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Wife: I want to void the marriage because my husband is a woman.Judge: So what? Lesbian are allowed to be married. Your marriage remains valid.
That said; there is NO way this lady didn`t know, even if he used some toy she would have known. The worst part is the problems the kids are going to have to face. I swear some people need a license to have kids.
It`s just ridiculous. This whole thing. That woman knew, and she`s a liar and a whore for trying to say otherwise. He should have told her straight up, but if they met when they were 16 (isn`t that the picture she allegedly "found" of him? When he was in high school?) he probably didn`t want to be like "Oh by the way my penis doesn`t exist." None of the choppy facts that the news gave made any sense together. There are too many "well IF" or "HE said" or "SHE said"...
Why don`t we just say screw them both and put the children into foster care? That way everyone will be equally unhappy.
Like most have stated, you`d have to be pretty moronic to not know he was a she at one time.
People get divorced because they realize their partner isnt who they though they were and thus dont want to spend the rest of their life with them.
Oh and i noticed that on youre profile youre Christian? are youre "people" against it?
Ohx2 and youre probably gonna say you should wait longer before getting married. But still marriage can bring out different parts of people that are caused by the stress of being commited to another human being.so think about that will you?
Second off, I think he/she should have a right to the kids. Just because they`re not biogically related doesn`t mean they can`t see eachother as family.
naw it was alright
Well then that essentially just makes her not knowing impossible. She already knew what a real penis looked like and felt like, so how would she be tricked by a strap on or cucumber or whatever?
"It wouldn`t be impossible for her not to know. It said he was taking hormones-which causes the clit to grow into a little penis."
About that, see in order for her to grow a penis, her entire supply of hormones would have to have been removed and replaced with male hormones, because even with the hormone shots, a woman can not grow a penis. Also, that makes me wonder, wouldn`t the wife notice the husband`s periods?
No, it was before the marriage.
I`ve got a new father, now. He`s not biologically related to me. In fact, he`s only been in my life for 6 years, but he`s more of a father than the sperm that half of genes came from -ever- was."
I don`t deny your right to make that decision. It`s always unfortunate when the courts have to decide matters like custody, but they do, and it`s a zero-sum game. To the extent that Mireles has custody, their mother does not. So...don`t you agree that the biological mother (or father) has first right to her own children--ESPECIALLY if Mireles only became a part of their lives as a result of deception on his part? (You may be skeptical that she didn`t know, but the judge annulled the marriage, so apparently that part of her claim was upheld.)
But to just not tell your partner what gender you were born is sick.
That`s even worse than finding out that your husband has been cheating on you for years! Imagine, finding out that it`s not your husband`s children you`ve been pregnant with..."
You`re.....You`re kidding right? SHE was the one who cheated on HIM. They said themselves: First, sexual indiscretion, second, artificial insemination! Also, the wife chose to let the he/she be the father to these children, just because he isn`t really a he when he was born doesn`t mean he shouldn`t be entitled to visit children that, although he did not spawn, he DID raise them, thanks to the retarded bitch. That`s sexist as hell. Besides, she told her kids that he was their father? She`s telling them the truth? Reality Check much?
I`ve got a new father, now. He`s not biologically related to me. In fact, he`s only been in my life for 6 years, but he`s more of a father than the sperm that half of genes came from -ever- was.
This guy is a real father. The wife knew what was going on. She`s a sick prick for trying to ruin his life with media attention. Stupid slut. There`s -no- way she didn`t know.
More power to the father! Biological or not, he deserves his kids!!
Oh really? You don`t seem to know what the word "father" means. Try looking it up in a dictionary. Plenty of doctors saw you delivered, plenty of relatives saw you taking your first steps. You only have one father, and what makes him your father is not that he lied to your mother for seven years and "married" her.
1. Did she never try to touch or see her husband`s penis? I always like to know what is entering my body.2. Don`t they do strip searches when you go to jail? 3. Why was he booked as a male? His female anatomy could cause him some real trouble when he bends over to pick up the soap in the communal showers.
The mother needs to lighten the f up. So what if he had been a woman? He`s not now. He was probably a great dad and probably provided really well for his family. I`d love to know why they divorce happened.
The fact is she probably knew that he wasn`t born a he from the first time they had sex. I believe him, and he should still be able to see his kids.
He is a PERSON. Not an IT. Anyone who thinks differently should really do something to learn what it means to be a human being.
I can`t imagine the wife not knowing, though. I guess it`s because she was so young.
The first wife also didn`t explain how she put it all together. I didn`t think that that grainy ass photo looked at all like the guy. I think she knew, like he said, and then decided she didn`t want him visiting anymore and looked up his old yearbook photo as `proof` she just now figured it out.
Oh, and please, for the love of god, stop mixing pronouns. If someone looks, talks, and acts like a dude, just say he. Looks, talks, and acts like a girl = she. What`s in their pants or their genes isn`t going to hurt you, unless you`re that fragile a person that a transsexual`s mere existence threatens you. ;)
El. Oh. El.
But yea, poor lady. I would be so confused, beyond confused. When she said that she felt like her whole life around him seemed to not be reality anymore (the memories), it was so heartbreaking.
But like someone else stated, she had cheated before. And the kids...ugh, I don`t know. What a tough case. You want to feel sorry for both, but in the end, you don`t want to feel sorry for anyone, maybe just the kids.
I guess the part that bothers me is how you could not tell someone you love about yourself. I understand the fear...and given her reaction, I think the worry is justified. I`m just not sure how you would be OK with that. Keeping your lover in the dark about being a trannie seems more wrong to me than the actual fact of his gender identity.
Also, yeah he lied and the divorce was warranted but at the same time SHE HAD to know! I mean there is NO WAY she didn`t!
That`s just plain weird.
And, the guy should have responsibility for the kids, and pay child support.
I bet he`s on welfare and not paying a dime.
People in this world can be so superficial and unaccepting.
Everyone needs to chill out. Sex and gender roles are not inherent. I bet his kids love him very much.
Must have been some pretty boring and standard sex.
Also, yeah, it would suck to be in that situation but tell the daughters the truth - who cares if he`s a she or she`s a he, she...he...still loves his/her daughters, it isn`t fair.
"I have a very well trained husband. He never leaves the toilet seat up."
...well technically the he/she did commit fraud. So the marriage can be annulled.
in any case,the poor guy(girl) should be able to keep his(her) kids.....and if the wife really agreed at marriage to be together with them through thick and thin,this should not matter.
this is the problem with our nation,they dont realise divorce should be illegal and anyone who tries it killed,because they agreed to a promise theyre all breaking.