. He hits me cause he loves me. He calls me name in public cause he loves me." He might be also threatening her saying things like "If you leave, I kill you/your family/etc"

As for iPirate, MapleFr3ak, Challanger, and anyone else who thinks she deserves what she gets...You`re all very sad people. How can you think someone who loves their significant other deserves to be treated like that? I get the feeling that you side with Chris Brown like Terrence Howard did. For shame.

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Male 410
Some people have to learn life lessons the hard way and Rhianna may be one of those people. This could also all be a PR patch job cooked up by Diddy and company, someone in Diddy`s position can`t have two of his top artists embroiled in something like this. It`s bad for business. This smells more like a damage control clean up job to me.
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Male 1,584
Nath, this isn`t 4 chan, dont talk like that.
and the sad thing is i know far to many girls who act like this. they go out with nothing but guys who are scummy and treat them bad, complain when thigns go wrong "oh why are all guys such asses, i hate guys, maybe i should just be a lesbian, etc, etc, and then once they get better they go out with a guy thats a carbon copy of the last guy they went out with. the proces repeats, and the guys that actually are good guys are the ones they complain to rather than date.... i just don`t get it.
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Female 1,677
You people are gross. Okay, I think she`d be better off not going back to him (DUH), but if it happens again, what? She would not `deserve` it any more than she `deserved` it the last time around. What if it was your sister/mother/aunt? Would you call her stupid for going back and ignore her when she calls for help half unconscious? Obviously we don`t owe Rihanna anything since she`s a celebrity, but how about we turn the blame on the abuser, and not the abused.

"Why does she keep going back to him?"

The question should be "Why does he keep abusing her?"

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Male 241
@meowmeowmeow

Underage enjoy your B&

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Female 1,380
um....Who cares? She`s old enough to make her own decisions
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Female 346
wow...woman deserves to be beat then. I know that sounds mean but if she`s going to go right back to him she has it coming. *eye twitch*
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Male 2,395
Real stupid of her, wouldn`t be surprised when next time, she`ll be in a coma. >_>
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Female 386
CaptainPat
I COMPLETELLY DISAGREE

I lvoe my boyfriend with all my heart and we will get married.

If he ever even thinks about hitting me or threatens me in any way I WILL leave and NEVER come back.
I am NOT going through what my mom did.

Girls dont like to be treated like crap.

He is the nicest guy I have ever met and thats why I love him.
Yeah he has his moments, but I swear to you, I dont even talk to him when he becomes mean Jay.

Your statement is false

And when it comes to Riahnna, if she gets beaten again, to be quite honest, I think she deserves it.
Maybe it will open her eyes... NOT!

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Male 23
Whitney Houston
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Male 1,584
Yet another piece of evidence in my "girls like guys who are non-nice individuals and douche bags arguments"
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Male 364
Complete idiot. Zero sympathy when (yes, when) it happens again.
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Female 108
She`ll end up dead.
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Male 7,933
I know I`m going to do now. I`m going to go to this girl I think its cute, and beat the poo out of her. Worked for him it will work for me right?
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Female 37
what an idiot - what kind of message does this send out to other women - its ok for ur boyfriend to beat u? everyone is now gonna think wot a twat, she would of got alot more respect if she walked away. she won`t be getting any sympathy next time round.
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Male 1,220
Who cares?
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Female 2,064
Celebrities are morons.
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Female 455
There won`t be so much sympathy for her the next time it happens, which it eventually will.
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Male 629
"what a idiot
even me a 11 YEAR OLD CAN UNDERSTAND HOW STUPID SHE IS"
Don`t you need to be 13 to use this site?
I wouldn`t be surprised if she gets raped too, but to be honest I don`t care since I don`t like rap/hip-hop.
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Female 531
not the best choice, but sometimes it`s a lot harder than you would think to make that decision
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Female 1,963
I guess celebrities aren`t above making the same mistakes that so many women make. Once a beater, always a beater.
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Female 9,560
Wow, that was stupid. Wait until he beats her to death.
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Male 418
Wow, i`m still bored. Go figure.

I hope he does it again.

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Male 187
what a idiot
even me a 11 YEAR OLD CAN UNDERSTAND HOW STUPID SHE IS
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Male 20,828
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