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Date: 02/23/08 07:41 AM

80 Responses to Proposal Rejection at Basketball Game

  1. Profile photo of eskimoboy6
    eskimoboy6 Male 13-17
    72 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 7:41 am
    Link: Proposal Rejection at Basketball Game - In front of millions, this guy is rejected. You make the call--was this legit or staged?
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    garnye Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 7:44 am

    Obviously staged.

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    matrixie Female 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 7:45 am
    oh no poor bloke, thats why you shoulnt do these things. i think it was legit
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    vatroslav Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 7:45 am
    Staged = haha that was funny
    Legit = Oh crap...
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    xdonutx Female 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 7:50 am
    Oh that poor girl! How embarrassing. You know everyone will side with the guy and make her out to be a witch, but honestly, it`s not easy telling a guy no. What was she supposed to marry him just so he wouldn`t have to face reality? It was actually sort of rude on the guy`s part as well, putting her in that position.
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    witchawitcha Female 13-17
    347 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 7:54 am
    so fake its not even funny :} well maybe a bit!! lol
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    thanatos16 Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:04 am
    he should have reeeeeally talked with her about anything like that before hand.

    atleast he got a free beer out of it

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    raztits Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:06 am

    Sort of rude on the guys part? Usually if you are proposing you have been with the woman for awhile, especially if you propose on the court.I don`t understand how it is rude to propose to someone in a public manner.How was he supposed to know she would say `no`? "It`s not easy telling a guy no?" as you say. Seemed to me like she said NO without any real thought. Also how would you know? 13-17 years old and you have already been proposed to? Props for you.

    If this wasn`t staged then she could of just said yes to save the embarrassment, then later tell the guy she isn`t ready.

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    sonic6654 Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:07 am
    that wasn`t staged, I was at that game
  10. Profile photo of MissLeFay
    MissLeFay Female 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:22 am
    Anyway, I hope this was staged becasue if it wasn`t, she`s a real witch.

    And if it wasn`t, I have to side with raztits, that was really rude of her, not him. She could have taken the ring and said, "We need to talk." in his ear to save face. I think it would be really romantic and not rude at all for someone to propose in public and really mean and rude for someone to reject in such a frank manner. If she had any feelings for him at all, she should have helped them both to save face.

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    FiFi_Lala Female 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:40 am
    ugh that was sad....i feel bad for the girl more tho...if it was staged thats not something o really kid about don`t you think?
  12. Profile photo of EvilM
    EvilM Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:43 am
    Poor guy. I can understand the girls point of view as well though.
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    shiggin Female 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:44 am
    Nice. prob didnt really seem real.
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    cndman15 Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:45 am
    i dont feel bad for the girl at all. she shouldnt have said no and run off. their relationship isnt going to go anywhere after this horrible experience
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    Ryu-ko Female 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:47 am
    Raz, I love how your opinion is stereotypical of a guy. Imagine the girl telling him yes to "spare him the embarassment," then later saying, "just kidding"? Do you think that`s fair?

    Or do you think she should have just married him to spare him BOTH humiliations? Of course, as long as it spares the poor, victim guy.

    Putting someone on the spot like that may be "romantic" if you know that that is your girl`s thing, but otherwise, it is kind of rude. You have to give her the choice - asking her then is basically saying, "look at the people watching. You have to do it."

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    Diddie Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:55 am
    Being consoled by the mascot must`ve devastating for him. However I found it hilarious.
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    swimdude Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:55 am
    that suckkss to be himm haha
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    bombsquad505 Female 18-29
    322 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 8:58 am
    "If this wasn`t staged then she could of just said yes to save the embarrassment, then later tell the guy she isn`t ready."

    I agree COMPLETELY. Saying no is going to hurt him no matter how it is done. Best to do it without embarassing him in front of millions of people.

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    fearthekrken Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:58 am
    that was awesome. i would go home to celebrate with waffles.
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    hehehenerd Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 9:06 am
    ............sooooo who won?
  21. Profile photo of farquaadhnch
    farquaadhnch Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 9:13 am
    My girlfriend and I have (after being together a while) have discussed it. I at least know before I do pop the question that she is willing.

    Don`t put them on the spot without some sort of mild discussion first, or you may be disappointed.

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    BikerTeen Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 9:17 am
    sad but you win some you lose some
  23. Profile photo of Javien
    Javien Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 9:24 am
    I believe the guy is totally at fault here, he brings her to a public place where thousands of people will be brought into their personal life. All thats gonna do is embarrass her to no end. It puts so much pressure on her it makes it almost impossible to think clearly. Whats the point in that? Its not romantic, its pure embarrassment. It took a lot of guts for her to say no. In the end, she was so embarrassed that she runs out of the stadium.

    Well, the staged or not, dunno, it could be either I guess. But I believe its real.

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    Pabasa Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 9:26 am

    Just coz i feel like it.

  25. Profile photo of BikerTeen
    BikerTeen Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 9:30 am
    here is anther case at about 1min 30sec (but the hole thing is good)
  26. Profile photo of Mouichi
    Mouichi Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 9:40 am
    I understand both sides, but I side more with the girl. It is better for her to be honest, and the guy knew what he was risking by asking her in front of a bunch of people. If he wasn`t alright with running the risk of being embarrassed, then he shouldn`t have done it publicly.
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    gozirra Male 40-49
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    February 23, 2008 at 9:49 am
    Sad, but thats what you get for not planning ahead.
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    Odd_Mindset Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 10:08 am
    The mascot had me cracking up when the girl was walking away.. He had that kind of "What the hell?" body language going on.
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    yowz Female 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 10:20 am
    Isn`t this a few years old? I remember this same exact thing happening at a basketball game and they said it was staged.
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    Lauraly Female 18-29
    2262 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 10:34 am
    It sucks for the guy, but he really should have had a conversation with her beforehand to see if she was interested in getting engaged. It`s his own fault that she embarrassed him.

    And to those of you saying that she should have helped him save face by saying yes, and then telling him no later on, you obviously have a hard time dealing with disappointment. That would only hurt him more in the long run, and why should she have to suffer the discomfort of lying because he couldn`t be bothered to have a discussion with her first? He put her in a really terrible position, because no matter what she`s going to have to break his heart.

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    rasputinxxx Male 18-29
    128 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 10:45 am
    I think it was real.

    I also feel bad for the guy though he acted dumb. But people don`t normally use their brains when it comes to matters of heart. Anyways I don`t blame the gal either. No point in lying just to save him from embarrassment.

    But I am pretty sure he will get a lot of gals now since they love heart broke silly guys who wear their hearts on their sleeves. BTW the commentators reaction was quite funny.

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    dudegelliza Female 13-17
    57 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 11:05 am
    has anyone else noticed that close to the title it says `so what if its their second date?`

    well anyways i dont blame the girl. what if she just wasnt ready to get married yet. and if he gets embarrassed, thats his fault for not thinking about what if she says no. at least she told the truth instead of saying yes and the guy`s family and friends are watching the game and they get all excited and then later she says no. that is messed up.

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    Victor_Watts Male 18-29
    188 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 11:28 am
    This exact same act was done at a Wizards basketball game a few years back, and everyone involved in that later admitted it was fake. So I`m sure this Rockets game is no different.
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    roxidied Female 13-17
    322 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 11:49 am
    It`s great how the players are chuckling.

    As for the guy..he really shouldn`t have put the girl on the spot. There`s no point if she was pressured to say yes.

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    emzrok Female 13-17
    1307 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 11:54 am
    okay, obviously she couldntve said yes, because then he`d get all excited, then shed have to break the news to him later. not the best idea. misslefay`s idea is reasonable, though.
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    raztits Male 18-29
    30 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 11:55 am
    In reply to my last comment:
    I would like to state that I was just making a point about xdonutx saying that it was rude for the guy to propose to her in public.

    I`m not siding with anyone since we don`t have any facts about their relationship (how long, met with parents, discussed it, etc.) I still think that if this wasn`t staged, it would have been better for the girl to say yes to the guy, then say she isn`t ready after they get off the court.

    Okay,maybe she didn`t want to marry him. He knows that he is taking the risk of proposing without discussing. But he obviously thinks that they are perfect couple and wants to spend the rest of his life with her. Most people in that situation would say `yes` to the proposal even if they weren`t ready, and that was what the guy was probably thinking when he was thinking about "what if she said no" in the back of his head. I mean who wants to feel embarrassed on LIVE TV? Just becuase she said `yes` on camera doesn`t mean she HA

  37. Profile photo of bochamockado
    bochamockado Male 18-29
    580 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 12:01 pm
    Who cares?

    She had bouncy...assets.

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    ModifiedCar Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 12:06 pm
    That`s cool baby
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    xacec0rex Female 18-29
    56 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 12:14 pm
    Um.. Raz, first of all no matter what the situation, if I wasn`t ready for marriage and my boyfriend asks, I`m going to be saying NO. Saying yes will not make me anymore ready than before, if anything it will make it worse. It won`t fix any problems that we had just because I said yes.

    Most people would NOT say yes if they weren`t ready.

    Anyhoo, the mascot made it hilarious. That`s what he gets, stupid guy.

  40. Profile photo of astridhaze
    astridhaze Female 18-29
    738 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 12:28 pm
    I think I went to college with that guy.
  41. Profile photo of YourHoNess
    YourHoNess Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 12:44 pm
    Seriously though....who won?
  42. Profile photo of benjbenj
    benjbenj Male 30-39
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    February 23, 2008 at 12:45 pm
    Raztits, it would be worse for the guy to hear a `yes` and then later be told by her she only said so to save him from being embarrassed. How humiliating!

    It`s just plain stupid (and not romantic at all) to propose a girl on live TV without even knowing whether it`s gonna be a yes or a no. In case he was fully convinced she would say `yes`, he apparently doesn`t know her well enough. Well, pay the price, sucker!

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    xacec0rex Female 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 1:17 pm
    Amen to that Benj! *high five*
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    lakerzz8 Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 2:10 pm
    It was staged. This was done a day before valentine`s day as a joke. You can hear the commentator saying Garnet really enjoys the joke or something like that.
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    treyisonfire Male 13-17
    14 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 2:19 pm
    Here, take some free beer to forget about being humiliated on live TV.
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    bored_gal Female 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 2:29 pm
    i agree with benj
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    imcoolyeah Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 2:44 pm
    It seems to fake to be fake, so its real I say...
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    primetimekin Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 2:47 pm
    1. Lakerzz8, since when does Garnett play for either the Rockets or the Kings?

    2. It seemed legit, if it would have been faked, it would be much funnier if she just nodded no instead of whispering in his ear.

    3. This was a recent game, happened this year

    4. The polite thing for the girl to do is whisper in his ear "no" but then nod her head as if it was yes.

    5. Tracy McGrady was laughing.

    6. I love the title. Who cares if it was their second date.

    7. The guy is an idiot.

  49. Profile photo of KeVsTeR2475
    KeVsTeR2475 Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 3:03 pm
    "The young man- the young man will probablly get over it in, oh, 10-12 years or so."
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    Jaydeejj Female 70 & Over
    713 posts
    February 23, 2008 at 4:31 pm
    Wow this is kinda old but yeah this was staged. It was all over the news the next day. I think it was right after a Valentines day.
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    Fwoggie2 Male 30-39
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    February 23, 2008 at 4:39 pm
    Hysterical. Absolutely hysterical.
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    runeguy37 Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 4:41 pm
    She looked like a dude.
  53. Profile photo of Rise23Up
    Rise23Up Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 4:53 pm
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    luketoyou Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 5:28 pm
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    RckThsPrty Female 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 5:34 pm
    If it was staged, then it was funny...

    But if it was legit..I feel sorry for the guy, but obviously there was something wrong.

    If somebody asked me to marry them like that, i would say

    Just cos i feel like it.

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    Invalok Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 7:28 pm
    Tip 101: Don`t Propose infront of 10,000+ People. Girls LIKE TO BE TREATED TO SOMETHING THEY LIKE.
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    sabreduelist Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:13 pm
    Poor guy, either way.
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    greengiant Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 8:51 pm
    hug me, mascot
    *sobs, drinks beer, sobs again*
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    toans Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 9:00 pm
    that was selfish of the guy to do that, if i was the girl who said no i would be so embarrased infront of all those people. Fair go he was trying to do something nice but...
    not much thought put into that one
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    angelicamber Female 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 9:49 pm
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    Burnsy777 Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 10:11 pm
    Thats crappy
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    larajunky Female 40-49
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    February 23, 2008 at 10:14 pm
    Every situation if different. Maybe he had been proposing all along and she was like NO then he was like I have a plan and she didn`t go for it, who really knows?

    I personally think its photoshopped as well as staged and she had a very ill fitting sweater/blouse on... make sense? No. lol-ers

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    lorielle Female 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 10:22 pm
    Her body language and facial expressions seem fake to me..especially right before he `proposes`.
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    anonymous_H Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 10:28 pm
    I don`t get this fault issue. The way I see it, the guy flipped a coin for led or silver. sadly he got the wrong side of the coin, and it affected both of them. As for the woman, she did what she had to do, is she is gonna get married then she better be damned sure she wants to.
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    RehtaeH Female 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 11:04 pm
    that really sucks for both of them
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    adz050389 Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 11:18 pm
    ... 8-| if you cant tell that that was a dude in a really bad wig, theres a major problem.
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    adz050389 Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 11:19 pm
    like really... cmon!
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    live2breathe Female 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 11:33 pm
    Now what would REALLY make me feel bad was the whole being-cheered-up-by-the-mascot thing.
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    raztits Male 18-29
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    February 23, 2008 at 11:48 pm
    For the second time, I was not siding with anyone. Was just saying what I would of done in the situation. is a good read about proposing in public etc.

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    Declan191919 Male 13-17
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    February 23, 2008 at 11:58 pm
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    Corporate_BJ Male 18-29
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    February 24, 2008 at 8:08 am
    He should have taken romance advice from Geeky Video Dating guy.
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    RAWRRRrr Male 13-17
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    February 24, 2008 at 10:42 am
    if it was legit,that guy is vry sad and is probally contemplating suicide.
    if its staged,then we all got a good laugh.
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    sublime8ball Male 30-39
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    February 24, 2008 at 12:44 pm
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    Willowpuff Female 18-29
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    February 24, 2008 at 1:09 pm

    Badly acted.

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    bdiekh2 Male 18-29
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    February 24, 2008 at 4:34 pm
    yeah all on the guy

    you have to have talked about these things before you just surprise her like that.

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    freddyferret Male 40-49
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    February 24, 2008 at 8:35 pm
    I don`t think it was staged but it`s possible. If it was real, then HA! Dumbass! You better make sure you know the answer before you do something like that!
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    theforrest Male 18-29
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    February 25, 2008 at 10:45 am
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    swtdreams285 Female 18-29
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    February 26, 2008 at 5:22 pm
    yay,Sac Kings!....ok, I`m not a fan but...;p
    And yup, that was real,all over the local news the next morning
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    shizzamX Female 18-29
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    February 28, 2008 at 3:51 pm
    ohmygod. that sucks so bad, i feel terrible for him. though, i must say i think it`s a bad idea to propose like that, in a place where there are hundreds of people staring at you.
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    magic_number Female 13-17
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    March 6, 2008 at 12:57 pm

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