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Date: 12/09/04 01:15 PM

31 Responses to Men to Avoid…Period!

  1. Profile photo of KikiPeepers
    KikiPeepers Female 30-39
    2247 posts
    December 9, 2004 at 1:14 pm
    Link: Men to Avoid...Period! - One woman`s list of definite dating don`ts

    Some almost seem common sense, but I guess there are women who will accept anything ;-)

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    jagger04 Male 50-59
    538 posts
    December 9, 2004 at 7:54 pm
    i really dont do any of those except i talk to my mom more than twice a week sometimes
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    James78 Male 18-29
    42 posts
    December 9, 2004 at 8:06 pm
    Ha ha ha, funny and very informative. Though most men are guilty of at least one thing on that list!
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    Cindy75 Female 30-39
    790 posts
    December 9, 2004 at 8:27 pm
    OMG! Im married to that man!! Hahahaha.
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    flovebunny Female 18-29
    406 posts
    December 9, 2004 at 8:38 pm
    haha i agreed with all of them except: If he doesn`t put the moves on by the end of the third date, hefs terrible at closing other deals, too. Take heed.
    what`s put the moves on? kiss? sleep with you? if it`s the latter, he might just be a decent guy who doesn`t want to ruin a good thing. just my opinion...
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    bekahlynne Female 18-29
    33 posts
    December 9, 2004 at 9:36 pm
    Personally, I think this was silly. There were way too many stereotypes, and some of the things she said just didn`t make any sense. It kinda sounds like to me, that you should avoid any guy who has any values and is different from "normal" guys. Lots of "normal" guys are not good with relationships. And I disagree with number 27! Just because you have an artistic hobby that you haven`t gone professional with, doesn`t mean you suck, or are stuck up about it. This article needs some re-thinking.
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    Aigidh Female 18-29
    785 posts
    December 9, 2004 at 10:24 pm
    I think mostly I agree with number 5. Ugh, if I were dating a guy who did something like that I`d dump him immedietly!! Otherwise there were some points I disagreed with. I agree with the last two posts motly. ^.^;
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    AyEcHiHuAhUa Female 18-29
    91 posts
    December 9, 2004 at 10:34 pm
    Some of them are good...but most are kinda ridiculous. No one is perfect and if someone actually stuck to that list they`d be single forever. Kinda silly.
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    LolaGabanna Female 18-29
    748 posts
    December 9, 2004 at 10:55 pm
    This list is right on the same level with The Rules, if you ask me... so completely stupid.
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    JLiu Female 30-39
    863 posts
    December 9, 2004 at 11:23 pm
    HA! I love the pappi comment. I live in South Florida, they ALL refer to themselves as "Pappi." I also like the velour rule, should go for womyn too.
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    Nneri Female 13-17
    992 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 12:25 am
    All I gotta say is....soooooo true!
  12. Profile photo of Kamichi-chan
    Kamichi-chan Female 13-17
    621 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 1:55 am
    Okay, this`ll be long, so feel free to skip over it... But I felt the need to comment on a few of the things she listed. :-P

    6. He drinks pink adult beverages claiming he’s fine with his sexuality. You’ll have to fight over your china pattern, bedding fabric, and candle scent. And he’ll critique your shoes.

    )-| … So what? The only drink men can have is a beer, eh? Screw that. A man who accepts that just because a drink is pink or another frilly color doesn’t mean he can’t drink it is probably a better pick. Besides, the frilly drinks taste better.

    7. If he favors generic vanilla wafer cookies, just-add-water products, and frozen chicken wings, your life together will be as slow as the people who work at Duane Reade.

    )-| But, I LIKE vanilla wafers and frozen chicken wings!

    16. If he whines, squeals, or giggles, you’ll have to constantly remind yourself he’s not the one with the ovaries.

    And what’s wrong with that? A ma

  13. Profile photo of Kamichi-chan
    Kamichi-chan Female 13-17
    621 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 1:56 am
    n can`t be a little feminine? Again, why does a man have to be macho-manly to still be a guy?

    22. If he doesn`t put the moves on by the end of the third date, he’s terrible at closing other deals, too. Take heed.

    Or maybe he’s just a nice guy who actually might respect that you might not want any moves put on you so soon, or is waiting for you to make some sort of move.

    27. Any guy that a) has a musical instrument but has never played professionally (save for the acoustic guitar because that`s just HOT), b) has a canvas and paints but never been in a gallery, c) has truffle oil but is not a chef at a restaurant; he is only marginally talented, and you’ll be forced to enjoy his "talents" in awe for too long.


    I take offense at that. I’m working to be an artist, and I’m trying to become an animator. I know many fellow artists, many who paint, but do not want it as a career. >>>

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    Kamichi-chan Female 13-17
    621 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 1:57 am
    Just because you CAN paint or ENJOY painting does NOT mean you have to do it for a living, or have had any pieces publicly shown.

    29. He claims to be a metrosexual aloud. He’s gay.

    )-| I know a couple of guys like this, and I’ve known them long enough to know that they aren’t gay. Yeah, be a little wary, but don’t just assume they’re gay.

    31. He already knows the words to Gavin DeGraw songs. He’s too effeminate to spank you in bed.

    Uh. And why exactly would I want him to spank me? :-P Half of these are just about sex. Appreciate the guy for who he is, not just whether he’ll do one thing or another in bed.

    36. He’s sensitive and wants to talk about your relationship all the drating time. Thread count notwithstanding, some things are just too soft, and soft doesn’t do us much good in the bedroom. I don’t care what he’s read in Cosmo. >>>

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    Kamichi-chan Female 13-17
    621 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 1:57 am
    Again, I don’t care about the bedroom that much. Chill out, lady, some people might like talking about their relationship rather than screwing 24/7.


    40. If he shaves, waxes, or lazers his arms, legs, or chest and isn’t a professional swimmer or diver, swim away.

    Why? I don’t like hairy men. :-D Having one that shaves would be a plus.

    42. He quotes Shakespeare, reads the Iliad for fun, and doesn`t just own, but uses, drink coasters. He`ll want to see your wedding dress before you actually buy it to ensure it`s up to snuff.

    So he’s intelligent and doesn’t want his tables getting ruined by condensation? Oooh, yeah girls, better run!

    44. If when you go out for sushi, he always orders chicken teriyaki, you’ve got a chicken poo on your hands with no sense of adventure.

    I hate sushi and I’m the person who’d be getting the chicken teriyaki. :-P I despise fish, maybe he does too? Why should I just leave him because he doesnR

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    Kamichi-chan Female 13-17
    621 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 1:58 am
    doesn’t want to eat raw fish?

    45. Avoid any man who speaks with his mother more than twice a week; he might as well still be milking.


    As a person who holds her relationship with her mother above most everything else, I really take offense at that. I would enjoy a man who also finds his mother important, especially because men with close relationships with their mother are usually more sensitive and from my experience more artistic. I enjoy sensitive and artistic men.


    Overall: Stupid link. :-)

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    AlphaMan2 Male 18-29
    9 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 6:09 am
    "had "close" relationships with other women"
    paranoid much?
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    big_fridge Female 13-17
    139 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 6:53 am
    What kind of man does that woman actually WANT? I agree with kamichi-clan on this - there are many points she has said, that are totally acceptable. I too dislike hairy men. I wish my boyfriend would de-fuzz his armpits... ick!
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    talleysgrrl Female 30-39
    359 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 7:19 am
    I think this can all be summed up with this...Different strokes for different folks. `Nuf said.
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    Wennana Female 18-29
    179 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 7:25 am
    booooooooring
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    EstiloPanama Female 18-29
    2074 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 8:46 am
    Interesting...

    I had a list of what I wanted and did not want in a man. I wanted a man with morals and who was different from others, and one with standanrds. I would not have married anyone that looked at porn, went to strip clubs, smoked, or drank excessively, didn`t believe in God and Jesus, and who has "close" relationships with other women who are not family( aka: best friends...Yea right)..that is a disaster waiting to happen!

    Now, I am married to a handsome, wonderful, well mannered, Marine that believe in God and Jesus.

    Life is wonderful.

    Good luck to all you single ladies out there looking for the right guy. There are only handful of good men on this earth. Seriously.

    P.S. If you think my list was too picky, it`s because I am well worth it. ;)

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    skywisejf Male 18-29
    440 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 9:47 am
    Great job,Kamichi-chan lol :D,You basicly defended me,and like,10 other friends.
    Are you a geeket bytheway ?

    My only comment on the artical is that shes obviusly trying to shock people,to get more reads,i bet shes the first to buy a robot-husband when they come out,Thats the only thing that could live up to her standards.<-sarcasm.

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    kathaclysm Female 18-29
    326 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 2:10 pm
    Oy... *eye roll*
    I think I`ll leave my ture comments on her website, maybe the rest of you with long lists should do the same....but basically, if you`re a guy out there, avoid women who make lists like this... you`ll always be "plan b".
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    loomer Male 13-17
    76 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 2:56 pm
    kamichi-chan

    i respect you for spendin your time to write your comments and express yourself

    there`s a lot of people just drift through the net like idiots and use no brain power at all

    well done boo ya

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    skywisejf Male 18-29
    440 posts
    December 10, 2004 at 6:46 pm
    good advice kat,thx
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    ShaggyR Male 18-29
    176 posts
    December 11, 2004 at 2:26 am
    Judging by the length of this list, this woman has obviously been with countless amounts of men and is clearly a whore.
  27. Profile photo of Kamichi-chan
    Kamichi-chan Female 13-17
    621 posts
    December 11, 2004 at 1:26 pm
    Great job,Kamichi-chan lol :D,You basicly defended me,and like,10 other friends.
    Are you a geeket bytheway ?

    - - - :-D Thanks.

    I’m glad I could defend you. :-) This woman is much too picky, and her list basically excludes every man from her standards. I’m not saying you can’t have standards or expectations - I’m sure everyone does, but dang, this woman is crazy and probably very high maintanance. If anyone followed those expectations, they’d be VERY lonely.

    And, assuming I understand what you mean by "geeket," yes I am. :-)
    ----
    kamichi-chan
    i respect you for spendin your time to write your comments and express yourself
    there`s a lot of people just drift through the net like idiots and use no brain power at all
    well done boo ya

    - - - :-) Again, thanks! At first I thought you were going to disagree with me, you know, like “I respect your opinion, buuuut….” :-P It was a nice surprise to be agreed with.<

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    jasendorf Male 30-39
    130 posts
    December 14, 2004 at 5:08 pm
    like anyone would take advice from the ultimate journal whore... this chick makes YT`s journal whores look like amateurs.
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    OPC Female 18-29
    4 posts
    February 19, 2005 at 3:25 pm
    This is beyond stupid...I don`t have much respect for that person....
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    muggyloc Female 40-49
    755 posts
    March 9, 2005 at 4:47 am
    I just want an honest man with morals nuttin else matters!
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    h0ax_d3m0n Male 18-29
    2513 posts
    December 4, 2006 at 5:35 pm
    but basically, if you`re a guy out there, avoid women who make lists like this... you`ll always be "plan b".

    ^^^^^

    if i meet a women who makes lists like this she`ll be my plan b...possibly c

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