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    buddy Male 30-39
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    October 18, 2006 at 1:05 am
    Link: 100 Teens vs 100 Parents - What do parents really know about their teen kid`s sex lives? Warning: adult themes.
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    bambii311 Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 2:32 am
    Kind of naive of the parents I must say
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    SarahofBorg Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 2:33 am
    Oh sure, the kids SAY they have, but they`re really just BSing.
    Besides, they don`t clarify how old the teens are, they could be 18.
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    bambii311 Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 2:35 am
    Haha if you go down, you`ll see that Molly Ringwald is back!
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    angelicamber Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 2:36 am
    “My father tells me stories about his youth and scolds me for not having as much sex as he did.”
    Boy, 18

    Way to go dad keep on knocking at him till hes a daddy like you..

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    dudeman1st Male 30-39
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    October 18, 2006 at 2:41 am
    Not much of an eye opener. Couldn`t you expect those results? How about "Number of kids who have been stoned while playing Xbox?" and "Number of kids who puked out of a car window while drunk?"
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    kph155 Male 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 2:42 am
    “My father tells me stories about his youth and scolds me for not having as much sex as he did.”
    Boy, 18

    ^^LOL!!!

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    Aerophyre Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 2:46 am
    ^^^ Yeah that comment really upset me....

    and as far as the naivety of the parents goes:

    Denial is a helluva drug....

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    R_U_Kidding Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 2:50 am
    I`m with SarahOfBorg. Either lots of BSing by the teens, or the parents really have thier heads in the sand (or both).

    off-topic: Aerophyre, what exactly is with that photo in your post?

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    damoo Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 3:07 am
    hahahahahaha ah good old parents.
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    ariadnese Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 3:10 am
    7% of the kids in that highschool have had other people watch them have sex? Yeah either they lied or they polled kids from St. Mary`s School for Prostitutes.
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    DMDekoth Male 70 & Over
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    October 18, 2006 at 3:22 am
    Oh how sad. I hope these parents didn`t answer truthfully.
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    BigBonny Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 3:48 am
    Ah poor naive parents, when will they learn?
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    Tinkerbellio Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 4:21 am
    Parents are clueless


    Must be a generation thing

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    tourettes Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 4:26 am
    i think the kids are bsing. i bsed about sex alot.
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    quedas Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 7:07 am
    Regrettable sexual experiences

    “Fingering. That really wasn’t very fun.”
    Girl, 15

    ^^
    Don`t know why, but this just made me laugh.

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    deaf_woman Male 30-39
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    October 18, 2006 at 7:15 am
    I`m bsing about sex right now.
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    AmyNicoleduh Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 7:57 am
    "Besides, they don`t clarify how old the teens are, they could be 18."

    Yes they do.

    What grade are you in?
    9th......21 (8 boys, 13 girls)
    10th...16 (5 boys, 11 girls)
    11th....26 (21 boys, 5 girls)
    12th....37 (19 boys, 18 girls)

    How old are you?
    13...2 (2 girls)
    14...15 (6 boys, 9 girls)
    15...16 (6 boys, 10 girls)
    16...30 (21 boys, 9 girls)
    17...32 (15 boys, 17 girls)
    18....5 (5 boys)

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    YevraHNairB Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 8:27 am
    Things like this do not make me anxious to be a parent....but I think it will be tougher for our generation`s kids to get away with anything.
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    UAKellie Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 8:39 am
    yea uh.. Im 22.. and I swear my Dad is still in Denial that I even know what a "boy" is lol.
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    Woot45 Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 9:13 am
    lol
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    Joesus Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 9:15 am
    less parents think their child has undressed someone than think they had sex? wtf?
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    IkeRay Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 9:22 am
    i know there was at least one parent that said yes to everything. hell, that parent might have even been the one that watched their child have sex...thats whats wrong with the youth of today, parents. parents are no longer parents. they would rather have 2 working parents and have some stranger raise their kid. the only time they see their kid is from 6-9pm, 3 hours is hardly enough time to raise a kid. so to make up for these 3 hours, the parents let the kids get away with more, such as smoking weed and drinking, which leads to sex in most cases.

    that is probably why these parents didnt know anything about their kids, they dont spend time with them. my mom pried herself into my life, she knew who i was dating, and who my friends were. she knew where i was at at all times, and she had 7 other kids that she knew the same things for. thats a parent!

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    Qpax Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 9:39 am
    `such as smoking weed and drinking, which leads to sex in most cases`

    ^ Made me lol.
    Another thing I found funny was the parent that said `oral, anal, whatever, it`s all still sex, `.

    Tee hee.

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    farquaadhnch Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 9:42 am
    “It’s awesome, but wait until you’re 16.”
    Boy, 14

    Riiiight...

    Also, it`s not 7% had oral sex, it`s 7/100 SAY they had oral sex.

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    Matwix_2004 Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 9:52 am
    You do know, kids (or teens) lie. I`m sure most of these kids lied just to make themselfs seem bigger than they actually are.
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    Qpax Male 18-29
    188 posts
    October 18, 2006 at 10:08 am
    Another thing, why is `kissed someone` separate from french-kissed?

    A peck on the cheek is hardly sexual. )-|

    And what`s with the damn baseball analogy?
    `First base is okay, but anything else leads to a home run`?
    I hate that quantitative idea. It seems so immature, and it`s the parents who are using it!

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    flingspoo Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 11:10 am
    its really disgusting what has happened to "parents" these days. theyre afraid to be parents. they just want to be their kids friends.
    kids test boundries. if they have no structure or rules, theyre all over the place.
    and i understand that "just say no" may not work very well, but these people are not giving their child the choice to chose not to do it!!
    abstinence IS an option!! people dont want kids to know that. as soon as they hear the word they think "Bible-Banger"
    there are strains of HPV (causes/can cause anything from warts to cervical cancer) that the female body can give its self!! just by having sex with too many partners. even if you are using protection every time!!
  29. Profile photo of LochNess-Abz
    LochNess-Abz Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 11:11 am
    “Having sex with a girl during her period.”

    HAHAHAHA xD That filled my head with...a gory image. That girl must have been pretty slutty to have done it during her period and not wait a few days later. Pffft. The guy was probably lying but its fun to take the piss ^_^

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    ryan14 Male 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 11:11 am
    i cant believe that some parents thought their teens HAD done some of these things
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    CheezeMonkey Male 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 11:16 am
    wow
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    Naoscaire Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 11:18 am
    These kids have some issues...
  33. Profile photo of CheezeMonkey
    CheezeMonkey Male 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 11:19 am
    hey how do you know about st. mary`s??
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    Vikstar Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 12:13 pm
    I think it`s pretty clear some of these kids were lying... only 57% of them admitted to `taking matters into their own hands` lol...
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    shellbullet Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 12:45 pm
    from lochness-abz:
    "“Having sex with a girl during her period.”
    HAHAHAHA xD That filled my head with...a gory image. That girl must have been pretty slutty to have done it during her period and not wait a few days later. Pffft. The guy was probably lying but its fun to take the piss ^_^"

    you`re gonna ROFL at this, but when I was in high school, we were all 100% sure the only way to not get a girl pregnant was to do it during her period. =D

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    Cynnick Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 12:50 pm
    Why your child has not had sex
    `He`s a little too immature`
    Mother of a 13 year old.

    Um, yes. Just a tad immature.

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    glocktypus Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 1:01 pm
    How would you not know if your kid had been on a date? I mean I understand the others... but?
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    YoSassy Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 1:04 pm
    I bet its a lot of kids lying.
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    obeydarklord Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 1:05 pm
    mmmmmmm sex.
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    darth_batman Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 1:22 pm
    im 19 and ive done 2 of those things, and not because i dont want to. hahaha, im so poo. my dad had 3 kids when he was my age. but the really disturbing thing is that if i was gay i could have done most of those things by now - ive had PLENTY of offers. i really hate it when they wont take "i`m not gay" for an answer
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    Timicus Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 1:27 pm
    ^ Agreed.

    By the way, if there`s 2 things I`ve learned about people in general, they are:
    1) People like having sex.
    2) People don`t like not having sex.

    Hell, I wish I was having sex right now. But for real, the kid`s responces aren`t surprising. Peoples is gonna do teh nasty! It happens! I think making it `dirty` is the problem, so much so that they can`t talk to their clueless parents about it. THEN we have to start worrying about all these wonderful STDs, because of the lack of frankness and communication.

    This makes me wanna watch Kinsey again.

    Liam Neeson FTW.

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    Guest5386 Female 18-29
    302 posts
    October 18, 2006 at 1:44 pm
    I work with teens and I will say thats pretty accurate... No, kids not lying... maybe some ... but some wont admit things when others will just say it to look cool...

    Pretty slutty to do it in her periods? Dont think so, maybe she just like it better or are affraid of getting pregnant (its a commun thing to think you cant get pregnant in your periods) What is "slutty" anyway... women having sex and liking it is not slutty -__-

    for the "abstinence IS an option!" person... really hiding your head in the sand inst it?

    If BUSH (god i hate that man) did make that statement not so long ago that he will not give gouvernement money to any project that dont have for main idea "abstinence" we will not be here now... how can we do prevention when we cannot name the damn thing?

    Dont say "OMGF!!1! sex is BAD! you gonna get diases and DIE!!1!!"

    Use condoms. Sex is fun (when you stop thinking all those streotype that have been feed to us and do it wh

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    Guest5386 Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 1:47 pm
    -part 1 of my long rant ^^ sorry for the wall of text-

    Use condoms. Sex is natural, normal and fun (when you stop thinking all those streotype that have been feed to us and do it when YOU are ready... not cause its look cool and not cause someone else think you are ready (and that include your parents) )

    Sex is fun... enjoy it... Just dont die for it... Protect yoursefl.

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    Trizz Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 1:50 pm
    found it quite interesting really. “My father tells me stories about his youth and scolds me for not having as much sex as he did.” LOL
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    bart_27 Male 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 1:53 pm
    LOL... is all i can say...LOL
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    Sabre200000 Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 1:57 pm
    LochNess-Abz --

    Actually sex is great for a woman during her period. It relieves practically all pressure and pains...not to mention it helps actually speed up the process (up to twice as fast) of her period.

    You just have to have a man and a woman that are both comfortable with the idea. (oh and a guy that is gentle/patient and takes the time to bring the woman to climax to help relieve her :) )

    ^^^A bit too much information maybe..but it`s just another example of information that most people who are having sex (and probably shouldn`t if they don`t even know these facts) don`t even know or think about.

    Ignorance drives me crazy aaaaaaaah, LOL

    (oh and i`m only 23 and I`m the one that is usually giving the advice....lol (again)...it`s called researching/educating yourself peeps)

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    jvcc Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 1:58 pm
    Oh, my gosh. Those stupid teens.
  48. Profile photo of HalfPintRoo
    HalfPintRoo Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 2:06 pm
    why are my posts always removed when I don`t say anything wrong??????????????
  49. Profile photo of Guest5386
    Guest5386 Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 2:14 pm
    make me think... if you dont have sexual education and want some (informations .. of course -_-) there a couple of nice link :P
    (sorry, work follow me everywhere)

    Why dont you ask Alice?
    www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/
    (in english)

    Or even Elysa?
    http://elysa.uqam.ca/
    (in french)

    Those are serious Link, sorry to be boring ^_- Contribute and ask questions too ^^ sorry that we cannot answer you right away we get tons of those :P

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    EJMerlin Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 2:59 pm
    Sounds like (someone)`s mom didn`t have a lot to do or she would not have been keeping such a close eye on her 8 kids.
    As for the parents, mine don`t know any better yet either but they always gave me the facts straight up, no bsing about abstinence or morals or any of that bs.
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    guapodude Male 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 3:06 pm
    Damn New Yorkers...
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    forestq Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 3:19 pm
    That`s king of sad...Doesn`t anyone believe in waiting anymore?...anyone?
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    0AmY0 Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 3:23 pm
    That was very disturbing, some of those teens have done things that I wouldn`t do. Sick.
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    narlycharlie Male 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 3:41 pm
    Only 57 masturbated, yeah right!
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    backdraft123 Male 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 3:50 pm
    Talking to their parents about sex:
    "All they said was `keep your pecker in your pants`" Boy, 17.

    HAHA, that was great. Sounds like an answer i would give.

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    Guest5386 Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 3:57 pm
    Narlycharlie... how many girls was in that test ?

    Girls dont like to say they masturbate ... its the "Goods girls dont do that" kind of thinking...

    Girls, go masturbate, most woman experience orgasm for the first time that way ... and you dont have to stick anything in .. the inside of you vagina is as sensitive as the inside of your mouth (yes, orgasm by penetration is a very well spread stereotype XD)

    Go ahead girls! Masturbate! XDDDD ! Its good for you!

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    jdelaney Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 4:02 pm
    Wow...I`m about the same age as them and I`ve only done two: kissing and...well,, alone. I feel that I`ll wait for marriage. Not saying everyone has to that just me. And some of these kids are my sister`s age! That disturbed me...
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    nicole_xo Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 4:03 pm
    Parents are stupid.
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    GraveCicada Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 4:10 pm
    TEENAGERS ARE SUCH WHORES.

    I kid.

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    evil_noodle Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 4:16 pm
    Wow I`m 14, and still a virgin of course, and when I do lose my virginity, I will be scared to ever tell my mom. I don`t think that I would. I wish that we had a relationship like some of the parents/teens on here where they just tell their parents. >_< Shes a great mom, but like all of the other parents on here, excluding a few, she thinks that I will always be innocent. She knows that I gave head before... but only because she was rummaging through my stuff. And her reation on me was scary. She even threatened to move out and leave me and my brother behind with her boyfriend. =( Even worse, later she threatened to put me in a home when she found out I was bi and I did weed before. Yeah so I don`t think that I would ever tell her. EVER. I am well educated on sex and stuff, but maybe parents should be educated more on teen life.
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    violingirl77 Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 4:21 pm
    Why have more people french kissed than told someone they loved them? Is it just me or is there something wrong with that...
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    nikkyraney Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 4:32 pm
    i loved it
    but um there weren`t 100 kids
    there were 54 so it was harder to do percentages
  63. Profile photo of sertrbl
    sertrbl Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 4:36 pm
    "I`m with SarahOfBorg. Either lots of BSing by the teens, or the parents really have thier heads in the sand (or both)."
    what, you dont believe todays youth is corrupt enough to be like that?
    open your eyes. it may have been that way when you were a kid, but now high school kids are no better than the 21 year olds who go out on weekends and have one night stands.
    people have sex in school stairwells, bathrooms, and empty classrooms all the time. its really not that uncommon anymore.
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    jako9b14270 Male 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 5:17 pm
    lol stay tight to wear white
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    sporka Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 5:22 pm
    I`m disturbed by the one parent who said their child had probably had sex on their bed and taken pictures and had sex in public and yeah ew. O_o

    I have an issue with the fact that it`s 100 students but 50 parents. If it`s fifty parents, then they`d have to have even percentages for everything (a parent can`t half a yes or no question). Also, only four of the parents were women? So this is more a survey of what FATHERS think their children are doing. There is a difference between girls talking to their mothers and boys talking to their fathers.

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    sporka Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 5:30 pm
    And Opax, I think the two are seperated because French kissing involves the tounge. :P As opposed to, like, lips closed, I guess.
  67. Profile photo of HOBYandy
    HOBYandy Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 5:39 pm
    the teens are lying...on 57% masturbate? yeah, right!
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    ranon Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 5:45 pm
    You know there are two effects here that should be considered. The tendency of teens to lie and say that they have had sex even when they havent and the tendency of parents to lie in the other direction even when they know their kid has had sex. That might account for some of the discrepancies.
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    Overmann Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 6:13 pm
    "A peck on the cheek is hardly sexual."

    I beg to differ. Any form of affection between animals is sexual.

    *sigh*... the youth of today.

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    HalfPintRoo Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 6:35 pm
    I`ve waited!!!!!!! I`m 23 and engaged!!!
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    Alcippe Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 6:59 pm
    sporka, there were 100 kids and 100 parents, the genders were the onyl thing uneven. ive got no idea how you screwed that up. seeing as its the title and all, and in the link, and...
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    VolcomStoner Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 7:24 pm
    I`m with Guest5386 on this issue... sex is not bad, and telling kids that it is causes problems. We should be teaching kids to make responsible decisions not tracking their every move and acting like we can`t trust them. I mean congratulations to IkeRay for having such wonderful parents, but the rest of us live in the real world. My mom was taught only abstinence and never informed about sex and that`s how she ended up pregnant with me at age 16. Just one example of why teaching abstinence only is unrealistic.

    I would also like to address the issue of LochNess-Abz calling that girl a slut... What grounds do you have for making that judgement? Having sex while menstruating does not make you slutty. Furthermore, no woman should be labeled a slut simply because she enjoys sex. Please do not perpetuate the chauvanistic idea that only men are allowed to enjoy sex.

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    NumbuhZero Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 7:30 pm
    Where do these people live?
    Are those parents spending their days in a dark room somewhere?
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    Pikachu42 Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 8:15 pm
    wow...parent`s are so just out of the loop...but then again...it`s always been that way
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    WHOISIT12345 Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 9:04 pm
    .....wow
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    IHeartJesus Female 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 9:22 pm
    My Mom has always openly talked to me about sex but never really told me when I could do it. She set rules for dating (couldn`t start until I was sixteen) but as for sex she just said be responsible. But I have made the decision to wait until I`m married because I know that I want to be a commited relationship so I won`t regret giving myself to someone who will dump me a month later. I believe if I wait for marriage guys won`t just be like "Oh, she`s the girl that puts out, I`ll go out with her." I`d rather be liked for me not because I give lots of sex. And I know that a lot of people in high school are doing and me and my other virginal freinds get made fun of a lot for it, but I personal don`t care, I`m not going to give into peer pressure to have sex before I`m ready because once you give it up you can never get it back, and I don`t want to regret my first ecperience, or any after that.
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    Someone_Else Female 13-17
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    October 18, 2006 at 9:25 pm
    Ahhh...ignorant parents.
  78. Profile photo of Qpax
    Qpax Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 9:55 pm
    `I beg to differ. Any form of affection between animals is sexual.`

    Seriously?
    What about kissing a parent/child/sibling etc on the cheek?
    This isn`t going to turn into the Pulp Fiction style `foot massage debate`, is it?

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    Schooler90 Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 9:56 pm
    WOW, WHO WAS THE 1 PARENT ThAT KNEW EVERYTHING. STUPID KID TOLD EM EVERYTHING!!!!!!
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    Vastarien Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 10:01 pm
    One mum said that she focuses on diseases instead of pleasure. I pity her.
  81. Profile photo of Schooler90
    Schooler90 Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 10:09 pm
    farquaadhnch, 7 out of 100 IS 7% retard
  82. Profile photo of Schooler90
    Schooler90 Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 10:24 pm
    anyway, sex is fun
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    Overmann Male 18-29
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    October 18, 2006 at 11:53 pm
    "...sex is not bad, and telling kids that it is causes problems. We should be teaching kids to make responsible decisions not tracking their every move and acting like we can`t trust them."

    I align myself with the European mindset. They tend to believe that sexuality and nudity is entirely natural and that violence is the vice that should be censored. Here in the States, it`s the other way around. Let your children see a guy get decapitated or disemboweled in a PG-13 movie, but God have mercy should they choose to show a female nipple.

    "Just one example of why teaching abstinence only is unrealistic."

    100% agreed.

    "Furthermore, no woman should be labeled a slut simply because she enjoys sex. Please do not perpetuate the chauvanistic idea that only men are allowed to enjoy sex."

    Would you agree, VolcomStoner, that 1. a woman (man) can enjoy sex too much and that 2. it is this behavior that qualifies her (him) as a slut?

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    Overmann Male 18-29
    2600 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 12:00 am
    "What about kissing a parent/child/sibling etc on the cheek?"

    Yes, it`s still sexual. The physical act of affection doesn`t discriminate between whatever behaviors and mental processes led up to the physical affection. I don`t think of hugging my parents as sexual, yet physically and mildly, it still is. ...Yea, I`m not a very psychologically well-adjusted individual.

    "This isn`t going to turn into the Pulp Fiction style `foot massage debate`, is it?"

    I`ve never seen Pulp Fiction, perhaps you could specify for me?

  85. Profile photo of new_zeeland_
    new_zeeland_ Male 13-17
    80 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 2:00 am
    this test is horribly biased. you can`t just pick 100 teens and 100 adults, ask them questions about relationships and sex, and decide to judge all promiscuity in teenagers in the world! that`s statistic bias!a very small amount of people were surveyed. 200 hundred people. in manhattan, one of the largest parts of New York.

    200 people! you can`t judge all parents and all teenagers with such a small number! that`s utter bullscat!

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    mrsptrmurphy Female 13-17
    58 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 2:09 am
    That was a bit funny. Not valid stats though.
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    petercole14 Male 18-29
    178 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 2:16 am
    lol
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    Guest5386 Female 18-29
    302 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 2:56 am
    Whoa ... stop there ... a kiss by you sibling is NOT sexual ... can be .. but not really ...

    is considerate SEXUAL : when there is SEXUAL INTENTION...

    Your parents taking pictures of you as a kid in your bath IS NOT a attempt of pedophilia ... who dont have pictures of them naked in the bath when they was a baby ?
    BUT
    A simple hand on a shoulder or a lascive finger run on the back of someone can be sexual. How many people get turned on just by having them neck touched by them lover?

    the difference is in the INTENTION... further more, if the guy pass his hand on a girl and the girl have the FEELING the guy want something sexual... then its sexual...

    but if none of the people imply feel its with a sexual intention... then its not sexual... Like the naked baby pictures in bath ...

    Other comment: I dont judge USA... but a place where you are allowed to carry a gun but not 2 people of same sex kiss on TV...

    I guess I just cant understand ...

  89. Profile photo of bianchi
    bianchi Female 18-29
    606 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 4:25 am
    its a sad, sad world we live in... innocence is quickly claimed...
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    The_Frogg Male 18-29
    619 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 8:29 am
    I agree with SarahofBorg

    I know a bunch of kids who say they proformed oral sex but in reality they are lying

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    yakkitori Female 13-17
    630 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 8:49 am
    "Why they haven’t had sex
    “I don’t want to be an animal.”
    Boy, 15 "

    hahah

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    bubblebubb Female 18-29
    339 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 9:08 am


    I dont think the parents are ignorant, they`re just comparing their kids to when they were that age, and it was a very different world back then. Things like "have you seen an x rated movie" kids have access to the internet now and download things, whereas the parents never had that, thinking about it they probably didnt even have VHS back then! And "have you had sex with someone from the internet" Its all alien to the parents who did things differently, so they`re not expecting thei kids to do it

    In their day the message forced onto them was - "Dont have sex. Only adults can have sex. Your too young."

    Nowdays its a totally opposite message - "Have as much sex as you like, just use a condom"

    I dont know if that message is working or not though, seeing as around 30% teens in that poll has had unprotected sex

  93. Profile photo of Fussy
    Fussy Female 13-17
    138 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 10:05 am
    I think its wrong for parents to even imagine their child performing oral sex etc >.>
  94. Profile photo of Overmann
    Overmann Male 18-29
    2600 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 10:31 am
    "Your parents taking pictures of you as a kid in your bath IS NOT a attempt of pedophilia ... who dont have pictures of them naked in the bath when they was a baby ?"

    There is no physical affection shared in such pictures, so no, it isn`t sexual. Did I say it was or something? All animals are born naked by default and there isn`t necessarily anything sexual about us returning to this state.

    Guest5386, what difference, physically, exists when a father kisses his daughter goodnight and offers the same kiss with a secret desire to bone her? I say sexual affection doesn`t distinguish between intent; you say it does. While I can`t relate to your opinion and won`t try to change it, know that I can support my opinion just as much (if not more so) as you.

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    bubblebubb Female 18-29
    339 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 10:59 am
    Overmann, theres a difference between affection and sexual affection!

    So i disagree, kissing your daughter goodnight IS physically different than kissing your lover, your whole body language is different!

  96. Profile photo of Overmann
    Overmann Male 18-29
    2600 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 1:19 pm
    "Overmann, theres a difference between affection and sexual affection!"

    Not in nature. Any physical affection explicitly expressed by other animals is exclusively sexual. Therefore, any distinction between affection and sexual affection is a purely human endeavor.

    "So i disagree, kissing your daughter goodnight IS physically different than kissing your lover..."

    You didn`t fully read into my given example, bubblebubb. I said the father secretly wishes to have sex with his daughter, meaning he doesn`t allow any inclinations to manifest themselves in a kiss lest good ol` Mum finds out. Indeed, there`s a difference between a closet feeling of love and an expressed feeling of love, and the varying levels of affection expressed inbetween.

  97. Profile photo of VolcomStoner
    VolcomStoner Female 18-29
    174 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 3:44 pm
    In response to your question, Overmann, I don`t believe that enjoying sex "too much" makes one a slut, necessarily...but it does make a nymphomaniac. It is based more on how they act on that feeling. If one chooses to engage in promiscuous sexual behavior, they may assume the title of "slut".

    For example, you can enjoy sex excessively but still only engage in sexual activity with one person (i.e. a boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse). This would qualify you as a nympho, but not a slut. I would define a slut more based on the behavior of having multiple, random sexual partners... or engaging in adulterous behavior when one is married.

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    clashrocker Female 13-17
    133 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 5:11 pm
    Regrettable sexual experiences:

    “Having sex with a girl during her period.”
    Boy, 17

    Ahahahahaha.

  99. Profile photo of byebyemoto
    byebyemoto Female 13-17
    345 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 5:32 pm
    ........
    I haven`t done any of those things.
    But I`m only in my second year of being a teenager.
    And I`ve been ASKED on a date, but that`s it.
    God, I suck.
  100. Profile photo of mrwnt
    mrwnt Male 18-29
    334 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 6:02 pm
    why???!!! why must i be a christian!?!?!?
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    supa_ninja Female 13-17
    144 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 7:22 pm
    im not suprised, at all.
  102. Profile photo of kitten23
    kitten23 Female 18-29
    62 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 8:05 pm
    i just wanna know what kind of parent says "yeah, i think my kids had sex with a virgin..."
  103. Profile photo of Guest5386
    Guest5386 Female 18-29
    302 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 9:05 pm
    WHOA once again ... OK... answer to many questions :

    The fact if the kiss to your daughter is sexual or not ... even if a father THINK of having sex to his daughter the kiss is sexual FOR HIM... not to his daughter who dont feel the sexual intention in it... (unless the father name is Woody Allen but thats another story ^_-)

    For the "nympho" term asked her ... first of all, NYMPHOMANIA is a term that doesnt exist anymore, it was a deviantion repertoried in a book back in 1700`s and no longer in use because we now know that when a woman have sex for the pleasure of it, its not because she is possess by the evil of satan. This little mistake in term now fixed, I will like to bring to your attention that its perfectly fine for a woman to have sex for the pleasure of it.

    Why does a man sleeping with 50 girls is a hero and a girl sleeping with 35 guys is a "slut" ?

    easy explanation >>>

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    Guest5386 Female 18-29
    302 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 9:12 pm
    In religion, the man pleasure always have been tolerate because its nesscesary to the reproduction Lets say a man need to ejaculate ,aka have a orgasm so have fun, in the matter of making babies... (thats not always true ... but the chance are better if the man ejacualte)

    SO the man pleasure was by far more tolerate since it was "nessecary" to the act of reproduction ...

    Woman ... the pleasure of a woman is not nesscary to reproduction (because if it was, a freaking good amount of us will never have been born ^_-)so it was say to be satanic and get you sick
    (they say it was making you weak, have your legs shivers and weak, feel cold, reduce your mental capacity and much more... had a orgasm before? lets me say those are all normal.. dont ask me maths right after i couldnt answer you ^^ BUT those was see as the sign of a sickness so it was satanic)

  105. Profile photo of Guest5386
    Guest5386 Female 18-29
    302 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 9:13 pm

    SO if you still belive a women who LIKE sex is a slut, you actually keeping up the old old old way it was back in the 1700`s

    just when i was thinking society could evoluate .. i guess evolution is a bit slower in some beliefs ^^

  106. Profile photo of Overmann
    Overmann Male 18-29
    2600 posts
    October 19, 2006 at 10:12 pm
    "even if a father THINK of having sex to his daughter the kiss is sexual FOR HIM... not to his daughter who dont feel the sexual intention in it..."

    The daughter doesn`t have to "feel the intent" in order for the kiss to be sexual. I`m saying intent itself has nothing to do with whether the act is sexual. In order to understand this, I think you need to break away from a "human" perspective in favor of a more animalistic one, as indeed we are all animals.

  107. Profile photo of clevebeat
    clevebeat Female 18-29
    11 posts
    October 20, 2006 at 12:14 am
    I definitely think there is a difference between affection shown between family members and something that is "sexual". All physical affection is not sexual. There`s a huge difference between nuturing and sexual connotations. You are assuming there is only a sexual form of expressing love and that is not true. For example, what about animals or humans being affectionate toward other animals? If I kiss my cat, is that sexual? If my dog kisses my cat is that sexual? That would imply ideas that simply go against nature. However, the other party does not need to feel the intention of affection in order for something to be sexual. That would also be stating that if the implication was not understood by the person receiving affection that it wouldn`t be sexual. Not so. For example a retarded child or even a very small may not understand that they are being touched in a sexual manner. But it IS still sexual.
  108. Profile photo of clevebeat
    clevebeat Female 18-29
    11 posts
    October 20, 2006 at 12:23 am
    Anyway, this study is so invalid it`s impossible to draw any conclusions on it whatsoever. No one else noted how the parents polled were not the same parents as the above students. They were from the same demographic, but that in and of itself skews the data. Who knows if there is another uncorrelated factor unexplored that could account for the differences between those parent`s kids and the kids in the study? We make the assumption that the kids are similiar, and they may be somewhat, but you cannot draw any definite conclusions from this at all.

    I also work with youth. I`ve seen teens lie to "fit in" and I`ve also seen parents who have absolutely no clue what their teen is up to. There is certainly a discrepancy between parents and kids. The scary part is, what`s it going to be like for US when we become parents and what we think of our kids? I`m sure our generation will be equally as unaware. Every generation engages in activity earlier than the previous one.

  109. Profile photo of Guest5386
    Guest5386 Female 18-29
    302 posts
    October 20, 2006 at 12:48 am
    I agree, the person dont have to understand that its sexual to have it labelled as "sexual". My mistake ^^ I wanted to show that the intent behind it was a very big factor. So do we have a consensus on "when there is intention of something sexual, its sexual" ?

    If a grandma get over happy about her grand daughter and kiss the baby all over her face and on her lips... does its gonna make it sexual? no, its not gonna because none of the party had sexual intention, same for baby pictures in the bath.

    I also agree with Clevebeat that there not only sexual affection in life. I love my familly, my friends and hell with it, even my kitty Céleste... dont make me go into bestality and incest. Thank you clevebeat ^^

  110. Profile photo of Bekll
    Bekll Female 18-29
    1984 posts
    October 20, 2006 at 1:30 am
    Only two did I say "yes" to of these 37. I once took a purity test on okcupid that had 1,000 questions. I was around 95-98% pure, and I`m 19.

    I`m not religious either.

    Ironic, no?

  111. Profile photo of Overmann
    Overmann Male 18-29
    2600 posts
    October 20, 2006 at 1:36 pm
    "I definitely think there is a difference between affection shown between family members and something that is `sexual`."

    You would, being human and all.

    "There`s a huge difference between nuturing and sexual connotations."

    Not as huge as you might think. Why, do you suppose, do females experience sexual pleasure through the nipple? To serve as an incentive to suckle children. It`s just instinctual in nature.

    "You are assuming there is only a sexual form of expressing love and that is not true."

    I said nothing of love, only physical affection. I`m not at all talking about any potential emotional side to affection, only *the act itself*. Let that sink in a bit. Do you suppose animals love? For that matter, do humans love in any broader definition than through a chemical reaction?

  112. Profile photo of Overmann
    Overmann Male 18-29
    2600 posts
    October 20, 2006 at 1:43 pm
    "If I kiss my cat, is that sexual?"

    Yes.

    "If my dog kisses my cat is that sexual?"

    Other animals don`t express such forms of affection, you are anthropomorphizing. I said before the only form they know is sexual. And in truth humans don`t know of any other forms of affection but sex, yet they insist on relabelling them. Something about it being destructive to the bonds that hold human society together, I wager.

    "I love my familly, my friends..."

    Once more, I said nothing about love.

  113. Profile photo of Guest5386
    Guest5386 Female 18-29
    302 posts
    October 20, 2006 at 4:40 pm
    Overmann said:
    "If I kiss my cat, is that sexual?"
    Yes.

    I guess its just my bad english but i need you to explain me what you mean exactly (english not being my language I guess i just missed a step there)

    I feel like you are telling that all the conctact or interaction with humans and animals are have a sexual connotation. Is that what you mean? if not where is the limit... ?

  114. Profile photo of Guest5386
    Guest5386 Female 18-29
    302 posts
    October 20, 2006 at 4:42 pm
    bad way to put words together ^^ I just read my sentence and its doesnt make any sense lol

    I feel like you are telling that all the conctact or interaction with humans and animals are have a sexual connotation.

    I mean: Do all interactions, from humans to others humans or humans to animals, have a sexual meaning.

    thats what i meant ^^ sorry ^^

  115. Profile photo of Overmann
    Overmann Male 18-29
    2600 posts
    October 20, 2006 at 5:02 pm
    "Do all interactions, from humans to others humans or humans to animals, have a sexual meaning."

    Certainly not, but as far as affection goes, it falls on a sexual scale. Hugging is only mildly sexual while penetration is greatly sexual and so forth, for all animals.

    I don`t reckon there has been this much explicit discussion about sex on IAB in a long while. I doubt I`ll ever say sex\sexual in as many days again anytime soon.

  116. Profile photo of VolcomStoner
    VolcomStoner Female 18-29
    174 posts
    October 20, 2006 at 6:44 pm
    In response to Guest5386, while I appreciate your attempt to "educate" me, I think you may have misunderstood. I used the term "nymphomanic" for lack of a better term to describe someone with excessive sexual desire. I`m sorry if the term isn`t politically correct, but thanks for the bit of history. And I in no way intended to imply that it isn`t ok for a woman to have sex for the pleasure of it. I do, however, disagree with being promiscuous... and just to clarify (so we`re on the same page this time), I use that term to describe anyone (male or female) who has indiscriminate sexual relations with a large number of partners esp. in a short period of time.

    Also, for the record, I don`t hold the double standard that "a man sleeping with 50 girls is a hero and a girl sleeping with 35 guys is a "slut"... I would have the same opinion of them both.

  117. Profile photo of VivaLaBooty
    VivaLaBooty Male 13-17
    90 posts
    October 20, 2006 at 9:11 pm
    Damned rappers with their shiny teethes and fancy cars, corrupting the youth. It`s that damned R Kelly`s fault.
  118. Profile photo of Stentorian
    Stentorian Male 13-17
    426 posts
    October 21, 2006 at 12:24 am
    :-/ F*cking retards. Those answers can`t be trusted because first of all people lie and second of all some people exaggerate things. They think they`ve done something when they haven`t. Anyway though, that`s still disgusting, teens shouldn`t be having sex that young, I mean some of the answers from the teens said to wait until 10th grade or until 16 years old like it`s okay. I mean come on, it`s 10th grade and 9th graders are thinking it`s acceptable by then. People should wait until at least 17 or 18. |-X People suck
  119. Profile photo of qwidjibo
    qwidjibo Male 30-39
    286 posts
    October 21, 2006 at 9:29 am
    “Fingering. That really wasn’t very fun.”
    Girl, 15

    “Having sex with a girl during her period.”
    Boy, 17
    ^^lol

  120. Profile photo of qwidjibo
    qwidjibo Male 30-39
    286 posts
    October 21, 2006 at 9:33 am
    What isn’t appropriate
    “Sex isn’t appropriate. Oral, anal, it’s all sex.”
    father of a 16-year-old girl

    “Sex with prostitutes.”
    mother of a 16-year-old boy

    “You should not indulge in sex unless you have a job to support buying condoms or birth control.”
    mother of a 16-year-old girl
    ^^^^lol

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    homsar42 Female 13-17
    144 posts
    October 23, 2006 at 5:10 pm
    “My son is definitely straight. We have a gay relative and he doesn’t like him.”
    mother of a 15-year-old boy

    Because he doesn`t like ONE gay person he has to be straight? Some people shouldn`t be allowed to have kids.

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    KillRomance3 Female 13-17
    142 posts
    October 25, 2006 at 11:13 pm
    *sigh*
    WOW
    Yeah I`m a teen and all. go figure.
    And i`ve not done hardly ANY of these things.
    Frankly they made me want to hurl violently ALL OVER the people who are doing them
  123. Profile photo of jjcruiser13
    jjcruiser13 Female 18-29
    706 posts
    October 30, 2006 at 11:47 am
    "7% of the kids in that highschool have had other people watch them have sex? Yeah either they lied or they polled kids from St. Mary`s School for Prostitutes."

    My b/f and I let our best male friend watch us because we`re really close to him and we`re comforatable with our bodies and don`t care if someone watches. I don`t think that someone who lets another person watch them have sex makes them a prostitute. Some people even get turned on when they know others are watching.

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    jjcruiser13 Female 18-29
    706 posts
    October 30, 2006 at 11:53 am
    BTW, I waited to lose my virginity! I waited until I fell in love. I don`t need a scrap of paper to tell me when to have sex.
  125. Profile photo of MissCarCrash
    MissCarCrash Female 13-17
    3 posts
    November 24, 2006 at 10:35 pm
    That is just so sad. The worse part is, if asked and put on the spot, the teens would probably lie about this stuff. That is just sad.
  126. Profile photo of FLB
    FLB Female 18-29
    1229 posts
    January 30, 2007 at 5:56 am
    some of these are kind of shocking.
    Parents must be living under a rock.
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    wayxgone Female 50-59
    7 posts
    October 7, 2007 at 12:16 pm
    wow. talk about lack of common sense.I think teens should stay virgins till marriage... I`m going to stay one till marriage...why can`t people wait till they have that special someone? Do people have to be used up dry by the time they get married?..
  128. Profile photo of GothicQueen
    GothicQueen Male 13-17
    4376 posts
    October 8, 2007 at 6:38 pm
    “Their old school had a lot of acting out, like gothic kids. About 10 percent thought they were bisexual.”
    Mother of a 13-year-old girl


    that comment drating pised me off

    so what goth kids are bad influences and acting out? i`m sorry but i am so sick of gothic sterotyping. maybe i should sterotype her as a christian bible huping tight wad stuck up (unt im sure she`d like that right

  129. Profile photo of GothicQueen
    GothicQueen Male 13-17
    4376 posts
    October 8, 2007 at 6:41 pm
    and i lost my virginity when i was 13. of course theguy was 21 and told me he loved me and pretty much raped when i told him i didn`t want it and he jumped me anyway......but yea.....i still had sex after that tho but sometimes i wish i waited until i was with my fiance only because i love him so0 much and i was his first and i wish i couldve been his...

    oh well

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    CassyJayy Female 13-17
    6 posts
    November 7, 2007 at 3:45 am
    Haha Wow..Just Wow..

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