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Merrill > Muirghiel)
Drinking - used to be bad-ass. Now anyone who can hold their liquor is called an alcoholic. Who would have thought?
That and no one will sleep with you, right?j/k, don`t take that seriously.
Anyways, here’s what I think:
Tattoos: Nothing wrong with them unless you’re some dope who just picks a design from the wall. Getting something unique that means something to you is the whole point.
Piercing: I always thought they looked fem.
Stabbing: Something being phallic makes it less manly? I thought the idea of sticking something in someone until they die was the epitome of the male ego.
Motorcycles: They’re still manly if you work on them yourself.
Leather: Only non-manly if you wear the Mr. Slave outfit or something.
Chivalry: Only non-manly if you’re in high school. More mature women appreciate a decent charming guy. Plus it can get you laid and what’s manlier than that?
eg. stabbing - originally psycho masterminds, now 14 year old gangstas.same sort of thing with bikes, piercings, tattoos... not chivalry, it`s dead guys, sorry. best way to get a girl = don`t be a weightlifting douchebag, don`t be a romantic douchebag, be normal. care but don`t worship.
Woah, woah. Get your nose off Johnny.
Reason I took a vow of celibacy.
No matter what I do; I can never "get the girl". As well, I become an non-nice individual; all of a sudden, I`m either a poser or a very very bad person.
Damn, I wish suicide was a legal way (religiously) to go. My life is meaningless.
Does anyone know where else to find the article? My googling has been unsuccessful.
I agree there`s a difference in being nice and being `slimy/sleazy` or a suck up/kiss ass that`s hoping to buy a girl with gifts.
ONE OF MY GF FRIENDS WAS FLIRTING WITH THIS GUY ON A FREAKING AWESOME SPORTBIKE, SHE WAS PRETTY SURPRISED WHEN THIS OLD DUDE TOOK OFF HIS HELMET.
I`VE BEEN SAVING TO BUY A BADASS REPSOL...
I don`t go out giving roses to every girl in the hopes she`ll go out with me. *That* would be slimy, not chivalrous.
On the other hand I`ve pretended to be several girl`s boyfriend in order to stave off unwanted attention. I always offer to walk(or drive) a girl home, etc.
I understand in most cases a girl doesn`t need my help. Chivalry in my opinion for the most part merely lets her know you are there if she wants you to be. It encompasses a lot more beyond poems and roses.
I`ll admit that about 4 of my girlfriends started out as friends. I really don`t get that whole "just" friends thing.
If I just wanted sex or one night stands they`re easy to come by, and hell even if they`re not there are a few girls who hang around near the ramada hotel, and $40 is cheaper than a meal for two.
It all depends on what you want. For what I want, chivalry has worked just fine.
I don`t understand why people have to say things like what`s said in the article.
ha!This is a bunch of bullpoo.Oh?It`s not?hm.Let`s just agree to disagree in this subject.
Motorcycles: Plain fun! And I still let the man drive.
Stabbing: When was this right, again? I seem to have forgotten.
Leather: I`ve never liked a man in leather anyways.
And Chivalry: My bubby brings me fresh cut roses all the time, and my wall is full of sweet, make-you-cry poems, and he still sings to me sweet lovesongs when I`m feeling down to bring me back into his arms.
This article is WHACK.
Also, Lupine, and you wander why you`re a virgin...?
Lol just joking with you Lupine
*puts her hand up* I don`t have my belly button pierced and I`m older than 8.
You see everything has it`s place, there`s a time to be sweet, etc. (but that`s for both sexes) and there`s a time to be witty, sarcastic, challenging, interesting, and in general fun to be around.Some guys (and girls) take this stuff (sarcasm, etc) to the extreme and they`re non-nice individuals and bltches. A balance of the two is healthy, but unfortunately people usually go to one extreme or the other and never find a happy middle ground. So then you get the stereotype that "nice guys finish last" etc. It`s not that they finish last, it`s that they`re no fun, at all. They`re too serious and too nice. Girls get this, that`s how guys become "best friends" because they`re just too nice and the spark of attraction
1) Whoever spoke about women`s equality, etc. Exactly if you want to be treated equal in work, etc. Then don`t expect to be paid for or coddled as was considered proper a long time ago. You can`t have the best of both worlds.
Everyone wants chivalry but they don`t think about when chivalry was developed and used. You know back before the women`s rights movements of the 19th century when a woman couldn`t live by herself and if she had no guy in her life to tell her how to live it, then her employer even gave her housing and reserved part of her income (if she was single, she had to work) so she would have spending money because women were considered too stupid to take care of themselves.
But hey, if you want to be treated like an idiot, then fine, want it.
And the leather one has big balls, like, really big...
They might be faggy in the US, but they`re still damn manly here.
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hahaha R U Kidding, always makes me crack up.
This article was ... pretty saddeningDamn scenesters.
The leather thing.......*barf*
If you find the writer a girl without a belly button pierced, he`ll show you a 7-year-old girl..?
`Chivalry` - this isnt dead, and nor should it be.
OK, time for bed. :-P
Either they`re boys who wish they`d be as succesful as the selfish idiot who gets all the girls and thus pretend to be "better". Or they`re girls who like to pretend they are deep and emotional, longing for a chivalrous lover, while at the same time they`re with said idiot weight lifter.
Once you get a chance to live out your chivalry fantasy you`ll be back to the non-nice individual that treats you like poo. Stop lying to yourselves and face the truth ;)
* No it isn`t"
just my two cents worth.
*Sob....* but it`s cool to see a middle-aged man having fun w/motorcycles & classic cars~!
and i love motorcycles
I`m gay, and thats nasty.